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Reoccurring Incubus Haunting Question

 

I am a bloke in my mid 30's and yes, I know stories about Incubus/Succubus hauntings are being filtered/restricted for obvious reasons. But I am going to try and see if my story will be published and if anyone can help me with my current situation...

So, first of all, a bit of background information. As a teenager I use to live with my family in a small country town called Balranald in southern New South Wales, Australia. I'm of mixed race background (Indigenous, Greek & Australian) and had always heard ghost stories from other people. And yes, they would cross their hearts and swear these stories were true but I didn't really believe them. Being Indigenous, you'd think I would understand and accept these stories. But I grew up in Foster Care and wasn't in touch with my Indigenous Culture back then. And I hadn't had any real encounters of my own as such, so I never believed the ghost stories when I heard them. But all this changed after my sixteenth birthday when I had my first encounter with an actual ghost. I put it down to being drunk and just tripping the first time it happened, but then it happened again a few weeks later. I hadn't been drinking the second time and knew for a fact I wasn't tripping. I didn't say anything or tell anyone in my family and over the next months weeks it started happening more often. This continued for almost a year and by that stage I had gotten use to it happening to me. Eventually an Elder in the Indigenous Community sensed something about me and conducted a smoking ceremony on me and the house where we lived. After that it stopped and things in my life started to improve.

Fast forward seven years, I'm living by myself in another small country town just over the Victorian border. The town was called Sea Lake in Northern Victoria, Australia. I was going through another rough patch at the time and had a lot of family problems. Along with drug and alcohol problems and getting into trouble with the law. I couldn't keep a job or a relationship and nothing in my life was going good at the time. Then it started again, I knew what to expect from the first time it happened some years earlier. But this time seemed different, it was more forceful and much more intense. Again, I didn't try and stop it from happening and I just put up with it. This continued for 21 months, getting more physical and intense and I was beginning to enjoy it. I know that sounds bad, but at the time this is what happened to me and how I felt about it. After I started to enjoy it, things got worse and much more forceful. It was at this point I knew I had to do something so I went back to my old home town Balranald and sought out the help of the Local Elder again. Once again he conducted a smoking ceremony on me and my house and things stopped happening again. My life started to improve and I was finally able to keep hold of a partner for the first time in ages. We even moved down to Bendigo in central Victoria where I got a job and life picked up for me.

Fast forward again to the present day, and it's happening again. I'm no longer with the same partner I had when I moved to Bendigo (and haven't been for years) and I'm once again having trouble with the law and not able to keep jobs. My family life is strained and I don't have much to do with them really. I also only have a couple of friends that I talk to now and then and I live a pretty solitary life. It's back again and I'm in the process of gathering things needed to conduct a smoking ceremony because I know it works from the previous two times. But the problem I'm having is this, could it be the same one or are these things attracted to me? Has anyone who had cleansed themselves from one of these things (which ever practice or method used is not relevant) have it come back at a later time? Do these things come back to the victims or is it more likely these are different ones? I've tried google searches for answers to these questions but can't find any anywhere. I have found out more about these things and have definitely learnt a lot. But I still can't find out any answers to my questions. If anyone out there can help me answer these questions it would be greatly appreciated. More information upon request and thank you for taking the time to read my story.

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Morticia1 (6 stories) (162 posts)
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1 year ago (2018-08-31)
AussieGuy so glad to hear that things have improved for you and your family. 😊
AussieGuy81 (1 stories) (4 posts)
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1 year ago (2018-08-10)
Hi everyone,

Just an update on my situation, which is now resolved. But I would like to thank two individuals in particular, Morticia1 & devorrio. Both of you provided me with information that assisted me and my family in this matter, and I am greatly appreciative. Whilst the info was from two different view points, it certainly gave me food for thought and made me evaluate the situation at hand. However, in saying that, I have taken everything on board and took the necessary steps to resolve this situation.

I am happy with the outcome and can now say that things are starting to improve for me once again. Thank you all for responding and taking the time to help me.

AG81
AussieGuy81 (1 stories) (4 posts)
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1 year ago (2018-07-05)
Hi devorrio

I got your email and I want to say thank you, the info you gave me was really helpful. I've responded to it and I've also taken your advice onboard mate. From what you said it sounds like you really know your stuff and I'm glad you gave me your help. Thanks mate

AG81
devorrio (1 posts)
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1 year ago (2018-07-03)
Hey m8,

I wrote you an e-mail with everything, hit me back.

Thanks,
A
AussieGuy81 (1 stories) (4 posts)
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1 year ago (2018-07-03)
Hi Ox1111

Thank you for comment but unfortunately I don't think it is a demon. I can also disregard sleep paralysis (as you stated), because the second time these things happened to me. The activity wasn't restricted to a half sleep state, I had been awake and resting when the thing started its activity. So this (to me), confirms it couldn't be sleep paralysis. So yes, I agree with you that I can disregard sleep paralysis. However, I didn't (and still don't) get a feeling of fear, or guilt or shame.

I've never been a religious person and at the moment I'm learning more about my Wiradjuri Culture and Traditions, with the help of my worker from the local Aboriginal Co-Operative, who has helped me out with some resources. So I will be sticking with the smoking ceremony as I know this works. So I thank you for your comment but I don't think it applies to my situation.

