Reoccurring Incubus Haunting Question

I am a bloke in my mid 30's and yes, I know stories about Incubus/Succubus hauntings are being filtered/restricted for obvious reasons. But I am going to try and see if my story will be published and if anyone can help me with my current situation...

So, first of all, a bit of background information. As a teenager I use to live with my family in a small country town called Balranald in southern New South Wales, Australia. I'm of mixed race background (Indigenous, Greek & Australian) and had always heard ghost stories from other people. And yes, they would cross their hearts and swear these stories were true but I didn't really believe them. Being Indigenous, you'd think I would understand and accept these stories. But I grew up in Foster Care and wasn't in touch with my Indigenous Culture back then. And I hadn't had any real encounters of my own as such, so I never believed the ghost stories when I heard them. But all this changed after my sixteenth birthday when I had my first encounter with an actual ghost. I put it down to being drunk and just tripping the first time it happened, but then it happened again a few weeks later. I hadn't been drinking the second time and knew for a fact I wasn't tripping. I didn't say anything or tell anyone in my family and over the next months weeks it started happening more often. This continued for almost a year and by that stage I had gotten use to it happening to me. Eventually an Elder in the Indigenous Community sensed something about me and conducted a smoking ceremony on me and the house where we lived. After that it stopped and things in my life started to improve.

Fast forward seven years, I'm living by myself in another small country town just over the Victorian border. The town was called Sea Lake in Northern Victoria, Australia. I was going through another rough patch at the time and had a lot of family problems. Along with drug and alcohol problems and getting into trouble with the law. I couldn't keep a job or a relationship and nothing in my life was going good at the time. Then it started again, I knew what to expect from the first time it happened some years earlier. But this time seemed different, it was more forceful and much more intense. Again, I didn't try and stop it from happening and I just put up with it. This continued for 21 months, getting more physical and intense and I was beginning to enjoy it. I know that sounds bad, but at the time this is what happened to me and how I felt about it. After I started to enjoy it, things got worse and much more forceful. It was at this point I knew I had to do something so I went back to my old home town Balranald and sought out the help of the Local Elder again. Once again he conducted a smoking ceremony on me and my house and things stopped happening again. My life started to improve and I was finally able to keep hold of a partner for the first time in ages. We even moved down to Bendigo in central Victoria where I got a job and life picked up for me.

Fast forward again to the present day, and it's happening again. I'm no longer with the same partner I had when I moved to Bendigo (and haven't been for years) and I'm once again having trouble with the law and not able to keep jobs. My family life is strained and I don't have much to do with them really. I also only have a couple of friends that I talk to now and then and I live a pretty solitary life. It's back again and I'm in the process of gathering things needed to conduct a smoking ceremony because I know it works from the previous two times. But the problem I'm having is this, could it be the same one or are these things attracted to me? Has anyone who had cleansed themselves from one of these things (which ever practice or method used is not relevant) have it come back at a later time? Do these things come back to the victims or is it more likely these are different ones? I've tried google searches for answers to these questions but can't find any anywhere. I have found out more about these things and have definitely learnt a lot. But I still can't find out any answers to my questions. If anyone out there can help me answer these questions it would be greatly appreciated. More information upon request and thank you for taking the time to read my story.