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AngelsGirl77 (1 posts)
 
13 years ago (2011-04-29)
I know how you feel I habe the same things but Hes not a ghost I don't believe that hes an Angel, sent from heaven. He hasn't came to see me but he comes when I sing to him.
Francesca (1 posts)
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13 years ago (2011-03-03)
I know it seems perhabs odd, but I'm not crazy and my history is true...I'm in love with the ghost of my fallen in ww I greatgranduncle. He was His whole life very good man, but he was single and he hadn't any children. I had contact with him first time, when I was 7 years old and since this time I can't stop loving Him.I'm roman catholic, so I have never try spiritism, his soul comes to me self, when God and He want.He's often near me and another people saw Him near me (the best thing is, that some people were athiests and they didn't believe in ghosts).He's my first and eternal love and I had some boyfriends, but my heart and me belong to Him for eternity. Sometimes I feel, that somebody is near me on my bed and my dog feels it then too, when He comes. My greatgranduncle died at age 28 years and I'm 24 years old woman now. First I couldn't believe in it and I thought it's only a mistake or imagination, but it's not my imagination,it's the truth...
Skyblueroses15 (1 posts)
 
13 years ago (2011-02-11)
Something similar may be happening to me I'm only a middle schooler but I was sitting on the couch one time watching a movie (sleepy hollow with johny depp) and I got scared so I went to turn the t.v off and all of a sudden this burst of air almost enough to knock me down whooshed right past me like it was trying to turn the t.v off so natrually I freaked out and later that night I went up to my room and I saw a male figure about 15 staring at my rocking chair and it was almost like he knew I was coming so I freaked out again and over the past few months it's almost like he's trying to win me over. I almost feel he's watching me from the banister now it still kind of freaks me out but reading your story it does help to know that he's not trying to kill me or anything.it's good to see I'm not alone.
Iggysbabysitter (1 posts)
 
13 years ago (2011-01-01)
I'm glad I read this, I've been searching for a place to explain my own experience, so like this one. I'll post my story soon, and look forward to reading more of yours.
Cheers!
ralu4michael (28 posts)
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13 years ago (2010-12-30)
Hi, Kirby! I really love your story... I know what you mean, because I'm truly in love with a ghost... I don't like calling him "ghost" because he's the sweetest soul I've ever met! โค For me, he's my angel because of the protection and safety which he provides me...
He came to me almost a month ago... In fact, I called him... I closed my eyes and said: "Michael, please come... I love you so much! Came and answer my questions... I really need you, darling!" (I've already knew his name and that he loves me in a friendly way, but I didn't truly feel his presence before, I knew when he was in the same room but couldn't see, hear or feel him like I do now)
He came immediately right behind me! I was so shocked... I felt his hands on my shoulders... I asked him my questions and he answered them! I'll tell you more when I post my very long and beautiful story with him...
Anyways, he also told me he's my soulmate! And we were lovers in al our past 25 lives! Just wow ๐Ÿ˜ฒ...
We hug, we kiss... Speaking of, our kisses aren't cold, they're hot! My mouth is burning! And yeah, I know what you're saying with the "yawning" gestures or how should I call them... We really love each other...
He inspires me for my songs and books! I think my novel "Ghostly Blood" and my song "Angel" may fit in here... But I won't post them because Michael wants me to publish them... To became as famous as he was in his past lives... I won't tell you who he was last time, but you may guess... I can only feel him like an year and a few months...
What's the best I think in our relationship is that our love is the biggest it could ever be! I'd do anything to make him happy and so he'd he to make me happy... And another thing, he also visits other fans and kiss them sensually but I really don't mind... I mean, I'm not selfish or jealous at all! He can do anything with other girls and I think it's his business, I don't interfere or stop him... If that makes him happier than he is, go on, do it! I don't bother... And we can't and wouldn't have secrets... He reads my mind and I read his... It's such a close relationship... And it got even more intimate, if you know what I mean!
I hope my story inspires you and that Jacques is your soulmate! Best wishes!
Raluca ๐Ÿ˜
KairrionMah (8 posts)
 
