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BrendaDances (1 stories) (16 posts)
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4 weeks ago (2020-08-27)
What has and has not worked

Firmly addressing it and telling it to go - it just seems to increase its activity on him making him loose it faster.

Envisioning a white shield or ball of light to push it away. I have done that with no effect. Husband quickly looses focus due to the feeling and is simply fighting not to climax.

Praying really didn't seem to have an effect but I don't really consider myself religious so that could have been self defeated.

Holding his hand and simply trying to express my love and support ended up making his climaxes feel all the more devastating to witness.

Vacating the room and house blessing and positive family energy - So far so good. I have hopes for this one being the key to start defeating this.

Salt- I realized we have a Himalaya salt lamp given as a wedding present and its still in its box in the garage. Gonna dig it out today and put it in the room. I am hoping both the salt and the fact is was a wedding gift have an effect. A catholic friend is also bringing us a vial of holy water from their priest.
t_bev (3 stories) (32 posts)
 
4 weeks ago (2020-08-27)
BrendaDances - I'm curious as to whether or not you tried any of the cleansing or self protection practices mentioned by other posters; and if so which ones? I think it would be helpful to know what has been productive in your efforts to deal with this Succubus; or whatever it is.

Has just sleeping outside the room with the fam, creating some positive bonding time, been the remedy?

Looking forward to an update. Best wishes and way to go on taking back what's your's!
blancdada (1 stories) (16 posts)
 
4 weeks ago (2020-08-27)
BrendaDances, great to know! ❤

I hope everything goes smoothly for you and your family. Wish you all the best!

Please keep us updated 😊
BrendaDances (1 stories) (16 posts)
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4 weeks ago (2020-08-27)
We had a living room camp out with daughter even put up her pup tent and got our sleeping bags and did smores on the stove.

No disturbances. Best night of sleep I have had in weeks. We are going to camp out through the weekend then I will try a night in the room alone.

So far so good.
MrsRamsay (7 stories) (125 posts)
 
4 weeks ago (2020-08-27)
Brenda, GOOD, I'm glad you laughed about the Bible there. Hey, how many stories have you heard about a pocket Bible saving a soldier's life in a war? There's gotta be something to those stories!

Laughter seems to be something all evil wants to see disappear! Just look at the state of our world right now. There is a battle going on between good and evil right now, and I know I sound like a church lady, which I am not; however, I am a Christian and I have experienced things related to my faith that only give me greater faith. You might not want to hear this, but I'm going to say it: Jesus loves you even more because you have not had a chance to discover Him yet. He won't let you go, all you have to do is ask. And you can even ask if you don't quite believe, I think that is something important for you to know. Please know, I'm not trying to push you to be a Christian, but to let you know there is absolutely nothing wrong with asking for help. If I were you, I'd ask humbly for help from Jesus, Buhdda, and whomever else I could think of, without hesitation or shame. But like you said, think good, think light, think love. Not the opposite. Not jealousy but Empathy. If you think your husband isn't strong enough to resist, then YOU give him that strength. I think marriage is all about that. When one of you is weak, you have the other to lean on and gain strength from. My husband and I have our worst days when both of us are feeling down at the same time (very rare).

Mostly, ya'll go out and do some fun things as a family! Go be together! The Lost Voyage put it so much better than I did (haha, so much for me being a writer). Remember your marriage vows together. Perhaps there's a reason they are written as they are! "What God has joined together, let no one put asunder." (or is it no man? Anyway). Yeah girl, CLAIM your man back from whatever weird stuff this is. Keep that California sun shining in. Clean that house, bring in flowers and brightness, but be strong and confident way down deep in your soul. Heck, play some Christian music. That might just drive whatever it is away, and lift you up at the same time. (ps, I don't know anything about Christian music... I suppose you could also play some Red Hot Chili Peppers, just DANCE with your family and feel the love!) Not trying to minimize the problem, but none of these ideas costs anything. And please let us know how things are going. We care from afar. That was the thing that I appreciated about this site. These people are mostly very good. God Bless You and your Family!
notjustme (19 stories) (849 posts)
 
4 weeks ago (2020-08-27)
You could leave a glass of sea salt or Himalayan salt under your bed. Also clean under the bed, if you have an "under the bed", I know not beds are the same. If you cannot, just leave it somewhere in the room. Believe. Faith. Sage. Repeat.
DarriuxDarkk (6 stories) (51 posts)
 
4 weeks ago (2020-08-27)
Hey all, I just read this story. I am just a little bit worried that what you and your husband are experiencing is of demonic in nature. By doing this to your husband, it is creating a negative energy or emotions in the house which it feeds more into it. I know you have said you are not religious by nature but I think having a little bit of faith on something good or higher power or God may help.

