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MrsRamsay (9 stories) (190 posts)
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9 months ago (2020-09-25)
Actually just read my own comment and don't know how to take it back at this point... Thinking of my own inability with languages I guess, but completely ignored all of the people throughout history who HAVE learned new languages to pray, including my own Catholic mother in law, praying mass in Latin. Oops. Just shut me up now.

Brenda, what Aussie says... Crazy, but these days sounds plausible. Please know we're all rooting for you and praying for your family. Have courage and faith and take joy from your life as you fight this (what sounds like evil). Count your blessings. Persevere, and don't give up.
MrsRamsay (9 stories) (190 posts)
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9 months ago (2020-09-25)
Pinksweety, I wasn't being rude, just ignorant. Admittedly.
Again, it was your suggestion that an American learn a whole new language in order to recite a prayer. Just sort of made me laugh and think you might not be serious. Now we know you were. It's all ok.
Shabtslover (11 posts)
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9 months ago (2020-09-25)
also Lady glow your question made me think about the shlokas we have here for most of the Indian people don't know Sanskrit, but our shlokas are in Sanskrit, and for me when I recite some of them, they really calm me down and most of the time I am wrongly pronouncing them though, which you absolutely shouldn't according to my elders๐Ÿ˜‚ because they can have opposite effects like for mantras and stuff but I think that they still make me feel really calm and protected but I could be wrong๐Ÿ’€๐Ÿ˜‚
Shabtslover (11 posts)
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9 months ago (2020-09-25)
and [at] MrsRamsay, It's super fine like I have read a lot of your comments and I know you didn't mean it and since it's something you didn't know about so you don't need to apologize ๐Ÿ˜ and I definitely understand the part that learning any language is very difficult and I also agree with lady glow that the words if mispronounced may have some other effect, but for me I always think that as long as you have it playing, like any prayer in any language, with devotion or imagining the power you are praying to as your protector, It will work, because I believe that God would look at your feelings rather than the words and that would bring us back to just having faith in god like MrsRamsay said but then again I don't know anything about handling paranormal stuff so I wouldn't want BrendaDances to take the risk

OH AND last time I didn't know that we shouldn't use words like cuz or short from so since it's my habit I am sorry about that, I tried to write this one without using them but if I did without knowing I am sorryy
Shabtslover (11 posts)
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9 months ago (2020-09-25)
[at] BrendaDances I am so sorry for making you feel like that, it was never my intention: (
aussiedaz (18 stories) (1515 posts)
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9 months ago (2020-09-24)
It's early am here in Aus excuse the typo,

Have you or your husband ever felt a sharp pain in the left calf muscle?

Has your husband ever experienced bouts of lost time or remember anything weird about his childhood?

Regards!
aussiedaz (18 stories) (1515 posts)
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9 months ago (2020-09-24)
BrendaDances

I'm wondering if you and your husband are a part of an extra terrestrial programme? From my own research, the watchers have been interacting with humans for thousands of years on many human hybrid programs in Zechatia's Sitchin's own interpretation on the Sumerian Tablets he claims these watchers are the ones who basically kicked off the human family by using their own DNA mixed in with the Neanderthal ape. Btw, it's just a theory no offence intended for those who have religious belief systems however the Sumerian Tablets are real 1000's of years old and and still with us.

I have a few times in my life experienced what your husband has and yes if you are a part of their program there's very little you can do about it however understanding we are not alone and still a very primitive young society offers you some perspective as to why they treat us the way they do.

Although there are some other theories that suggest we do consent with most of these programs prior to entering the earth matrix from one of the other dimensions?

Anyway, if you were a part of these programs there would most likely be other strange episodes associated with them.

Did you are your husband ever feel a sharp pain in the left calf muscle?

Regards Daz
Pinksweety (28 posts)
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9 months ago (2020-09-24)
Lady-glow: I had emailed Brenda because she herself had said that she is not comfortable sharing the graphic details of her experiences. If you read the previous comments by Mrs. Ramsay you will understand why it provoked the religious sentiments. She had directly told Brenda not to message me. Mrs. Ramsay had mocked Lord Hanuman... The way she spoke was very rude.
lady-glow (13 stories) (2815 posts)
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9 months ago (2020-09-24)
MrsRamsay.

Not taking sides but I understand what you mean, in my opinion the most important part in any ritual is the faith of the person on what they are doing. In this particular case, the OP has made it clear that they are not a religious person, hence it would be difficult for Brenda to believe blindly on something that she isn't familiar with.

Add to this the fact that the prayer to Hanuman is in a language not spoken by the OP, - would Brenda be able to recite/chant the prayer properly?

I wonder if such prayer would be powerful if some words are inadvertently changed/pronounced? As an example, in Spanish, the words este, รฉste and estรฉ might look the same to a non Spanish speaking person, but their meaning is not the same (east; this one; a form of the verb to be, respectively). What would it happen in the case of something similar taking place when chanting the prayer?
Would it work if, instead of saying the words, a non awadhi speaker plays a recording of the chalisa?

Pinksweety - not meaning to offend anyone but, when it comes to the paranormal there's nothing like an "one fits all" solution for all cases.
I know you are trying to help but keep in mind that many members of the forum are here trying to understand, learn from, and help the people facing a paranormal situation, in my opinion it would be best if the discussion is open to all the members instead of doing it via email. Besides, at this point you have still to prove your knowledge and expertise in the paranormal field.
I have nothing against you and the advice you can provide but, unfortunately, neither have anything to say on your favor.

BrendaDances.