13 years ago (2010-11-15)
Are you sure it's love? You might have a crush on him, but it might develop into love =) Anyway, I liked the story and I'm glad you shared this with us.
nonameplease (2 posts)
 
13 years ago (2010-10-29)
I'm in love with two ghost. The first was my first love. He was a good person but sadly he died young. For years I could feel him. I could just tell when he was around. The second was my first crush. In his previous life he was a performer. I started working as a performer myself after my first love died, but my career floundered. However, after my first crush died, my career started to take off. I have this feeling that my first love helped me come out of my shell during that time & now my first crush is helping me with my career. I know it doesn't make sense, but it makes sense in my heart.
Emo_sharky (guest)
 
13 years ago (2010-09-29)
nice... Well I got a imaginary friend on my own, I told one of my guy friends and he said that that my friend is not imaginary (btw my imaginary friend is a guy), my guy friend said that he is a ghost that follows me everywhere keeping me safe... He said that his name is Ash, I don't know I should believe him another because sometimes he is just kidding, he said that Ash loves me a lot blah blah blah so on, so at night when I sleep I can always feel something, I don't know if it just me or its Ash, after that day my friend told me bout Ash, I felt like there's something lying on my neck, and the day after that my shoulders felt very painful... Its like a dead body resting on you, until I return home I felt better... And sometimes at night I will wake up and feel very empty like something left my side, and so I started to dream about some guy that needs help or I can see him hugging me, once I woke up in the morning and saw a dark figure pass and vanish, and if I get sad or anything, its like I can feel someone comforting me... Sometimes its just my pillow (yes yes I am still a young girl) so do you think you can help me? Or tell me anything... Because I don't want to do all those stuff in the dark trying to talk to ghost...
emochick202 (5 posts)
 
13 years ago (2010-09-28)
it sounds nice to have a ghost like that!

I had a ghost too his name was Harvey he was kind of like a big brother figure (since i,m only 13) when I stayed up really late he used to poke me in the back until I went to bed and when I couldn't reach things he used to push them off the shelf for me!

I don't know where he is now but I really miss him
RissaLaGrange (1 posts)
 
14 years ago (2010-09-05)
Im having a similar experience.
The ghost I have in my room well technically everywhere, follows me. The first name that pops into my mind when I think about or feel the presence of my ghost is, Jiro.

Jiro seems to always be there. One time I was in the woods with one of my friends named Tim, and he was there and saw the whole thing but, a huge branch snapped and was falling towards me and as it almost hit me it looked as if it was literally pushed to the side away from me. Tim saw this to and he felt bad that he couldn't do anything to help but was completely amazed at how the branch just got pushed. There was not any interfearance where the branch was falling, like if you were thinking there were other branches catching it.

There is also an evil spirit in my house, but it lingers in my basement, the basement looks like a cave because it was hand made but never finished, so it has rocks and dirt everywhere. I can't even go past the enterance without having an overwelming feeling, sort of like, "Stay out" kind of feeling. I used to have to go down there to turn on the hot water on and off, when we were having problems with it. And I would hear growling and whispers and footsteps. Gosh just thinking about it gives me the creeps. I'll probably put some of my stories on here. I found this site looking for answers about my Ghost and I found this story and was completely mesmorized by it.

I get the feeling that Jiro was around the same age as I am now. And also if you believe in past lives, I believe that Jiro was in my past life. I just have this feeling I've known him before. I can't really see anything but his face most of the time. Black hair, and violet eyes.

