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bandet888 (85 posts)
 
11 years ago (2010-06-15)
Funny she sees Jesus and was horrorified! Since she's Hindu maybe Jesus was trying to show her the way. That she must accept Jesus Christ as her savior. Just a thought. I'm not deep into religion myself but this story makes me wonder.
Sachin (3 posts)
 
11 years ago (2010-04-21)
I think you better ask her parents whether she was acting like that during childhood. Tel her parents about happanenings now, they will try thier best. Whatever it is always believe whatever she says. Ask about this with some priests. Dont worry man, god will surely help you. Be positive. She will become correct.
rajeshbhu2020 (1 posts)
 
11 years ago (2010-04-14)
Deer vishal,
I am rajesh kumar from varanasi, when I read your friend's story on ghoststory.com, realy I became worried. Deer vishal I suggest to you that you immidietaly meet any renowned clinical psychologist not psychiatrist because I draw coclusion on your friend's story that your friend's problem is releted to psychological. I know some clinical psychologist but I don't know what is your exact location, if you send your exact location then I can suggest any clinical psychologist to you. I am astudent of psychology & I passed P.G. From bhu. Friend if you want that I help you then you send detail history about your friend from birth to present time.
DeviousAngel (11 stories) (1910 posts)
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11 years ago (2010-01-19)
Wardo, every religion claims to be the "true" religion. Obviously this woman is not of the Christian faith, so there must be another reason she is seeing his face. It is possible that Western influence on the affairs of people in India, particularly as strained as the economic and political situations are, could be drawing these images out for a girl who is already stressed out on other things. I don't know if this could be an explanation for sure, but I would think that if this were the onset of a religious ideology conversion, she would feel much safer with this image instead of confused and terrified.

Hearthorn, I also commend you for your devotion to your girlfriend and I know that it can be very difficult for a young woman to be in a place where the "street attitude" males are predominant. They can say a lot of cruel things and contribute to the self-esteem problems many women already have. Honestly, I think a majority of the things she is experiencing is due to an exhaustive amount of stress. Seeing a doctor or therapist is not something she should be ashamed of, and now more than ever, I think she should definitely turn to you, her family, her friends, her religion, or anything safe that is a stronghold for her. The fact that her family is being secretive about her "not being born to a woman" (and by the way, VERY good theory/explanation there, cosmogal) is probably causing her to try and fill in the blanks. Not knowing whether or not her parents are really her parents is like "the last straw".
Wardo (8 stories) (171 posts)
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11 years ago (2010-01-19)
Well, if she means that she was not born from a woman, by saying just that, then I have to admit is sounds like an emotional or mental state problem to me as well. There is not really any way that someone could know that about herself, and if it was told to her, it definitely sounds made up, intriguing nonetheless though. I'm glad you are trying to help your girlfriend. It seems like she really needs your emotional support throughout this ordeal. And it sounds like she has had some pretty unnerving experiences. By the way, seeing an image of Jesus in the mirror is something that happened to a Deacon of my church. He said that was the day that he truly knew that Christ was present in him and it changed his life. Maybe Jesus is reaching out to her. After all, he is the true salvation and our savior. That is what I believe anyway, and if someone of other faith said that, it would be more concrete than ever! Well, good luck and I'm sorry if I just gave you a bunch of my own opinions. The best thing you can do is be there for her and love her as long as you can!
cosmogal926 (9 stories) (1223 posts)
 
11 years ago (2010-01-19)
Found it! It was from Macbeth not a religion class. Sorry it has been a long time since high school.
Http://www.enotes.com/macbeth/q-and-a/who-was-not-born-woman-why-86477
cosmogal926 (9 stories) (1223 posts)
 