I have no advice to offer but am following the feedback and updates to your experience. Praying for a solution to your problem.
MrsRamsay (9 stories) (190 posts)
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9 months ago (2020-09-24)
To Shabtslover,
I do apologize, did NOT mean to offend. Truly, I think what made me go, "hmmm" was the suggestion that someone learn an entire language in order to deal with this. I meant to go look things up, but just got busy and haven't been here to reply.

Truly, I respect your beliefs and should not have been so flip. From your reaction, you sound like a very nice young person. Peace and love from Georgia!
BrendaDances (1 stories) (23 posts)
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9 months ago (2020-09-14)
Thank you Shabtslover I will think on what you said.

Also if any of you have a problem with solutions presented to me Please feel free to email me another option. It would be more productive that arguments here.

Its too easy for feeling to be hurt and I do not want anyone else being hurt over my issues. I am hurting enough for everyone.
BrendaDances (1 stories) (23 posts)
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9 months ago (2020-09-14)
I have enough drama here at home with out having to see it on the page. Please keep disagreements off this page since they don't really help anyone.

I have been getting good advice and and help here and it has not been easy but I do not have anything bad to say about anyone. Even in private emails everyone has been very helpful and upfront.

Thank you for your support and please be calm and do not fight here.
Shabtslover (11 posts)
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9 months ago (2020-09-13)
alsoo to the author, I don't know much about ways to prevent these kind of stuff but as notjustme said having faith actually helps a lot, as in my previous post, which I am again really sorry to you too cuz I said all that when I should be posting about YOU! Having faith in Hanuman as my brother has saved me a lot of times and it actually feels like he is with me just like a human brother would be, I talk to him, we fight, I get angry at him, I think that it is my right to be saved by him as his sister, ofc I give him bananas in return too๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚, so if you are having a hard time believing you can try that method with Jesus or Your mother or any guide, and I am very bad at English so I don't know how to say it but I send you lots of strength and happiness to deal with thiss
Shabtslover (11 posts)
 
9 months ago (2020-09-13)
Hey MrsRamsay, I just made this account to clarify that Hanuman is actually a very important part of our Indian culture, just like Jesus for christians, now I personally don't follow any religion but I really have faith in Hnauman or known as the monkey god and I have been treating him like a brother since I was a kid and he has helped me a lot, And I know you may have felt like it may be a cult or something cuz a "monkey" god but it's just our culture like fox familiar in Japan, like that, also Awadhi isn't a monkey god language but it's a language of India, just like Japanese and English, so that was what Pinky person meant, Ik it may sound sketchy to you cuz not a lot of people know about our Indian cultue and gods but as pinky person said we consider the Hanuman chalisa which is like Bible quotes for us very powerful, if you read the Indian stories posted here you will find what I am talking about, And I would want you to not say anything like that again without knowing because I may be getting oversensitive but I have been treating him as family, I don't even believe in gods and stuff I just think of him as a human brother, and there is this festival here in India called Rakshabandhan where sisters tie a thread around their brother, s wrist and the brothers vow to protect the sisters, now I just did that as a kid thinking that if I have the most powerful god as my brother then according to this festival he would save me anytime and he has, even from myself when I tried to take my life so you saying that just made me feel really bad oof... Also I am only 17 so like if I am super emo I am soryyyyy but yeah I would say next time be a bit careful cuz I thought you feel same way about Jesus so you may understand where I am coming from... Also our Indian culture is very rich so there are very different kinds of gods but I assure you they are not sketchy, also a lot of people know about Buddhism which actually originated here in our country but don't know about Hinduism, that kind of makes me sad but I don't know why I really felt like crying when you called him sketchy so like you don't gotta believe in him or something but please respect our culture: (
ALSO I AM SORRY AGAIN IF I SOUND TOO SENSITIVEEE OR OVERREACTING
Pinksweety (28 posts)
 
9 months ago (2020-09-13)
MrsRamsay do not speak about the things which you are ignorant about. Your attitude is very discouraging. You have no right to ask BrendaDances to stop messaging me. And what sounds like a sketch to you may I know? Your very ignorance in fact sounds sketchy to me.
Pinksweety (28 posts)
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9 months ago (2020-09-13)
It's ok BrendaDances if you don't trust me. But here it's like a open discussion for all the members and as a group member, a person can suggest what he/she feels about the situation. No member has the right to criticise or mock a suggestion that is given to a needy member. It's upto the member to consider the advice or not.
Sullykim (1 posts)
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9 months ago (2020-09-12)
I sure am hoping for the best outcome for your family! Please let us know how it goes. โค
MrsRamsay (9 stories) (190 posts)
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9 months ago (2020-09-12)
Good luck. I suggest you don't email with Pinksweety or whatever. Sounds sketch.
Ha, like you're going to learn some monkey god language? Holy cow. No pun intended.
BrendaDances (1 stories) (23 posts)
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9 months ago (2020-09-11)
We are working with remote help and yesterday we contacted a local group for assistance.

This thing has done ALLOT of damage to my family and I am not sure what the outcome will be but now I have some help.
BrendaDances (1 stories) (23 posts)
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9 months ago (2020-09-02)
The house is new construction with no history. The land was unincorporated. I know in the early 1800 it was Indian land, after that it was part of Rancho until after the end of the Mexican American war. Then the land changes hands a few time and becomes unincorporated in the 1920's

Also the night I slept in the room I dreamed of woman before everything happened. She was small with long straight black hair. Very beautiful I can't remember her words it was more feel. Warm and comforting I remember her playing with my hair.