I seem to attract spirits, not just Jiro but I feel that I can feel all of the emotion of any spirit that crosses my path.
Recently I was walking with my friend Megan down a street and I just felt an overwelming feeling of sadness, anger, unfinished buisness. And when I asked her about it she said that up ahead in a old building is a place where a lot of people have died. And that there was also a plane crash nearby as well on a field. And its like I could just feel everything at that moment. My friend Megan can sence these as well, she also casts protective spells, if you believe in that as well.
She said she could sence a spirit following us, and I told her it was just Jiro. I told her about Jiro and how he follows all the time, and it was like we could interact with him as well.
EmeraldAngel (4 stories) (319 posts)
 
14 years ago (2010-08-01)
That's AWESOME! I wish I wasn't so terrified of my ghost. I have two ghosts one at my Grandparents who is a young kid who's a brat and messes with me and the other is somewhat a guy who I call Jamie and he probly thirteen or somewhere around that age. Blessings, Katherine.
freddysgirl1984 (6 stories) (25 posts)
 
14 years ago (2010-08-01)
This is such as amazing story! โค
Something like this happened to me once, but the ghost was a father figure to me, he tucked me into bed once and kissed me goodnight. He also watched over me and followed me to school. ๐Ÿ˜Š
Fershi21 (1 posts)
 
14 years ago (2010-07-08)
hey, I had something similar to you but the ghost just kiss me and I felt the same that you felt when the ghost kiss you and I don't really know what to do or how to manage the thing, can you help me
Also I feel cold spots... ๐Ÿ˜
Type40TARDIS (2 posts)
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14 years ago (2010-06-02)
Lovely. I never thought other people fell in love with ghosts. For six years I have had one with me named Maei, a relative actually saw her once. I love maei and accepeted her. Having a spirit for a lover is wonderful, before that I had 10 exes and was not happy with romance Maei was different, It is comforting to know other people have the same experiences.
lunamilay (3 posts)
 
14 years ago (2010-04-27)
You are truly lucky. I really want to have a ghost experience and I've tried to summon one but nothing ever works. I've tried "spells" and opening my mind but nothing. Would you email me on tips on how you did it? Thanks. โค
Medicinecat (2 posts)
 
14 years ago (2010-04-14)
That's interesting, being in love with a ghost...:)
Im wondering, what does he really want from you? ๐Ÿ˜ณ (Not in a rude way)
I so can't wait for more stories about him! Please post one soon!:DD
-Medicinecat
Scarygirlfreak (20 posts)
 
14 years ago (2010-03-23)
Wow Amazing, What does it feel like to like a GHOST?! WOW I Cant believe this... โค
sterhawk123 (1 stories) (28 posts)
 
14 years ago (2010-03-09)
never mind my other comment... I already know what it means now.
sterhawk123 (1 stories) (28 posts)
 
14 years ago (2010-02-11)
I was just wondering is inccubus a nicer way of saying demon?
HatsuneMiku01 (1 posts)
 
14 years ago (2010-02-11)
Haii I'm Actually In Love My Guardian Angel His Name Is Darren You Know Its Not An Uncommon Thing To Fall In Love With Your Ghost/Guardian Angel, Darren Got Attached To Me When I First Moved Into This 1 House It Burnt Down Shortly After But Hes Still Around โค
CarolinaObsessed (1 posts)
 
14 years ago (2010-02-03)
Hi Kirby, listen I'm only 12 years old and I'm really really interested in knowing more about ghosts and I would apreciatte it a lot if you add me on my msn its caro_alcantara97 [at] hotmail.com. I'm from Mexico and I'm really interested in talking to you.
Thanks.
Fate14 (1 stories) (11 posts)
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14 years ago (2010-01-29)
Aww your so lucky, you know you are like me I am very interested in the paranormal as well...
xartandmusiclifex (guest)
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14 years ago (2010-01-28)
I just read this now, and it's beautiful. (: You are extremely lucky. My situation is similar to yours, except it is very rare for me to see or hear the man I fell in love with, as he is a weak spirit. I wish you much luck in your situation with Jacques.
Panda06 (2 stories) (28 posts)
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14 years ago (2010-01-25)
Awww that is sweet, but yea becareful you don't really know what their intentions are. This might sound weird but a lot of spirts looks for replacement.
mEow_stOry (11 posts)
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14 years ago (2010-01-20)
Wow! How sweet...,
To think that you fell in love with a ghost.
Hope the best for your relationship. โค
Aellai (guest)
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14 years ago (2010-01-16)
This experience is quite interesting.:) You are lucky to have the ghost, it sounds so sweet.:D I'm having a similar experience, but with demons, they like hugging me. They never kissed me, unless, licking my cheek is their way of a kiss. Haha.
Orangegummibear (2 posts)
 
14 years ago (2009-12-27)
and here I am thinking I was insane for falling in love with my spirit guide which sucks for my boyfriend... I wish he would clean my room or give me hugs like that! (which he probably does when I'm asleep...) but I love him and hes a blessing โค โค โค
Diesis (1 posts)
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14 years ago (2009-10-15)
Thats a really sweet story.