11 years ago (2010-01-19)
I think it is really sweet that you are trying to look for answers to help your girlfriend. You obviously love her very much. The statment "Not being born of a woman" reminds me of a story I heard in a religion class I had in high school. I believe it means that she came into this world by c-section, not by natural child birth. Now I don't remember what the story was about but I remember that statement. I will try and find the story and post the link here for you. Thanks for posting her story, and I hope your girlfriend finds peace soon. 😊
hearthorn (1 stories) (8 posts)
 
11 years ago (2010-01-19)
[at] cj: thanks buddy. As per the "Jesus" the water was cold and not steaming.
One more thing that I would like to add is that her school days were pretty hectic. I means guys of her school had street side behavior. They used to pass comments on her in public which made her embarrassed. She kept these things to herself often cried for hours alone.
She revealed these things to me yesterday. She even remembers the dates on which those events happens to her!
When I asked her that does her mom and dad knows about her dreams, she said that they know but no one discuss with her on this topic. Neither does she tries to talk! Am the only one she has faith on...

When I asked her does that "man" who comes to pull her sheet sometimes comes in her dream, she says she is not sure but she is terrified by his presence.

I try to confront her and make her forget her past by making her laugh every time I meet her. But when we discuss these topics things go out of control and she often ends up crying: (: (😢
mEow_stOry (11 posts)
 
11 years ago (2010-01-19)
juSt continue loving your girl...,
That's the best that I can advice...,
Give her the love and strength that she needs at times like that...,
CJ (4 stories) (43 posts)
 
11 years ago (2010-01-19)
First, I want to say that with your girlfriend getting upset with your suggestions that you have given her is understandable because feeling like you're not being believed by the one you put your trust in is a hard thing to deal with, especially when it comes to not your average every day matters such as the things you have described. So continue to be as understanding with her as possible and continue to offer her your support. If she continues to accuse you of not believing her, calmly explain to her that you are trying to understand better and that she could help you understand better if she explained things to you in more detail, which would in turn allow you to help her.

Onto what your girlfriend has been experiencing...

"She said she was never born from a woman." -- That statement right there has me entirely baffled and I really do not honestly know what to think about it. Has she ever explained in detail what exactly she means by that statement? That might be something you want to get clearer info about, whether it be from her, or you reaching out to other resources, such as her parents, to try to understand what she means when she says that.

"She adds that often she observes some cut marks on her body when she wakes up from bad dreams." -- It's not impossible to inflict some sort of bodily harm to yourself during sleep. Was she stressed before falling to sleep when she noticed she'd acquired the markings? Has she ever explained to you what she dreams about before she wakes up with these markings?

"She also sees a man who comes close to her while she is asleep. He tries to pull her bed sheet and she is horrified by his presence." -- I'm not entirely familiar with sleep paralysis, so I don't think I will try to broach that subject when it comes to that statement. However, is it possible that these moments happen WHILE she is still sleeping? As in, happening during a dream that at the time felt like she was awake and she wasn't able to distinguish between reality and her sleep world? Did that make sense? 😕

"When she washed her face, and looked up in the mirror, she saw the reflection of "Jesus"." -- Were there any significant events that took place in her life before this happened? Events that could have triggered a significant amount of stress? Also, has she ever had sleep walking problems? Is it possible that that could be an explanation? Another far fetched explanation I could throw out is steam from the water, but you didn't let us know whether the water was hot or cold... So... 😕

Everything you have described is certainly interesting to say the least and I do hope you keep us updated. Thank you for sharing and let us know!
char1y (2 stories) (13 posts)
 
11 years ago (2010-01-19)
First of all to reneespring, he is asking for help so if your not going to be helpful why be insulting with a useless opinion at least blue_raven80 said more or less the same thing with out being insulting and making a helpful coment. Second of all 3:00 is thought of as the witching hour, the time of night when the paranormal realm is suposed to be most active so if she does have a hightened sense of things around her, it could be the increase of activity at that time waking her up. You should read more into it.
blue_raven80 (13 stories) (338 posts)
 