It could just be a dream but I don't know.
Pinksweety (28 posts)
 
9 months ago (2020-09-02)
What about the history of the house? You didn't say anything about it. Did you enquire with previous tenants?
Pinksweety (28 posts)
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9 months ago (2020-09-02)
Hi Brenda, I have already sent you a mail. Do check in your free time. By the way are you aware of Lord Hanuman? The hindu Monkey God? Well, I suggest you first do little surfing on net to know about him and ghosts... Then download the Hanuman Chalisa and recite it loudly... Mind you it's in awadhi language... So it will take some time for you to learn it... Do it with full devotion by bringing a picture of Hanumanji in your mind... It will surely help... Jus read it loudly when that incident happens... One on one... Write it down on a page and read loudly... It will work
AugustaM (6 stories) (994 posts)
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9 months ago (2020-09-02)
In terms of pets and allergies, there are breeds of both dogs and cats that are hypoallergenic- such as poodles. All breeds have rescues, I recommend contacting one and chatting with them about it.

As for having a belief in something to combat this thing, it doesn't have to be Jesus or god or necessarily Christian in nature. There are many paths to divinity and all have their merits. I am a pagan and my firmest belief is that if there is anyone out there looking out for me, it is less likely to be a deity than one of my own ancestors. I have had experiences enough to solidify my belief that my maternal grandparents and great grandfather are definitely keeping an eye on me and my mother. You need to pick your own path and not feel constrained by mainstream culture - I figure you can still sort of maintain a mostly atheist stance *and* call on ancestors to protect you if that sits well in your mind. It is belief that gives any method of dealing with this sort of thing it's "teeth."

As crazy as it sounds, maybe look into tantric (ummm) "relations" (trying to stay PG) with your husband. Without going into too much adult detail, it does rather make the act a ritual in and of itself, which may be a power worth igniting at this point in time. Show this entity that the bond between the two of you is in no way weakened by its tawdry advances.

Also, consider placing "talismans" of your own around the space - souvenirs from good times, pieces that were given to you or made for you with love, images of loved ones both here today and those who have passed on - things that bring you joy and happy memories. Play music that makes you smile - sing and dance along. Have friends over for game nights (COVID permitting). Fill your home with joy and laughter.

I recommend this site all the time but it's a good one so here I go again - it's a pretty decent compendium for folk remedies for this sort of thing and many of its suggestions are quite simple; things like placing a dish of white vinegar in the effected space (in your case, the closet) and allowing it to evaporate (we use this method in our kitchen as we have a little lady there who likes us and our cats just fine but tends to like to scare guests).

Https://www.ghostlyactivities.com/herbs-protect-evil-spirits/?amp

Most of all, stay strong, show this thing who is boss, be kind to each other and never go to bed angry.
BrendaDances (1 stories) (23 posts)
 
9 months ago (2020-09-01)
My daughter has asthma and is very allergic to dogs and cats. She can't even handle a hamster in the house with out it triggering an exacerbation.

Yes it went after me but I am reluctant to say the details here. We are suppose to keep this very non-explicit and I am not sure how to explain it all with out pushing that to the edge. It's also rather embarrassing. That is the limiting factor here that at times is very frustrating since details and thoughts could be important. It's part of why I put my email in my profile so I could talk unhindered if someone needed more detail.

Suffice it to say I kind of went in with the attitude and intent I was challenging it to try something and it did... And I was not equal to the task.
Pinksweety (28 posts)
 
9 months ago (2020-09-01)
We all have an idea of what torture you are going through. But we also need to know what is happening at the present. My heart really goes out to you during this tough time. As I have told you before why are you hesitating to bring a dog as a pet in your home? I'm sure it will help
Pinksweety (28 posts)
 
9 months ago (2020-09-01)
Brenda, are you trying to say that it attacked you also? Please tell us in detail. I'm really interested to know what happened.
BrendaDances (1 stories) (23 posts)
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9 months ago (2020-08-31)
Maybe I was too Brave. It went after me. I don't know how to express what I experienced here, but I am no longer in any way blaming husband... I think we need a priest or something. I will talk to my fiend that got us the Holy Water. Really not feeling very comfortable talking about this here. It just feels so much more personal now.
notjustme (19 stories) (850 posts)
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9 months ago (2020-08-31)
Brenda, you're brave af. See? You got this. Please keep us updated
BrendaDances (1 stories) (23 posts)
 
9 months ago (2020-08-31)
Last 2 nights in the living room camping have been quiet. I am going to try tonight to sleep alone in our room while he stays with our daughter. We have the salt lamp on now on my side table.
MrsRamsay (9 stories) (190 posts)
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9 months ago (2020-08-30)
Brenda, I think you're getting some good advice here, pick and choose as you will! Your story is so fantastic, but we are taking it seriously and you need to know you are not alone in your discomfort!