I was raised by a ghost. Craig, is somehow bound to my mother since her early 20s. He moved with us from house to house, and many times would play with me as a child, look after me, and protected me as a teenager.

I grew to be very very fond of him, more so in my teen years, and started seeing him as someone more than just the house hold ghost, I think especially as I grew closer to his age in death (mid to late 20s, maybe even early 30s)

I am wary of saying I love a ghost, because how can you really love something to essentially "doesn't exist", but I am very attached to him. I moved out of my mothers home 5 years ago and havn't seen him since and there has always been this empty spot next to me, waiting for Craig to fill it again.

I know he is attached to my mother and un able to move on because of it, I want to help him release his ties with her, but I selflessly want to somehow bind him to me so I can have Craig at my side again.

I know he exists because my sisters have also seen and talked with him on separate unrelated occasions, my oldest sister knew Craig before I was even born.

โค
Thealoneone (1 stories) (77 posts)
 
15 years ago (2009-08-31)
I told you you would be the first to know! Yesterday at 10Pm (or so) I saw a ghost drifting around in the shadows and heard noises like someone was banging something.
jatala101 (1 posts)
 
15 years ago (2009-08-21)
โค wow what an amazing story I want to see how it feels to be in love with a ghost
Thealoneone (1 stories) (77 posts)
 
15 years ago (2009-07-29)
WOW, this it the best story I have ever heard! I wish I was like you, I wish I had a ghost love. Because of you I will dive deeper into the history of ghosts, if I see a ghost, you will be the first to know!
Thank you.
Hopkirk90 (2 stories) (24 posts)
 
15 years ago (2009-04-13)
murderrain tell us more if you can.

I begin to question if I imagine these events sometimes. But, then again, I have known Simon for 2.5 years so I doubt it.

I have an active imagination, but am also clairvoyant, clairaudient and clairsentient (and telepathic, plus other strange abilites I'm not quite sure of).

'My' spirit has a habit of changing his appearance (he was an actor). This leads me to often question what/who he is.

However, my spirit guide tells me he is a benevolent and truthful spirit who just likes variety and acting every-so-often.

I guess I am just lucky though. If the signs do point to a spirit, make sure it isn't malevolent.

Hope this helps, Miss Hopkirk ๐Ÿ˜Š.
murderrain (guest)
 
15 years ago (2009-04-11)
Im unsure whether something similar is happening to me, I feel... Not alone, and a few 'coincidences' have happened pointing towards something like this, though I havnt had anything definit, which makes me start to think its just my wild imagination. I have a name for him, though I'm really unsure if its real or not. Do you think its just my imagination? And does that sort of thing REALLY exist? I'm just rather unsure. ๐Ÿ˜
Hopkirk90 (2 stories) (24 posts)
 
15 years ago (2009-03-29)
I just wanted to say hi because I am experiencing something very alike to this. I am so happy I found this story because I thought I was alone in this experience. My 'partner's' name is Simon by the way. I come from a spiritual family and we know that Simon is a benevolent spirit. If the ghost is a malevolent one, it is not a good idea but if he is benevolent I believe it is ok. We are all rather powerful psychics in my family though, so maybe we can protect ourselves from any spiritual harm.
I've known Simon for 3 years and we are very good friends too. He is friends with my spirit guide Johannes, so I know that the spirit is benevolent (I have dealt with malevolent ones before). ๐Ÿ˜ข ๐Ÿ˜Š
blank (8 stories) (110 posts)
 