I have been exposed to some supernatural entities myself when I was younger. Having a blessed cross necklace with me helped a lot, even just for a sense of security that someone is protecting you at least.

Hope everything will be ok for you and God bless.
BrendaDances (1 stories) (16 posts)
 
4 weeks ago (2020-08-26)
Lost: I would try that but it puts my daughter closest to the disturbance then... Not a risk I am comfortable taking. Would just having my husband sleep out in the livingroom work? I could stay in our bed.

As for salt, we have carpeting, don't think that would work well.

I really wish there was a way to direct message some of you. I have questions I want to ask and things I would say but we have to keep this very PG friendly and it prevents me from speaking more freely. Speaking here is hard for me as I know anyone can see this. I also get that DMing a person with a story as sketchy as this would make me think twice too. It's really a make do solution to a horrible problem. Thank you all for putting up with us. We are trying the house blessing now. All the windows are open and the closet is blocked open so the sunlight can reach into a a little.
The_Lost_Voyage_11 (2 stories) (14 posts)
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4 weeks ago (2020-08-26)
Hello BrendaDances, if you cannot leave the house, then try sleeping in a different room of the house, preferably as far away from your bedroom as you can. From rereading your story it seems as if whatever this is, it's centered on the bedroom, the closet door, the shadows, maybe it's confined to this room? If it works you'll both be able to take charge of the situation. I've also read that making a ring of salt around your sleeping area may help as well, though you'd have to check what works for you. I'd try both. Lastly based on your last comment, reestablishing intimacy may help you both if you're able. Getting the connection back and reigniting that love between you may weaken this things ability to take advantage of him, trust your feelings.
BrendaDances (1 stories) (16 posts)
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4 weeks ago (2020-08-26)
MsRamsey: Thank you for the clarification it made so much more sense to me when put that way. I did chuckle over the image of a bible over his privates. To be honest I have been so caught up in reacting that I never even considered being intimate for us. As far as everyone telling me I need to believe in something, that is a very hard pill to swallow for an atheist but... Well, look at where I am now... I never would have believed this to be real until I saw it. I am trying to believe and be full of goodness. It's difficult but I will keep trying. Thank you for caring.
MrsRamsay (7 stories) (125 posts)
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4 weeks ago (2020-08-26)
Hey again. NO, not a threesome! I'm saying IGNORE whatever is NOT in your dimension. Don't let it have power over your lives. I'm a little more concerned about your daughter anywhere near this situation... But, maybe the two of you can take the initiative before it starts again so that energy can't even be tapped by whatever is doing it. (in other words, you should get there first, perhaps). Seems your husband should be taking more initiative though too, to stop the weird pattern of this. You know, he could wear some PANTS to bed, lay on his stomach. Put a Bible on his privates. There are many things you guys can try that would be better than what you describe. After all, this might be something, but it's NOT in our world and should be strongly told to go back where it came from. Not just by you but by him. The sexual aspect of it is just a distraction from what it is really up to. Think of it that way. And don't let it get any satisfaction, whatever that means (physical or mental). Being jealous and scared seems to debase or diminish your power and that's what you want to avoid. Please imagine me saying this with empathy. One of the first things I learned as a kid about the spiritual world: evil is attracted to a vacuum. If you can fill your souls with goodness and good things, it's much easier to keep the bad things at bay, and I think that includes just luck or karma or whatever.
blancdada (1 stories) (16 posts)
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4 weeks ago (2020-08-26)
I just saw this and can't help sharing it to you. I hope your problem with that entity stops immediately.

Https://www.nairaland.com/2442596/dealing-incubus-succubus-sex-demons
blancdada (1 stories) (16 posts)
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4 weeks ago (2020-08-26)
Hi BrendaDances,

I'm really sorry to hear about the things that is happening to you and your husband right now. And I really hope that it will go away soon.

I heard a similar story like this from one of my acquaintances in my hometown, and the solution they come up with is that they slept on the living room after it happened 3 days straight and after they come back to their room after another 3 days and it happened again, they called in a priest and fully blessed the house. They said it never happened again.