11 years ago (2010-01-19)
uhmm... Have you tried asking he aprents about the story? I mean the man that gave her to her parents, do they know him? Did the man tell them that she was not born of a woman? Sorry but I find it ridiculous. You might want to investigate it yourself. I know you believe her but there are some things that you have to prove yourself. Also tell your girlfriend that going to a GP is not a bad thing. You just want to be sure that she is healthy and in good health. Good luck.
reneespring (148 posts)
 
11 years ago (2010-01-18)
I'm sorry, but my feeling is anyone that does not believe she was born of a woman is probably psychotic.
DeviousAngel (11 stories) (1910 posts)
 
11 years ago (2010-01-18)
Well, try explaining to her that you do believe her but want to make sure that she is healthy and safe, and that there are no outside causes of this. If you didn't believe her, you would tell her that it was all in her head and never bring it up again, but because you are talking about it, it shows that you care. She will have to be less sensitive about not being believed if she wishes to find any way to stop this from happening... Unless she feels there is a REASON you shouldn't believe her, which we also call a guilty conscience...:)
hearthorn (1 stories) (8 posts)
 
11 years ago (2010-01-18)
thanks buddies for your concern. I will tell you all more as soon as there are some other happenings: (: (: (I will try talking to her about this from time to time so that she does not keep things to herself... Is it right the way?: (: (I tried telling her to consult a doctor. But this made the things worse... Now she thinks that I do not believe her: (: (and that I am just taking things for granted! She adds that I think her a mad or cursed girl!: (: (: (: (
Pjod (3 stories) (978 posts)
 
11 years ago (2010-01-18)
curious what she means by the reflection of Jesus. Is it exactly how she would portray Christ? Is it an exact copy of a picture of Christ she is familiar with? Just wondering why she would make that connection.
DeviousAngel (11 stories) (1910 posts)
 
11 years ago (2010-01-18)
I agree with Surya in some respects. You may want to encourage her to visit a physician and ensure that she is in good physical health. She should share at least some of these experiences with her doctor, particularly the ones that have lasting physical effects (sleep walking, the scratches on her body, etc.) as it may be that she has a sleep condition. As for her not being born to a woman, I don't see how she would know about that. I suppose the only way to know would be for her to ask her parents?

I'm not sure about these premonition dreams, but I think that something let's us see what we need to see, and sometimes confuses us or puts us off track. Not all dreams (good or bad) come true, and what happens, happens. Unfortunately, we can try to change the course of things, but typically people do not have the ability to see into the future if they have the intention of changing the course of things.

As far as the reflection of Jesus goes, I'm not sure about that one. That is very strange and I have not heard of something like that happening. Has your girlfriend been stressed out or overworked lately? I know school can be very difficult, but it's possible that some of her symptoms are stress-related. It may be in her best interest to see a therapist at least to rule out the possibility that she is just overwhelmed.

I don't really have an explanation for her image being blurred out in photographs, but that seems rather strange to me, and sounds very much like "The Ring"...have you tried having someone else take her picture with a different camera? I'm sure there are many people who would be interested in investigating this phenomenon.

Thank you for sharing your story, and please keep us updated. I'm interested to see how this situation develops.
Surya (39 stories) (867 posts)
 
11 years ago (2010-01-18)
hearthorn, thank you for submitting the story of your girlfriend.

What I will say is maybe your girlfriend is suffring from sleep Paralysis. "she sees a man who tries to pull the bed sheets". Common in sleep paralysis.

As for the marks on her body maybe inflicted through her dreams.

As for the reflection of Jesus, when she washed her face, that has totally baffled me as well. But your comment I found a little odd, does it really matter if you are a Hindu and see Jesus? Not only Catholics see Jesus as the son of GOD!

You also claim that your girlfriend's dreams come true. Could it no be that she is seeing past events that have occurred in her life. Maybe she sould start by speaking to her parents about what she is going through, ie what she sees.

As for the waking up at 3am and sitting in bed, I would strongly suggest she visits her GP before looking at anything paranomal.

Surya

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