I keep getting the vibe that this thing is NOT a HER. So I think you need to stop personifying it! You're onto something about the Himilayan salt thing being a wedding gift, and the campout in the living room was a GREAT idea! I think the key to shutting this thing out is to continue the family circle strengthening. But also, the idea to go into that closet and really open it up is something I like. It caused me to wonder if there is anything in there that might have some bad energy? Maybe a really good cleaning, even (this might sound weird) emptying it all out, getting a can of white paint and having the paint blessed by a priest (do priests do that, I'm Methodist?) Then paint that closet together while asking for the armor of God's protection. I can't reiterate enough, Jesus and God do not discriminate based on your views at this moment in time. You are still a child of God and Jesus (if you are a Christian, you believe this) gave his life FOR you, unconditionally. All you need to do is ask for help. I realize this sounds like I'm a church lady. I can assure you I rarely go to church. But so many things in my lifetime have led me specifically to my beliefs. Spiritual things that can only be attributed to a higher power. And there is a reason, in my faith, we are told to ask for the protection of God's Angels when spiritual warfare is involved. You are in the midst of such warfare, and should use the tools we've been given as humans. If you are honest about it being hard to believe, that's ok. If you aren't even ready to believe, that's ok too. He will still help you! That's what's cool about Jesus. He can wait until you are ready. I AM sorry for this somewhat preaching here and hope I have not offended anyone. I'm a beginner chearleader for my faith and usually don't talk about it.
The_Lost_Voyage_11 (2 stories) (67 posts)
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9 months ago (2020-08-29)
Brendadances, this entity/spirit or whatever it is seems puzzling. Typically a 'succubus' if that's indeed what it is, attaches itself to a male, this seems to be the case in everything I've read including first hand encounters. This entity, whatever it is, however seems to be confined to the bedroom and the focal point seems to be the closet. Moreover it's rare that a 3rd party witnesses the 'activities' between a succubus and it's male partner. I don't believe this is what it appears to be. If you and your husband are comfortable with it, I'd search the closet throughly together and in broad daylight. Prop the door wide open, flood the room with daylight and prop the bedroom door open. Take note of feelings while you're in there, but see if there's anything unusual in there. I can't tell you what you're looking for, just look for anything out of the ordinary, a hidden panel, anything on the walls, anything done in there to cover something up like an opening or something. I would also take the cleansing rituals in there afterward and then extend them out into the bedroom. You had mentioned in a post after this weekend trying to stay the night in your bedroom alone if things went well, I would advise against this, if your encounter in the closet is any indication of what this thing is capable of. I wouldn't let anyone stay in that room until it is purged of this force completely. Stay strong and please keep us apprised of your progress! Good luck!
LuciaJacinta (8 stories) (291 posts)
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9 months ago (2020-08-29)
Ok I agree with the previous poster. Why not just be intimate with him right before bed so that it would be less likely to occur again do soon. And agree with Mrs Ramsey, if you see it aroused, jump on him. Not a three some but it would you with your husband. Pay that thing no mind.

You may not believe in religion but you believe in LOVE and that is something. Love is a power. Guard that love, protect it. Spend time in date nights and rekindling the sparks. Make your love strong.

I also would watch your words if you address it. You said to "go somewhere else"--- my immediate thought was the somewhere else could be your daughter's room. Be careful how you phrase things.

There are probably paranormal investigation teams in the area that are *neutral" in beliefs. They might help.
Triskaideka (2 stories) (388 posts)
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9 months ago (2020-08-29)
I like the idea of beating the succubus to the punch. Rekindle that flame and take care of him first. Unless he has an extremely short refractory period, the succubus will likely be left unsatisfied, then hopefully move on. But I also know that maybe it won't matter. Sleeping in another room sounds like a good idea as well. And if worse comes to worse - well, there is ancient garb one might wear to prevent solidification in the first place. I want to pretend I'm being coy but honestly I don't remember what those things are called. It's a chastity guarding thing. So I'd make sure his climax occurred soon before bed then strap him up with a chastity guarder. Then do the other stuff too, salt, candles, prayer, etc.
Pinksweety (28 posts)
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9 months ago (2020-08-29)
BrendaDances: I think the house cleaning has been effective in getting rid of it... Do keep on doing it on a regular basis. It really helps.
notjustme (19 stories) (850 posts)
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9 months ago (2020-08-29)
You are right to trust your instincts because things communicate telepathically. They know what you fear most, which is losing your husband to this. They can sense what is going through your mind. So if that happens again, I know fear is the first thing you will feel, but then think of your family. Build the courage and shout at it in your head. Say go away in the name of Jesus. Or Light if you can't bring yourself to do it. You have to stay strong and have faith. Like someone mentioned below, just because Jesus or Buddha, etc isn't your usual go-to...doesn't mean they won't help.
Please, for the sake of your family, just try it. Maybe really get a blessed bible and leave it in your bedroom. Or even tell husband to wear a cross. This is coming from a non Christian but always felt Jesus had my back. It is now a spiritual battle. But know YOU are in control because IT is coming into YOUR world, so get your faith together and continue doing what you're doing. ๐Ÿ™
BrendaDances (1 stories) (23 posts)
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9 months ago (2020-08-28)
Last night was quiet and peaceful. My husband went to work this morning, so I went to do laundry and gathered clothes from the hamper by the closet. The door was open as usual and I felt the odd feeling of someone standing very close to me. I went to put something in the closet and the door closed behind me and left me in pitch darkness. I was started and turned to open the door but it was like I was disoriented and all I felt clothing when I reached out.

I felt very afraid. I called out to my daughter but she didn't hear me. Then I had all these odd flashes in my mind, memories of watching my husband loose his control and climax. I could actually smell it. Then I could see the light under the door of the closet and was able to get out.

I am telling my self the windows where open so a breeze could have closed the door, and the memories where just me panicking, and I had dirty laundry in my arms so that could have been the smell, but my fear keeps saying it was her telling me she was still there and he belonged to her.

