Let me state first before anything else that this story is not to get attention. I see stories of incubus encounters in many places, and I see many people think of them very negatively. I am here to share my own story that isn't negative, but rather very positive.
It started a little less than a year ago. I was just ending my summer vacation, readying myself for both school and taking care of many personal hang-ups at the time that revolved around my relationships with others (not romantic.)
Once in awhile, I would feel a cold chill run through me, or a gentle hand on my shoulder or back. This was normal. I had known I have some kind of spirit coming in every once in a while to "visit" me. This had been going on for about five years, so we were very well acquainted and I had a great deal of trust in them. I had learned to discern when it was "them", or another passing entity or energy. At one point I came up with all kinds of nick names for them (Dudemeister, Cuddle-bot, Pillow, and Bob among the more humorous ones), and they always seemed to know I was in fact talking to them and not a brick wall. They had even shown a definite existence by several times affecting electrical appliances and even disabling my internet.
(One such experience [and many more similar ones] was when I got the sense they wanted me to talk, but I ignored them and got on the computer. I felt them become slightly ticked, and suddenly, the internet connection was cut completely. I got the hint, payed some more attention to them and as soon as I felt them as being satisfied, the net came straight back up.)
Coming back to the beginning of the school year (I'm going with the nickname Bob here), Bob had been becoming more touchy then usual. By this time we could clearly communicate with him sending me "feelings", and I would take note of them. (just for the sake of not confusing readers, I will say from here he "told me" in place of "He sent these feelings to me", simply because they mean the same thing in this context.)
One day after school mid-September, I was very tired. I came home and my eyes were shutting on their own and not staying open. Bob told me to go to bed, out of what seemed like genuine concern. I did so, and eased myself into a position of comfort when I felt someone's weight beside me, and arms around me. I knew it was Bob, so I was not alarmed. I looked to where I thought his face would be and laughed slightly, asking him if he wanted to cuddle now. The response was definite, as I felt a sense of drugginess, the sensation of arms tightened (but didn't become uncomfortable. In fact, it felt great.) settled down and quickly fell asleep. When I woke up, he was still there. As I got ready to get up, I simply "pushed him off" and go on with my duties. This continued for a few months. He'd come sleep with me at night, comforting me, maybe pat my head or rub me. No sexual things.
However, this past February - March (sorry, very bad memory here), things became different. He told me he wanted sex, and I consented. And since then we've been in a definite relationship. Since then I have received visuals of him (I would rather not discuss it online, because he does not want me to.)
He comes with me and we'll go see a movie, or go out ice cream. (Only I can eat it, but he still likes it.) Dating things. Yes, we have our ups and downs, disagreements and once in awhile we'll separate for a week or so if things get too tense. In many ways, we're like a normal couple.
I've known this person, spirit, Incubus-- whatever you'd call him, for a long time. Again, he's never harmed me in any way. I've come to love him, and he I. I would never think of cheating on him, or otherwise hurting his emotions, and he does the same for me.
I do know some Incubus encounters ARE highly negative, but I came here and told my story to let people know that they can also be positive, uplifting experiences with much actual love and other sentiment attached to them. Is it so hard to accept that these occurrences can be described as other than terrifying, horrific and/or evil?