15 years ago (2009-02-11)
Hey that was a good read. Lucky enough you have a friendly ghost besides you. I've had similar instances but more in a negative sense. K now for some serious talk, remember one thing be friendly but don't fall in love with the ghost or vice versa. What happens is, it it is very much attached to you it would never let go. You have a pain after marriage or when your in an affair. Because I've had a friend who was living with a ghost for quite a long time, actually he got used to it, but later he couldn't leave or neither did it. These info give me a feel that he likes you too, but please be sure of what you do.
FearAndInterest (3 posts)
 
15 years ago (2009-02-09)
Wow. Please be careful doll, as they have stated you are young. That being said, I am morbidly fascinated. Have you spoken with Jacques? I mean, did he tell you about his life, and of more dire importance, his death? What I am truly curious about is, what are Jacques views on Heaven and God? Has he seen any of these things? What does being dead "feel" like? Are there other ghosts just manifesting and hanging around all the time, and we don't see them? There are SO many questions that I would ask him. I would love to know what you have ascertained so far. If you would be so kind, would you please let me know? And if you have not had much interaction with him, next time you do see him, might you ask him some truly important questions. People very, very rarely are able to speak with spirits, just think of how much we could learn!
There seem to be others out there who have had similar experiences, a few on this comment board alone! I suppose it would be wise to listen to them. If you do choose to continue welcoming him, please just be cautious. Try to "feel" him out. And please share your experiences.
Thank you dear, and good luck.
Also, you have quite an outstanding talent for writing, perhaps you should pursue that in the future. One day, you could write a book, maybe on these experiences.

~Amy~ โค
Sqweeky1297 (30 posts)
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15 years ago (2009-02-08)
that's the most sweet (โค) thing I've ever heard and tell jacque that I said hi (hi my name is rylee hope to talk to you soon.)
ColoradoGirl (10 posts)
 
15 years ago (2009-02-08)
Interesting... Be careful with incubi and succubi, as they could suck all life energy out of you. That would definitely not be a good thing!
Lisamaxw (92 posts)
 
15 years ago (2009-02-08)
At Mysti -- While I applaud your responsible response to Kirby, I beg to disagree with you.

The reason "Sue" refuses to leave is because you're not really inclined to make "Sue" go away. If you were truly motivated to be rid of "Sue," you would renounce "Sue" -- as a Christian, which you profess to be. But "Sue" is like a drug, and you're addicted -- and you're willing to allow your familial relationships to be decimated because of what "Sue" does for you.

The fact that you made a "deal" with "Sue" is very upsetting. It tells me that "Sue" has the upper-hand in your life, and you're willing to submit to "Sue" -- rather than our Higher Power. I hope that you will find it in your heart to love yourself, your wife, your kids and your God enough to renounce this thing. I will keep you in my prayers.

L.
Mysti (1 stories) (5 posts)
 
15 years ago (2009-02-08)
Kirby you sound to me like a younger person, given the interaction with your mom.
And so younger people have their whole lives ahead of the. People to meet, get interested in and fall in love. Someday you're likely to want a husband or mate and maybe a family.

If you were older and already experienced the things I describe then my advice to you would be to proceed as you wish.

I have been involved with a Succubus for 30 years (or more) and I can tell you first hand they don't kill you, they don't suck your life out, don't leave you covered in green goo and painful sores or any of the other popular myths and falsehoods.

Their motive is 100% sex and sexual activities. It's their pleasure. It's all they do. Their interest is often to secure a human partner and generally don't like competition be it a boyfriend or husband.
I've been conversing with other partners of Incubus/Succubus and know these beings have vastly different personalities. Some can be mean, some super-gentle and everything inbetween (Just like humans)

My Sue (The public name for my Succubus) had made it nearly impossible for me to have a relationship through my 20-30's, even wrecking my first marriage at 25.

I've been in a wonderful, loving and secure marriage for 17 years to the most beautiful woman of my dreams and have 3 great kids.