I am not going in there again alone until my husband is home.
Pinksweety (28 posts)
 
9 months ago (2020-08-28)
BrendaDances:I would like to know about the closet. Does it still open by itself? Have you observed recently? Try bringing a dog in your home and make him to sniff around the closet and under your cot/bed.
The_Lost_Voyage_11 (2 stories) (67 posts)
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9 months ago (2020-08-27)
Hello BrendaDances, so moving away from the room worked, that's great news! I had a feeling based on your story that this disturbance was focused on the bedroom. I'm not sure why that's the case, but you mentioned that you also are using the cleansing ritual. Now you know where to focus it. I would use it in the entire house of course but put extra effort into your bedroom. Camping out in the living room for the weekend is an excellent idea and the time away and rest will allow you to reconnect with one another and as a family. It will also give you the space to continue to research and come up with a plan of action. You may consider contacting a reputable medium (do your research on this one) or contacting a clergyman at the church. I know you don't subscribe to religion, but many of them will help whether you are of their faith or not, and it could actually be the solution. These are only suggestions, do what feels comfortable to you and please keep us apprised of your progress!
notjustme (19 stories) (850 posts)
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9 months ago (2020-08-27)
Good for you girl. Keep doing what you're doing as you build Faith. Thanks for keeping us posted.
t_bev (3 stories) (32 posts)
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9 months ago (2020-08-27)
BrendaDances - Thanks for the details on what's worked and hasn't for you. Sounds like you're determined and really doing what you've got to do. I applaud you for dealing with this as you have. It's a crazy story and I'm glad you found people on here who listened and genuinely seemed to want to help you.
BrendaDances (1 stories) (23 posts)
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9 months ago (2020-08-27)
What has and has not worked

Firmly addressing it and telling it to go - it just seems to increase its activity on him making him loose it faster.

Envisioning a white shield or ball of light to push it away. I have done that with no effect. Husband quickly looses focus due to the feeling and is simply fighting not to climax.

Praying really didn't seem to have an effect but I don't really consider myself religious so that could have been self defeated.

Holding his hand and simply trying to express my love and support ended up making his climaxes feel all the more devastating to witness.

Vacating the room and house blessing and positive family energy - So far so good. I have hopes for this one being the key to start defeating this.

Salt- I realized we have a Himalaya salt lamp given as a wedding present and its still in its box in the garage. Gonna dig it out today and put it in the room. I am hoping both the salt and the fact is was a wedding gift have an effect. A catholic friend is also bringing us a vial of holy water from their priest.
t_bev (3 stories) (32 posts)
 
9 months ago (2020-08-27)
BrendaDances - I'm curious as to whether or not you tried any of the cleansing or self protection practices mentioned by other posters; and if so which ones? I think it would be helpful to know what has been productive in your efforts to deal with this Succubus; or whatever it is.

Has just sleeping outside the room with the fam, creating some positive bonding time, been the remedy?

Looking forward to an update. Best wishes and way to go on taking back what's your's!
blancdada (1 stories) (17 posts)
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9 months ago (2020-08-27)
BrendaDances, great to know! โค

I hope everything goes smoothly for you and your family. Wish you all the best!

Please keep us updated ๐Ÿ˜Š
BrendaDances (1 stories) (23 posts)
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9 months ago (2020-08-27)
We had a living room camp out with daughter even put up her pup tent and got our sleeping bags and did smores on the stove.

No disturbances. Best night of sleep I have had in weeks. We are going to camp out through the weekend then I will try a night in the room alone.

So far so good.
MrsRamsay (9 stories) (190 posts)
 
9 months ago (2020-08-27)
Brenda, GOOD, I'm glad you laughed about the Bible there. Hey, how many stories have you heard about a pocket Bible saving a soldier's life in a war? There's gotta be something to those stories!

Laughter seems to be something all evil wants to see disappear! Just look at the state of our world right now. There is a battle going on between good and evil right now, and I know I sound like a church lady, which I am not; however, I am a Christian and I have experienced things related to my faith that only give me greater faith. You might not want to hear this, but I'm going to say it: Jesus loves you even more because you have not had a chance to discover Him yet. He won't let you go, all you have to do is ask. And you can even ask if you don't quite believe, I think that is something important for you to know. Please know, I'm not trying to push you to be a Christian, but to let you know there is absolutely nothing wrong with asking for help. If I were you, I'd ask humbly for help from Jesus, Buhdda, and whomever else I could think of, without hesitation or shame. But like you said, think good, think light, think love. Not the opposite. Not jealousy but Empathy. If you think your husband isn't strong enough to resist, then YOU give him that strength. I think marriage is all about that. When one of you is weak, you have the other to lean on and gain strength from. My husband and I have our worst days when both of us are feeling down at the same time (very rare).

Mostly, ya'll go out and do some fun things as a family! Go be together! The Lost Voyage put it so much better than I did (haha, so much for me being a writer). Remember your marriage vows together. Perhaps there's a reason they are written as they are! "What God has joined together, let no one put asunder." (or is it no man? Anyway). Yeah girl, CLAIM your man back from whatever weird stuff this is. Keep that California sun shining in. Clean that house, bring in flowers and brightness, but be strong and confident way down deep in your soul. Heck, play some Christian music. That might just drive whatever it is away, and lift you up at the same time. (ps, I don't know anything about Christian music... I suppose you could also play some Red Hot Chili Peppers, just DANCE with your family and feel the love!) Not trying to minimize the problem, but none of these ideas costs anything. And please let us know how things are going. We care from afar. That was the thing that I appreciated about this site. These people are mostly very good. God Bless You and your Family!
notjustme (19 stories) (850 posts)
 
10 months ago (2020-08-27)
You could leave a glass of sea salt or Himalayan salt under your bed. Also clean under the bed, if you have an "under the bed", I know not beds are the same. If you cannot, just leave it somewhere in the room. Believe. Faith. Sage. Repeat.
DarriuxDarkk (6 stories) (70 posts)
 
10 months ago (2020-08-27)
Hey all, I just read this story. I am just a little bit worried that what you and your husband are experiencing is of demonic in nature. By doing this to your husband, it is creating a negative energy or emotions in the house which it feeds more into it. I know you have said you are not religious by nature but I think having a little bit of faith on something good or higher power or God may help.

I have been exposed to some supernatural entities myself when I was younger. Having a blessed cross necklace with me helped a lot, even just for a sense of security that someone is protecting you at least.

