My Dad had been sick with a lung condition for 2 weeks before he passed. It was all so sad and unreal that he was gone. He died on the 17th June, 2011. After the funeral, his ashes were put in the ocean like he wished. He had been an avid sailor and loved the ocean. I tossed the heavy jug like clay container into the ocean about a week after his passing, and bid him well. It was still so difficult to believe that he was really not with us anymore.
Two months after he died he appeared to my mother, my mother told me that he was well dressed with a clean ironed linen chequered shirt, and pants. He was standing about 2 feet from her, and on his arrival started talking. She didn't understand what he was saying, but he repeated the same thing to her, and she still didn't understand what he said. She said it sounded foreign. She also said that he looked so healthy, clear skin and bright eyes and his hair was barely grey. A handsome man she said stood before her. As soon as he arrived, he left, leaving my mom with many questions about her visitation.
She said she saw a certain look of agitation in his eyes, almost like an impatience like he had to go somewhere, and that he stopped by to see her on his way, where ever he was going. She said he seemed so busy. My mom was so amazed where that linen shirt came from, she said she never seen it before, and she said she was wonding where it came from.
I was wondering if there is anyone who could give me a small explanation of the experience that happened and if this is for real. And why he was so agitated?
Such things have been mentioned before, a loved one saying goodbye, on their way someplace else. Considering that your mother wasn't able to understand him, I think I'd be a bit agitated too.
Can your mother remember the words spoken? Have try to write them down, a few times. It could be a puzzle.