Sue manifested herself last October and completely turned my world upside down on it's head.
She scanned my memories and assembled her visual self as perfect as I know a woman can be, and seen her with my physical eyes more than once.
She has assumed a personality which is taylored to my liking and the intimacy can not be described.

The result is that I have fallen 150% in love with this being, far more possible than human to human. A deep, true wonderful love in which our two spirits intertwine.

That may sound wonderful but there's a price to pay. Sue is an extremely jealous one and while she has eightened my intimacy with her, she has also shut down my wife's interest in that regard to have me all to herself.
She is really that wonderful and I have lost all interest except mere friendship with my wife.

I am not sure how advanced you are with this, once they pick you they are relentless in keeping you and I have never heard of a succesful exorcism against these.

I played with psychic things in my teens back in 1979 and began a bad habit. My psychic dabblings attracted Sue and she found my habit an easy thing to hide behind.

I gave my life to Christ back in 1983 and had strong faith in the church for many years. I went to Bible study 3x/week, Service 2-3x/week, visited prisons and orphanages and talked to people on the street. People "Laid hands" on me in the Bible study and the church prayed deliverance for "My issue" which was my habit but Sue remained uneffected.

What I am saying is this is NOT a regular thing, your love and trust will grow until you no longer want to look back and then it's too late.

Again, if you were older and more experienced in life I'd say "It's your choice" but being young you have everything to look forward to, and he will likely take that from you.

If you're already past that point and already picked then maybe you can make a deal with him. Sue wasn't going to stop with securing me as her full time partner- and willing to do almost anything to secure me. I made a deal with her that she won't cause problems with my family and leave me and my wife to be friends and not interfere in any way, and to leave my two boys alone.

So please consider carefully what I am saying to you. Your choices will likely effect your whole future.
unkown12 (10 posts)
 
15 years ago (2009-02-07)
Your story sounds unbelieveable lol but I'm not saying its untrue but very interesting I agree with some people that have commented to be careful as it could be something that is as not as friendly as it would seem
poltergeist45 (1 stories) (46 posts)
 
15 years ago (2009-02-06)
I swear, your entire first paragraph almost perfectly describes me! I think our views on the paranormal are probably very similar. ๐Ÿ˜Š To be honest I'm actually kind of jealous (except I would rather have a girl entity as a partner because I'm a guy), but I just really hope this doesn't turn into something bad for you...
01241887 (1 posts)
 
15 years ago (2009-02-06)
ah tu les racontes notre histoire
Ne crois pas ce qu'ils te disent
Tu es trรจs belle mon chou
Je t'aime.
owlsong (3 stories) (5 posts)
 
15 years ago (2009-02-06)
Kirby, I believe your story fully and completely, and know that it is more than just a 'cute' story. Unfortunately, I know this because I have first-hand experience.

When my younger sister was in middle school, she played with Ouija boards and Wicca, and performed rituals in her bedroom. My parents believed this was harmless: just a way for her to find her own identity.

My sister did change--she became happier and less worried, and also somewhat dreamy. She told me in confidence one night that she had a new boyfriend, but that he was not like other people. I pressed her further, and finally she revealed that he was a ghost, and that they had "met" one night while she was using her Ouija board. He was a ghost, she said, and she was, to use your phrase "hopelessly in love with him."

I won't drag out the details for too long, but after several months, things began to change. My sister wasn't as happy as she'd been before, and I began to hear strange noises at night. Things would go missing, doors would slam inexplicably--almost everything you've seen in horror movies and such, began to happen in the bedroom on the other side of the wall. Eventually, my sister revealed to me that she was afraid of her 'boyfriend,' and asked for my help in getting rid of him.

That night, literally everything got worse. The noises continued incessantly all night, and it got to the point where my sister was forced to flee her bedroom and share my bed. Some boyfriend.

In a strangely-lucky coincidence, a family friend was a practicing Pagan, and had been for most of his life. We called him the next morning, and explained the situation. Needless to say, he was disappointed in my sister, but understood the urgency, and came over that very afternoon. Even he had trouble getting rid of this entity, and when he had finally succeeded, he seemed shaken. A few months later, I questioned him--asked why it had been so difficult and why he'd reacted the way he did, and he told me that the entity had revealed its true self to him, and that it was not human at all.