Hope everything will be ok for you and God bless.
BrendaDances (1 stories) (23 posts)
 
10 months ago (2020-08-26)
Lost: I would try that but it puts my daughter closest to the disturbance then... Not a risk I am comfortable taking. Would just having my husband sleep out in the livingroom work? I could stay in our bed.

As for salt, we have carpeting, don't think that would work well.

I really wish there was a way to direct message some of you. I have questions I want to ask and things I would say but we have to keep this very PG friendly and it prevents me from speaking more freely. Speaking here is hard for me as I know anyone can see this. I also get that DMing a person with a story as sketchy as this would make me think twice too. It's really a make do solution to a horrible problem. Thank you all for putting up with us. We are trying the house blessing now. All the windows are open and the closet is blocked open so the sunlight can reach into a a little.
The_Lost_Voyage_11 (2 stories) (67 posts)
+4
10 months ago (2020-08-26)
Hello BrendaDances, if you cannot leave the house, then try sleeping in a different room of the house, preferably as far away from your bedroom as you can. From rereading your story it seems as if whatever this is, it's centered on the bedroom, the closet door, the shadows, maybe it's confined to this room? If it works you'll both be able to take charge of the situation. I've also read that making a ring of salt around your sleeping area may help as well, though you'd have to check what works for you. I'd try both. Lastly based on your last comment, reestablishing intimacy may help you both if you're able. Getting the connection back and reigniting that love between you may weaken this things ability to take advantage of him, trust your feelings.
BrendaDances (1 stories) (23 posts)
+4
10 months ago (2020-08-26)
MsRamsey: Thank you for the clarification it made so much more sense to me when put that way. I did chuckle over the image of a bible over his privates. To be honest I have been so caught up in reacting that I never even considered being intimate for us. As far as everyone telling me I need to believe in something, that is a very hard pill to swallow for an atheist but... Well, look at where I am now... I never would have believed this to be real until I saw it. I am trying to believe and be full of goodness. It's difficult but I will keep trying. Thank you for caring.
MrsRamsay (9 stories) (190 posts)
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10 months ago (2020-08-26)
Hey again. NO, not a threesome! I'm saying IGNORE whatever is NOT in your dimension. Don't let it have power over your lives. I'm a little more concerned about your daughter anywhere near this situation... But, maybe the two of you can take the initiative before it starts again so that energy can't even be tapped by whatever is doing it. (in other words, you should get there first, perhaps). Seems your husband should be taking more initiative though too, to stop the weird pattern of this. You know, he could wear some PANTS to bed, lay on his stomach. Put a Bible on his privates. There are many things you guys can try that would be better than what you describe. After all, this might be something, but it's NOT in our world and should be strongly told to go back where it came from. Not just by you but by him. The sexual aspect of it is just a distraction from what it is really up to. Think of it that way. And don't let it get any satisfaction, whatever that means (physical or mental). Being jealous and scared seems to debase or diminish your power and that's what you want to avoid. Please imagine me saying this with empathy. One of the first things I learned as a kid about the spiritual world: evil is attracted to a vacuum. If you can fill your souls with goodness and good things, it's much easier to keep the bad things at bay, and I think that includes just luck or karma or whatever.
blancdada (1 stories) (17 posts)
+2
10 months ago (2020-08-26)
I just saw this and can't help sharing it to you. I hope your problem with that entity stops immediately.

Https://www.nairaland.com/2442596/dealing-incubus-succubus-sex-demons
blancdada (1 stories) (17 posts)
+2
10 months ago (2020-08-26)
Hi BrendaDances,

I'm really sorry to hear about the things that is happening to you and your husband right now. And I really hope that it will go away soon.

I heard a similar story like this from one of my acquaintances in my hometown, and the solution they come up with is that they slept on the living room after it happened 3 days straight and after they come back to their room after another 3 days and it happened again, they called in a priest and fully blessed the house. They said it never happened again.

I really hope that it will soon come to an end and the entity will go away and never come back. Because both of you are going to be exhausted and mentally stressed if this goes on. I couldn't imagine how scared you are right now, I'm going to go into a panic state if that happened to me and my husband.

Wish you all the best and to your husband as well. Be strong! Stay strong!

Pinksweety> I like your advice to get a pet! They have a different view in the world so they do help. โค
Pinksweety (28 posts)
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10 months ago (2020-08-26)
And I really forgot to mention... Keep a pet dog or a cat in your home... I'm sure they can sense paranormal better than us humans... Dogs will bark at the closet when it opens or whine indicating a paranormal presence. Cats stare and their hair raises on their back
Pinksweety (28 posts)
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10 months ago (2020-08-26)
BrendaDances:Even the shadows dat you saw in the house are paranormal by nature. You should see a priest or some spiritual wiseman and discuss this with him before it's too late. The everyday thing mite exhaust your husband.
Pinksweety (28 posts)
 