I really hope that it will soon come to an end and the entity will go away and never come back. Because both of you are going to be exhausted and mentally stressed if this goes on. I couldn't imagine how scared you are right now, I'm going to go into a panic state if that happened to me and my husband.

Wish you all the best and to your husband as well. Be strong! Stay strong!

Pinksweety> I like your advice to get a pet! They have a different view in the world so they do help. ❤
Pinksweety (27 posts)
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4 weeks ago (2020-08-26)
And I really forgot to mention... Keep a pet dog or a cat in your home... I'm sure they can sense paranormal better than us humans... Dogs will bark at the closet when it opens or whine indicating a paranormal presence. Cats stare and their hair raises on their back
Pinksweety (27 posts)
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4 weeks ago (2020-08-26)
BrendaDances:Even the shadows dat you saw in the house are paranormal by nature. You should see a priest or some spiritual wiseman and discuss this with him before it's too late. The everyday thing mite exhaust your husband.
Pinksweety (27 posts)
 
4 weeks ago (2020-08-26)
Plz do let us know about how you are dealing with it at the present. Keep us updated. I think u shud find the history of the house, incase the previous residents died by sum accident or some occult activities were being carried out. The cupboard opening by itself is self explanatory that there is a haunting
notjustme (19 stories) (849 posts)
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4 weeks ago (2020-08-26)
Yes. Let him try to fight it himself first. And at the same time pray to your guides. You can just guides. You don't need to know about them. I pray to my maternal grandfather all the time, yet I've never met him. Just BELIEVE there is a higher power that can protect you. It is within yourself. Just pray to your guides, spark that Light inside yourself.
Like Mrs. Ramsey suggests with the believing, but in your case, just believe in guides then. Don't question what they look like or who they are. Start off when you're feeling relaxed by sitting straight, take a few deep breaths, and even say out loud, "i humbly ask my spirit guides to protect me and my family. I demand all evil to leave this house at once. Only the Light and Love msines through this home. I am grateful for my ancestors and guides."...something like that. It is to help manifest the positive energy and also give permission to your guides. Maybe because you lacked faith, you thought many things were impossible. Now you know... Anything is possible. Even the power you have to rid this thing is possible. Make husband read all this, I hope. He needs to do the same. If there's a time to start having faith, it's now.😉
Each time he feels the static, start to pray.
All the best ❤
BrendaDances (1 stories) (16 posts)
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4 weeks ago (2020-08-26)
I just want to say to all of you Thank you... I do not so feel absolutely alone now.
BrendaDances (1 stories) (16 posts)
 
4 weeks ago (2020-08-26)
Wow that's a lot to absorb.
MsRamsay: Are you saying make it a 3 some and join them and compete for his attention? I am trying to wrap my head around that...

Notjustme: I see you saying to try to go two different ways here and I am a little confused. 1. I could give into me discomfort and anger a bit and put the resisting of this on him and leave him to fight it? Make it about if he wants me he will resist it?

2. Is to invoke my ancestors... God I wish I knew more about them I know I am Irish my mom is from Killarney Your saying pray to her to help me maybe? I will get sage. There is a new age place I have seen in Newport Beach. I could get some there maybe?

I will try the sage and maybe asking my moms spirit for help. I will let you know what happens Just have to get through tonight so I can get these things.
notjustme (19 stories) (849 posts)
 
4 weeks ago (2020-08-26)
Also, if u choose to be next to him, then pray. I know you're not religious but what have you got to lose now. Just try. Pray to your ancestors. Ask them to protect you, ask them to send you Light. You don't know your power until you try. I hope after this, you will find some faith jn something. Because if there evil, you best believe there is GOOD, and vice versa. But Light always wins. Mind over matter. Believe Light and Love is with you. You have guides. Believe it so they can help. You have to open for them. He opened to something bad, now you have counter that, with something way more bad [at] ss. And tell him same. It's a demon, not human. Tell him maybe it's even a guy demon. No one said it had to be a woman. 🤔
notjustme (19 stories) (849 posts)
 
