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All In A Dream

 

I am back. Just at work, not so busy and I decided to share an experience I had after my mum passed away. As per my previous experience, I did share that my mum was obviously trying to be there for me after she was gone. This I found a little strange and would love to know your thoughts. So here it goes.

Mum passed in January 2014. She was not really well leading up to her passing, but she always did her own cooking, washing and cleaning. She and dad lived in the main building, and I lived with my family in our little 1 roomed granny cottage. We would often cook and share our meals as my dad would often eat with my children. She knew I hated herbs and would never dare to send me some. I still remember the day she cooked it, and we laughed about how I said I would rather die than eat herbs. I remember putting it into the freezer so she and my dad could have the leftover food another day.

Approximately a month after her passing, my colleague and I were having lunch, and she said to me that she dreamt of my late mum the night before. She said that my mum was all jovial and told her to please advise me to take out the container with cooked herbs from the freezer, if not it will lie there until she is born again. I actually spilt my tea all over my clothing that day. I was shocked beyond words. Only I had known this not even my dad, let alone a colleague. She only saw my mum from afar on the day of her funeral. My colleague even described the container it was in. My colleague was no psychic or mind reader, just an ordinary girl. I got home that afternoon from work, and the first thing I did was go to the freezer. Lo and behold, right there in front of me was the container. I just stood there a while and stared into space. I defrosted the food and fed it to the birds by placing it under a tree. It had been there more than a month. If she was still there it would have been eaten. I no longer find these things strange as I have come to terms that our loved ones are always there even when they are no longer physically present.

An update: I now love herbs, and my husband often jokes about me eating grass (that is what he calls it)

I miss my parents dearly, but I know that wherever my mum is she is having a good laugh at me as I am still living and loving the herbs.

Thank you for reading

Love & Light

SashB

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Rajine (14 stories) (904 posts)
 
3 weeks ago (2024-11-11)
Hi SashB

That makes sense, your mum is looking out for you and you will get signs from her just to let you know that she's guiding you.
SashB (8 stories) (8 posts)
 
3 weeks ago (2024-11-09)
[at] Rajine you are right herbs are great. Yes she only saw her on the day of the funeral, however this lady is now my bestie over the last 11 years. She has been there for me whenever I needed a shoulder. I would think it was my mum's way of showing me this was the right person to have in my life.
Rajine (14 stories) (904 posts)
 
3 weeks ago (2024-11-08)
Herbs is not so bad 😅, it's fascinating that your mum chose to appear in your work friends dream though, I wonder why is that, from what I've read your friend only saw your mum on her funeral day.
SashB (8 stories) (8 posts)
 
4 weeks ago (2024-11-06)
[at] lady-glow [at] The_Lost_Voyage_11 Thank you for you guys feedback. Yes I certainly know that my parents are looking after me. I am soon going to share with you all how my dad communicates with me. You know the funny thing is when they on the physical plane they are so different, because my mum and I never shared any closeness. She was always cold and never paid attention to me. It was always a struggle but I guess now that she is on the other side, things are different
lady-glow (16 stories) (3197 posts)
 
4 weeks ago (2024-11-06)
What a touching and lovely experience.

Our loved ones can be very creative when it comes to communicating with us after their passing.

Thanks for sharing
The_Lost_Voyage_11 (8 stories) (256 posts)
 
4 weeks ago (2024-11-05)
Hello SashB, what a touching story, it's amazing how our loved ones find ways to connect after their passing. Your story continues to validate there is much beyond our physical existence!

It sounds like from this story and the other one about the scent, that your mom is definitely looking after you. She sends reminders that she's there. You two share an amazing connection! She certainly sounds like she has a great sense of humor too!

Thanks for sharing! I'm sure we'll hear more!

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