10 months ago (2020-08-26)
Plz do let us know about how you are dealing with it at the present. Keep us updated. I think u shud find the history of the house, incase the previous residents died by sum accident or some occult activities were being carried out. The cupboard opening by itself is self explanatory that there is a haunting
notjustme (19 stories) (850 posts)
+3
10 months ago (2020-08-26)
Yes. Let him try to fight it himself first. And at the same time pray to your guides. You can just guides. You don't need to know about them. I pray to my maternal grandfather all the time, yet I've never met him. Just BELIEVE there is a higher power that can protect you. It is within yourself. Just pray to your guides, spark that Light inside yourself.
Like Mrs. Ramsey suggests with the believing, but in your case, just believe in guides then. Don't question what they look like or who they are. Start off when you're feeling relaxed by sitting straight, take a few deep breaths, and even say out loud, "i humbly ask my spirit guides to protect me and my family. I demand all evil to leave this house at once. Only the Light and Love msines through this home. I am grateful for my ancestors and guides."...something like that. It is to help manifest the positive energy and also give permission to your guides. Maybe because you lacked faith, you thought many things were impossible. Now you know... Anything is possible. Even the power you have to rid this thing is possible. Make husband read all this, I hope. He needs to do the same. If there's a time to start having faith, it's now.๐Ÿ˜‰
Each time he feels the static, start to pray.
All the best โค
BrendaDances (1 stories) (23 posts)
+4
10 months ago (2020-08-26)
I just want to say to all of you Thank you... I do not so feel absolutely alone now.
BrendaDances (1 stories) (23 posts)
 
10 months ago (2020-08-26)
Wow that's a lot to absorb.
MsRamsay: Are you saying make it a 3 some and join them and compete for his attention? I am trying to wrap my head around that...

Notjustme: I see you saying to try to go two different ways here and I am a little confused. 1. I could give into me discomfort and anger a bit and put the resisting of this on him and leave him to fight it? Make it about if he wants me he will resist it?

2. Is to invoke my ancestors... God I wish I knew more about them I know I am Irish my mom is from Killarney Your saying pray to her to help me maybe? I will get sage. There is a new age place I have seen in Newport Beach. I could get some there maybe?

I will try the sage and maybe asking my moms spirit for help. I will let you know what happens Just have to get through tonight so I can get these things.
notjustme (19 stories) (850 posts)
 
10 months ago (2020-08-26)
Also, if u choose to be next to him, then pray. I know you're not religious but what have you got to lose now. Just try. Pray to your ancestors. Ask them to protect you, ask them to send you Light. You don't know your power until you try. I hope after this, you will find some faith jn something. Because if there evil, you best believe there is GOOD, and vice versa. But Light always wins. Mind over matter. Believe Light and Love is with you. You have guides. Believe it so they can help. You have to open for them. He opened to something bad, now you have counter that, with something way more bad [at] ss. And tell him same. It's a demon, not human. Tell him maybe it's even a guy demon. No one said it had to be a woman. ๐Ÿค”
notjustme (19 stories) (850 posts)
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10 months ago (2020-08-26)
Too addition, sorry... None of that matters if HE doesn't genuinely want to get rid of it. It is selfish and stupid.
Tell he needs to get it together tonight. Tell him it is up to him, not you. Maybe he should do some research on what succubus demons can do. He has to think for his family and his own soul. I wonder with you there, adding fear, would make it harder for him or not. I mean, could you possibly let him try on his own first and see how it goes? During a nap or something. I feel for you. It is his Will. He needs to have the WILL to take back his soul and protect it. Good luck. I'll keep check back this thread.
I don't come on here much any more. Guess we can call it fate I read your story and hopefully am able to help out.
Try buying sage. Online or in store. Sage your house. Clean the house. Clutter and mess, not good for mind. Open windows, let light into the home. Love it. Take it back. Put courage into it, no fear. Just FAITH โค
notjustme (19 stories) (850 posts)
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10 months ago (2020-08-26)
It happens when he is JUST about to fall asleep. Many encounters with the supernatural happens for people when they are just about to fall asleep. It because you're entering that place.
So before bed, tell him to be ready. As soon as he starts feeling the static, the presence, shout at it in his head to go away. And do the ball of light exercise. I think it is all up to him because it attaching to him. So he must try his best to not give in to the lust. It is not human.

You don't need to be religious to have faith. Have faith you have ancestors, and spirit guides. They will help, just believe and call on them. When I pray, I don't specifically pray to any God. I believe there is truth to all religions. So I pray to the universe, my ancestors, and my guides. Try it tonight and tell husband he has to believe as well. Nothing of this means sh! T if you guys don't have faith when you try to get rid of it. It can sense your fears and your courage.
MrsRamsay (9 stories) (190 posts)
+2
10 months ago (2020-08-26)
Hi dear. I am so sorry for your situation and my heart goes out. I'm somewhat speechless, but I think you should not be passive. He is your husband. When your husband is aroused, YOU are the one with him, right? I don't know if this is dumb or what, but what if you just ignored whatever in the spiritual realm and did what you would normally do when noticing similar, um, characteristics. That would take NO FEAR for sure. OK, maybe I'm nuts. But there would be nothing to be jealous of, if you seized the moment.

Sorry. If ya'll want to yell at me, that would be ok. I don't know anything about this subject, I just know I wouldn't let some invisible NOTHING control my husband, influence my husband or whatever you want to call it. You know, turn on the lights and take back your man! It couldn't hurt, right? I do know if it was me, I would be praying first for protection, but I do think you should believe in God or Jesus when you pray. But I would not want to try and tell you that, so please excuse that. I do believe that God will protect us from all things if we just ask.
BrendaDances (1 stories) (23 posts)
+1
10 months ago (2020-08-25)
NotJustMe: We will try the cleansing that Meida posted. I hope it will work. I really wish we had someone close that knew how to come in and fix all this. We are not very religious... So I wound't know any clergy to seek aid from. Maybe that's why its picked my husband.

It's hard to be a team with him when I feel so useless and am forced to watch him succumb to this almost every night. Part of me is so jealous I want to just leave him, thinking if he really loved me then this thing couldn't effect him like it does. Another part of me wants to offer to take his place but then the fear sets in that if it spread to me, it could spread to my daughter.