4 weeks ago (2020-08-26)
Too addition, sorry... None of that matters if HE doesn't genuinely want to get rid of it. It is selfish and stupid.
Tell he needs to get it together tonight. Tell him it is up to him, not you. Maybe he should do some research on what succubus demons can do. He has to think for his family and his own soul. I wonder with you there, adding fear, would make it harder for him or not. I mean, could you possibly let him try on his own first and see how it goes? During a nap or something. I feel for you. It is his Will. He needs to have the WILL to take back his soul and protect it. Good luck. I'll keep check back this thread.
I don't come on here much any more. Guess we can call it fate I read your story and hopefully am able to help out.
Try buying sage. Online or in store. Sage your house. Clean the house. Clutter and mess, not good for mind. Open windows, let light into the home. Love it. Take it back. Put courage into it, no fear. Just FAITH ❤
notjustme (19 stories) (849 posts)
 
4 weeks ago (2020-08-26)
It happens when he is JUST about to fall asleep. Many encounters with the supernatural happens for people when they are just about to fall asleep. It because you're entering that place.
So before bed, tell him to be ready. As soon as he starts feeling the static, the presence, shout at it in his head to go away. And do the ball of light exercise. I think it is all up to him because it attaching to him. So he must try his best to not give in to the lust. It is not human.

You don't need to be religious to have faith. Have faith you have ancestors, and spirit guides. They will help, just believe and call on them. When I pray, I don't specifically pray to any God. I believe there is truth to all religions. So I pray to the universe, my ancestors, and my guides. Try it tonight and tell husband he has to believe as well. Nothing of this means sh! T if you guys don't have faith when you try to get rid of it. It can sense your fears and your courage.
MrsRamsay (7 stories) (125 posts)
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4 weeks ago (2020-08-26)
Hi dear. I am so sorry for your situation and my heart goes out. I'm somewhat speechless, but I think you should not be passive. He is your husband. When your husband is aroused, YOU are the one with him, right? I don't know if this is dumb or what, but what if you just ignored whatever in the spiritual realm and did what you would normally do when noticing similar, um, characteristics. That would take NO FEAR for sure. OK, maybe I'm nuts. But there would be nothing to be jealous of, if you seized the moment.

Sorry. If ya'll want to yell at me, that would be ok. I don't know anything about this subject, I just know I wouldn't let some invisible NOTHING control my husband, influence my husband or whatever you want to call it. You know, turn on the lights and take back your man! It couldn't hurt, right? I do know if it was me, I would be praying first for protection, but I do think you should believe in God or Jesus when you pray. But I would not want to try and tell you that, so please excuse that. I do believe that God will protect us from all things if we just ask.
BrendaDances (1 stories) (16 posts)
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4 weeks ago (2020-08-25)
NotJustMe: We will try the cleansing that Meida posted. I hope it will work. I really wish we had someone close that knew how to come in and fix all this. We are not very religious... So I wound't know any clergy to seek aid from. Maybe that's why its picked my husband.

It's hard to be a team with him when I feel so useless and am forced to watch him succumb to this almost every night. Part of me is so jealous I want to just leave him, thinking if he really loved me then this thing couldn't effect him like it does. Another part of me wants to offer to take his place but then the fear sets in that if it spread to me, it could spread to my daughter.

How can I find the faith to fight this when he gives into it? I wish I had the strength to face it and push it out of my house but its like it doesn't even care than I exist.
notjustme (19 stories) (849 posts)
 
4 weeks ago (2020-08-25)
I think you both need to form a team and realize this thing is evil and not good. It is already affecting the energy in the household. If it continues, it will only gets stronger. Fear feeds it. Try to do what I suggested because it really worked for my friend. She has 3 kids now and haven't had an experience with that thing any more. It was with her for years.
notjustme (19 stories) (849 posts)
 
4 weeks ago (2020-08-25)
He will be tired, his attitude could change. After all, it is an entity connecting with him from another realm or frequency,
If you will. Bc it is messing with the soul and body. It is all connected.
BrendaDances (1 stories) (16 posts)
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4 weeks ago (2020-08-25)
Lost Voyager: No we have not been able with Covid to go anywhere else. So far my daughter is blissfully unaware of everything that is happening. I am at my wits end... And feeling horribly jealous though I know its not his fault. Its just... God. Well I think its self explanatory.

Media: Thank you for your comments... Its hard to strike a balance between describing what is happening and it not having it sounding like a p0rn story. Its still going on and I am not sure what resources we have around us. My husband fights the feelings every night... We hold hands while it happens but in the end he looses and I feel horrible watching him give in... As for the land I think it was just county land prior to this. So I am not sure what to do here.