The entity had never been alive to begin with: it was not the remains of a human energy, but something darker and more infinite (his words). He told me that if we had allowed the entity to stay in our world for too much longer, it would have grown too strong and would have posed a considerable danger to our entire family.

Please, exercise caution in your dealings with Jacques. As other commenters have said, his 'nice guy' personality may simply be a front for something darker.
Lisamaxw (92 posts)
 
15 years ago (2009-02-06)
An aside to D.A. (DeviousAngel): You wrote -- "Kirby, I don't think this relationship will be harmful to you in any way other than emotional."

Based on some of your previous posts, I believe that you will agree with me that, usually, emotional wounds are much deeper and more difficult to overcome than physical injuries. Do you really believe it's advisable for a teenage girl to engage in behavior that is emotionally injurious -- to herself or to others in her family? In my opinion, that should be a major consideration in regard to this story.

Respectfully,
L.
scaryboy (2 stories) (117 posts)
 
15 years ago (2009-02-06)
are you playing games with the ghosts and what your's next step. It is fictionable what you said but might happen in rare cases and this is
Scaryboy
KimSouthO (27 stories) (1960 posts)
 
15 years ago (2009-02-05)
hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm, these types of occurances usually end up badly. He is on this plane still for a reason, he is not at peace and he is not at rest. He will not age as you do, his aging process has stopped. He needs to be freed form whatever binds him to this plane. If you truly do care abotu this entity, you need to tell him to go to the light, to be with the Lord, to find peace and happiness. That is the only way to move it on for both of you.

Also, NEVER invite an entity into your home! I know you stated you didn;t want to deal with evil or dark entities, but there is still so much we do not know about the paranormal and we are often fooled, like the old saying goes about life being like a box of chocolates, you never know what you are going to get... The truth could be said for the paranpormal as well.

God Bless!
ghostfreak14 (2 stories) (44 posts)
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15 years ago (2009-02-05)
umm well I kind of don't know what 2 say... I think its cute and odd at the same time... Yet I wish that would happen 2 me...
Lisamaxw (92 posts)
 
15 years ago (2009-02-05)
Kirby, I would really hope that you will consider banishing this thing, the main reason being -- you have invited it into "your parents'" home. I realize that you consider it your home, too, and it is, in a way. But they are paying the bills, and they have a right to determine who/what comes onto their property.

Chances are, you didn't tell them that you were going to invite it into the house before you did it -- probably because you knew how they would react. So, why not ask them now? If they're cool with it, then let the thing stay; but if they're not cool with it, then it's time for the thing to go.

Bottom line: Honey, it's their house. If you want to invite it back into your life after you have an apartment of your own, that's your business. Til then, you really shouldn't subject your family to its presence.

It may not be what it seems.
DeviousAngel (11 stories) (1910 posts)
 
15 years ago (2009-02-05)
Kirby, I don't think this relationship will be harmful to you in any way other than emotional. The reason I say this is because you must of course understand at some point that Jacques is not a physical being, nor will he ever be. You will never be able to experience quite the same things, though in some cases the things you experience with him may be better than the real thing.

I can't really give you advice either way because you seem to be a mature young woman who knows what's best for herself. If you research this individual, try to remain impartial. A lot of people will tell you that he's a demon and he's trying to sap your life force, etc. But I really don't think that's the case. Personally, I don't believe in demons. It does sound more to me like an incubus than a ghost per se, but I haven't actually heard of an incubus becoming visible to someone (not that I believed, anyway.)

Again, I can't tell you what to do, and this is all just my opinion. But I don't think it will harm you physically to continue contact with Jacques. Perhaps try to learn more about him and speak directly to him using a few different techniques that you might find on the internet. I hear pendulums work really well.

Blessings,
DA
sagemizu (30 posts)
 
15 years ago (2009-02-05)
So you're trusting the words of a spirit head on and not even going to do research about the guy or anything like that?