How can I find the faith to fight this when he gives into it? I wish I had the strength to face it and push it out of my house but its like it doesn't even care than I exist.
notjustme (19 stories) (850 posts)
 
10 months ago (2020-08-25)
I think you both need to form a team and realize this thing is evil and not good. It is already affecting the energy in the household. If it continues, it will only gets stronger. Fear feeds it. Try to do what I suggested because it really worked for my friend. She has 3 kids now and haven't had an experience with that thing any more. It was with her for years.
notjustme (19 stories) (850 posts)
 
10 months ago (2020-08-25)
He will be tired, his attitude could change. After all, it is an entity connecting with him from another realm or frequency,
If you will. Bc it is messing with the soul and body. It is all connected.
BrendaDances (1 stories) (23 posts)
+1
10 months ago (2020-08-25)
Lost Voyager: No we have not been able with Covid to go anywhere else. So far my daughter is blissfully unaware of everything that is happening. I am at my wits end... And feeling horribly jealous though I know its not his fault. Its just... God. Well I think its self explanatory.

Media: Thank you for your comments... Its hard to strike a balance between describing what is happening and it not having it sounding like a p0rn story. Its still going on and I am not sure what resources we have around us. My husband fights the feelings every night... We hold hands while it happens but in the end he looses and I feel horrible watching him give in... As for the land I think it was just county land prior to this. So I am not sure what to do here.

NotJustme: Your saying this is going take my husband if we can't stop this thing? What do you mean "Drain his Soul"?

I am scared of this thing... It does not seem to listen to me or care that I am there. It just seduces him night after night with me watching... I know I should not be mad at my husband but a small part is... I know it feels better than I can ever make him feel... He has admitted that. Not sure what to do.
notjustme (19 stories) (850 posts)
+3
10 months ago (2020-08-25)
This is commonly known as a succubus. (when happens to male) The more he enjoys it and subconsciously allows it to do what it is doing, in time, it will drain his soul. It can manipulate feelings. Even make him feel loved in time.
This happened to a someone I know. I told her the same thing and it worked. She had something similar attached to her for years. It got aggressive over time and she would even hear it breathe and snicker.
Tell hubs when he starts to feel the static, and the tingling, DEMAND it to leave right away. Envision, literally, a ball of light in your head as you tell this thing to go away. Tell it, it has "no power or right here and it must leave". Please give it a try. To fight something, first believe you have more power over it. It helped my friend get rid of her Incubus. I would cleanse the house also with sage, or rook's way. But nothing works unless you believe in it when you're doing.

Also, I suggest have faith in something. I don't care if it's an avocado, have faith there is a higher power. All I know is fear feeds anything. Tell husband to stop allowing it. Try. Have to try to resist.
All the best.
-notjustme
boo_boo_whoo (15 posts)
+2
10 months ago (2020-08-25)
This is so scary! ๐Ÿ˜จ That ghost is a pervert and evil. I hope you can get rid of it. โค โค
t_bev (3 stories) (32 posts)
+3
10 months ago (2020-08-24)
BrendaDances - Wow. When reading this I couldn't help but think of the similarities between our ages and length of marriages; and I can't even begin to think of how I would handle this situation if it were me. I sincerely hope you're able to perform the cleansing rituals and that they work. I don't know much about the subject, but so many on this site do, and I hope their knowledge not only helps you through this, but provides comfort.
RCRuskin (8 stories) (666 posts)
+3
10 months ago (2020-08-23)
I'm going to go out on a limb here and quote a wise man I know: There are no long distance priests. While I do think the cleansing ritual on Rook's profile is a good idea, it is only a start.

Please know that your husband is not cheating on you, in the usual sense anyway. Someone with deep spiritual wisdom must interview your husband, your daughter, and yourself, and investigate the history of the house, the land and the neighborhood.

Something out of the ordinary is going on here.
Melda (10 stories) (1361 posts)
+6
10 months ago (2020-08-23)
BrendaDances - I agree with the previous poster regarding the cleansing. Here is a link to a very good method which has been used by a number of members on this site: https://www.yourghoststories.com/user-profile.php?user=8155

Do you have any idea what the land was used for in the past, before the construction of houses and whatever else is built there now? It might have a bearing on what is happening in your house.

You tried to remove anything that was too graphic? Whew, I was reading this with my hand over my face and peeping through my fingers! I'm pleased you removed the "too graphic" parts or my rather old but nevertheless very open-minded brain would have gone into lockdown with the rest of the world.

Please try to control the anger and jealousy you are experiencing. The succubus is feeding off of that and is doing its best to nurture the negativity you are exuding. It's tormenting you too and is very pleased with itself.

Unless your husband specifically summoned this succubus, it really isn't his fault. It's not as though you found him in a dark corner somewhere with a Dolly Parton lookalike. The two of you should work together to get rid of this evil entity.

A cleansing is of the utmost importance and not only once, there need to be follow-ups.

I wish you well and just remember that you can return to normal but it is going to take some work on your part.

Regards, Melda
The_Lost_Voyage_11 (2 stories) (67 posts)
+3
10 months ago (2020-08-22)
BrendaDances, sorry to hear that you're going through this traumatic event. I have read of many instances of these type encounters, but yours is a rare experience for someone to actually be a witness to one. You stated that these events began when you moved into this new home. Have you and your husband tried to stay elsewhere for a night or two to see if situation occurs outside the home. That would help you isolate whether the home is the cause and if so I would recommend a thorough cleansing. There are some solid cleansing rituals recommended on this site. That would be the place to start and then If it happens outside the home then it may have firmly attached itself to your husband and he may need to participate in a personal cleansing ritual. Are you and your husband the only ones in the home to experience anything or has your daughter noticed anything unusual similar to the shadows you saw in the early days of your stay?

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