NotJustme: Your saying this is going take my husband if we can't stop this thing? What do you mean "Drain his Soul"?

I am scared of this thing... It does not seem to listen to me or care that I am there. It just seduces him night after night with me watching... I know I should not be mad at my husband but a small part is... I know it feels better than I can ever make him feel... He has admitted that. Not sure what to do.
notjustme (19 stories) (849 posts)
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4 weeks ago (2020-08-25)
This is commonly known as a succubus. (when happens to male) The more he enjoys it and subconsciously allows it to do what it is doing, in time, it will drain his soul. It can manipulate feelings. Even make him feel loved in time.
This happened to a someone I know. I told her the same thing and it worked. She had something similar attached to her for years. It got aggressive over time and she would even hear it breathe and snicker.
Tell hubs when he starts to feel the static, and the tingling, DEMAND it to leave right away. Envision, literally, a ball of light in your head as you tell this thing to go away. Tell it, it has "no power or right here and it must leave". Please give it a try. To fight something, first believe you have more power over it. It helped my friend get rid of her Incubus. I would cleanse the house also with sage, or rook's way. But nothing works unless you believe in it when you're doing.

Also, I suggest have faith in something. I don't care if it's an avocado, have faith there is a higher power. All I know is fear feeds anything. Tell husband to stop allowing it. Try. Have to try to resist.
All the best.
-notjustme
boo_boo_whoo (12 posts)
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4 weeks ago (2020-08-25)
This is so scary! 😨 That ghost is a pervert and evil. I hope you can get rid of it. ❤ ❤
t_bev (3 stories) (32 posts)
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4 weeks ago (2020-08-24)
BrendaDances - Wow. When reading this I couldn't help but think of the similarities between our ages and length of marriages; and I can't even begin to think of how I would handle this situation if it were me. I sincerely hope you're able to perform the cleansing rituals and that they work. I don't know much about the subject, but so many on this site do, and I hope their knowledge not only helps you through this, but provides comfort.
RCRuskin (8 stories) (637 posts)
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1 month ago (2020-08-23)
I'm going to go out on a limb here and quote a wise man I know: There are no long distance priests. While I do think the cleansing ritual on Rook's profile is a good idea, it is only a start.

Please know that your husband is not cheating on you, in the usual sense anyway. Someone with deep spiritual wisdom must interview your husband, your daughter, and yourself, and investigate the history of the house, the land and the neighborhood.

Something out of the ordinary is going on here.
Melda (9 stories) (1285 posts)
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1 month ago (2020-08-23)
BrendaDances - I agree with the previous poster regarding the cleansing. Here is a link to a very good method which has been used by a number of members on this site: https://www.yourghoststories.com/user-profile.php?user=8155

Do you have any idea what the land was used for in the past, before the construction of houses and whatever else is built there now? It might have a bearing on what is happening in your house.

You tried to remove anything that was too graphic? Whew, I was reading this with my hand over my face and peeping through my fingers! I'm pleased you removed the "too graphic" parts or my rather old but nevertheless very open-minded brain would have gone into lockdown with the rest of the world.

Please try to control the anger and jealousy you are experiencing. The succubus is feeding off of that and is doing its best to nurture the negativity you are exuding. It's tormenting you too and is very pleased with itself.

Unless your husband specifically summoned this succubus, it really isn't his fault. It's not as though you found him in a dark corner somewhere with a Dolly Parton lookalike. The two of you should work together to get rid of this evil entity.

A cleansing is of the utmost importance and not only once, there need to be follow-ups.

I wish you well and just remember that you can return to normal but it is going to take some work on your part.

Regards, Melda
The_Lost_Voyage_11 (2 stories) (14 posts)
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1 month ago (2020-08-22)
BrendaDances, sorry to hear that you're going through this traumatic event. I have read of many instances of these type encounters, but yours is a rare experience for someone to actually be a witness to one. You stated that these events began when you moved into this new home. Have you and your husband tried to stay elsewhere for a night or two to see if situation occurs outside the home. That would help you isolate whether the home is the cause and if so I would recommend a thorough cleansing. There are some solid cleansing rituals recommended on this site. That would be the place to start and then If it happens outside the home then it may have firmly attached itself to your husband and he may need to participate in a personal cleansing ritual. Are you and your husband the only ones in the home to experience anything or has your daughter noticed anything unusual similar to the shadows you saw in the early days of your stay?

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