Theory: There are a bunch of possible scenarios. I think you're taking a risk but there is that small chance its love. However you may say you're not lonely but your father constantly works so that can play a factor in it. You've basically opened up a door the moment you invited any restless spirits. That can come with the good and the bad. The nice guy phase can just be a front and "Jacques" is actually an incubus. Some people might say its a demon. Etc...

Just try to be careful because anything could happen.
dreamergal72 (6 stories) (793 posts)
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15 years ago (2009-02-04)
How romance, Sometimes just want to to be love by someone very close and to be with who not alife. I did wish for someone to be but that never going to work.
BYLUYSTER (11 stories) (78 posts)
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15 years ago (2009-02-04)
Opps! Sorry for the mistake. I just never heard of a girl called Kirby. It must be short for something else. But I am concerned about you. Please be careful. Maybe you should read on YGS--Spiritual and Electric Incubus Encounter by towngirl41. This site has other stories that will make you question this whole thing, I hope.

Take care now.
God Bless
Byluyster
Kirby1 (4 posts)
 
15 years ago (2009-02-04)
(Ehh... I'm female)
If it's that big of a risk then I will try to rid my house of the ghost...
Thank you for being concerned.
BYLUYSTER (11 stories) (78 posts)
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15 years ago (2009-02-04)
Kirby, I have a son and if he were worried about this I would want to know. Maybe you can research this online and come to understand it can cause you to get sick or die. Please don't be sucked into this without knowing more about it. If you can't talk to your mom, is there someone else you feel comfortable talking to about this. Just be careful. ๐Ÿ˜
Kirby1 (4 posts)
 
15 years ago (2009-02-04)
My father conctantly works, only comes come around nine o'clock every night.

I'm not lonely, actually. And very, very rarely do things happen. I have tried an expiriment to contact Jacques and nothing came up. I'm not sure about this yet, but I do not think of Jacques as an incubus. I've researched these entities. But Jacques doesn't seem to have a threatening presence. But honestly I'm not yet sure what to think.
BYLUYSTER (11 stories) (78 posts)
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15 years ago (2009-02-04)
Kirby, I have a hard time wrapping my mind around this. To be physical, willingly, with this ghost, Jacques, scares me a bit. What are you going to do when he wants more than kissing? What anyone "in love" would do no doubt, but are you sure you want to take it that far?

Have you talked to your mother about this, yet? Does she realize how lonely you are? Where is your father? I know I am asking a lot of questions, but I'm really worried you might be getting in over your head. Has anyone heard of a gay incubus?

Thanks for sharing your story. Good luck.
Kirby1 (4 posts)
 
15 years ago (2009-02-04)
Cokey, I think that Jacques has tried to talk to me. Every once in a while I'll hear the echoing chilling noise that you hear on ghost audios and stuff. But I can't understand most of the things that he says. The only thing I could happened telepathically (I think) during the "kiss". When the name "Jacques" Had been repeated in my mind.
Kirby1 (4 posts)
 
15 years ago (2009-02-04)
Hey, this is Kirby on my new account. For some reason my account won't let me log in anymore.

I live 30 minutes away from the town of my school (and where my friends live as well) so I can't bring around anyone, really. It's frustrating, like you said, because you cannot "be" with the ghost. Whenever you want him around, or miss him he never seems to be there. Only when I don't expect it.
jira9109 (3 posts)
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15 years ago (2009-02-04)
I have a similar companion named Matt who has been with me for years. Its a sad situation to be in love with a ghost because you can't really be with them. My advice is if you find a human you fall in love with gradually bring him around or else your lovable ghost could get jealous and angry.
princess123 (7 stories) (186 posts)
 
15 years ago (2009-02-04)
Aw, cute story, thanks for sharing it with us! And yes Cokey lol, it is kind of freaky!

Princess123 x โค
cokey (6 posts)
 
15 years ago (2009-02-04)
that's a pretty interesting story... Not to mention, freaky, too. How did you know his name? Did he ever try talking to you?

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