To everyone else who reads this, the main reason I posted this story, is I'm wondering if I'm dealing with the same Incubus or could it be three different ones? I would like to know more about these things and what research I do online doesn't really help me. If anyone can answer or help me with my main question "...the problem I'm having is this, could it be the same one or are these things attracted to me?", it would be greatly helpful & appreciated, thank you.
Ox1111 (3 posts)
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1 year ago (2018-07-01)
It's a demon. People talk of sleep disorders and other issues but that is rubbish. I get held down sometimes and a sense of strange fear comes over you a feeling like your afraid to try to move. Solution: 1 you can absolutely move and if you try it feels like an overwhelming struggle but the secret is it is holding you but most of its power is mental control. Without thinking or struggling; force rapid movement like punches and it will work, as slow movements allow more mental control time. With practice you can overcome it with slower movements Call upon Jesus and repeat also though I walk through the valley of death I shall fear no evil and if Christian state this body was bought at a price by the Holy Spirit of God and no demon have right to be here; be gone demon. You must realize the power is mostly mental, notice you can wiggle fingers and ankles; if physical you couldn't, get balls and fight it with aggressive mental state. BE CHRISTIAN and realize your body is a temple to the Holy Spirit and a direct attack on Your father in heaven, that should piss you off if you love your father.
Morticia1 (6 stories) (162 posts)
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1 year ago (2018-06-28)
AussieGuy that's ok I wasn't sure if you were aware and/or in contact with them so I erred on the side of caution just in case 😊
AussieGuy81 (1 stories) (4 posts)
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1 year ago (2018-06-27)
Hi guys and thank you all for the responses and advise. In particular though, I just want to say to Morticia1 that I am already linked in with BDAC. So what I will do is talk to my worker and get him to refer me on and thank you for your advise.

I appreciate all the feedback and thank you all for taking the time to read my story, thank you

😊
aussiedaz (18 stories) (1320 posts)
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1 year ago (2018-06-26)
AussieGuy, I went through something similar when I was around 16 or 17 and you are or were 18 at the time right? No drugs or alcohol in my case but you do burden some guilt and shame over it because it is a very personal account and your not in control of what's going on and most of the time you are half asleep just waking up to something doing things to you with out your permission?

Let me say this, you are not alone... Probably half of the folk who have read your story here have at least one time in their life experienced something similar but won't talk about it and that's fair enough... So that's the first thing you need to understand... Many people go through what you have, so try not to burden the guilt or feel bad about it (easy said I know).

I believe 99 percent of these accounts are psychological brought on by the conditioning of the mind in a sort of sleep paralysis state where the pineal gland stays caught in a fantasy state frequency zone brought on by subliminal sexual urges acting out as a separate entity in real time as it is trying to condition your thoughts back into an awakening state of consciousness where you are in control of your thoughts... And some of these experiences may not be consistent to what you perceive as acceptable sexual behaviour but they are what they are.

In the other 1 percent of cases, their are sexual spirits in the 4th dimension that do enter into sexual relationships with the living, but this is generally those people who are extremely lonely usually a lot older.

Work on your diet, exercise more, regular sleep not more than 8 hours, work... All these three things can help your pineal gland kick back into doing what it should be doing instead of creating these accounts for you... I don't feel you are a part of that 1 percent.

Regards Daz
Morticia1 (6 stories) (162 posts)
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1 year ago (2018-06-23)
Hi AussieGuy the previous posters are right, perhaps have the cleansing ritual done regularly to keep this ghost at bay.

I live about 1/2 hr from Bendigo and the Dja Dja Wurrung are the traditional owners of this region so perhaps contact the elders to help you out. Their website is http://www.djadjawurrung.com.au/

Rookdygin one of our members also has an excellent Home cleansing/sheilding that might help too.

Good luck.
AugustaM (5 stories) (891 posts)
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1 year ago (2018-06-20)
I agree with others that this thing is only able to get at you when you are down and then goes about keeping you down so it can feed off that negative energy. Maybe it finds its way in when your life goes off track - may be the universe is trying to tell you something. Since the traditional methods of your people have freed you in the past, may be that's where the path of your life should go. In addition to seeking out an elder to perform the ceremony and continuing to regularly perform it monthly going forward, you could find some form of work that would bring you closer to and help your people. Life may be telling you to return to your roots - there may be real purpose for your life there.

Just my thoughts on the whole thing ❤

All the best in the future!
Unexplained (2 stories) (121 posts)
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1 year ago (2018-06-15)
Hey AussieGuy81, a well-written experience. Thanks for sharing.

I'm originally from Australia and although I'm not Koori I have an acquaintance who is. I interviewed her once and she taught me a little about Koori culture & customs - the supernatural and so forth. To me it seems that the smoking ceremony does work temporarily and is giving you some reprieve from this possessive spirit - which picks on you when you're down.

Is there a kadaicha in your community who can exorcise this spirit?
CuriousDee (8 stories) (630 posts)
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1 year ago (2018-06-15)
AussieGuy,

Great advice from Lucia and Rex. It appears that you experience this ghost (?) when you are going through emotional and mental turmoil. It reminds me of the saying; 'Kicking you when you are already down'. I agree that you should do the cleansing ritual on a regular basis. You've already had positive results each time, why not do it regularly? 😊

All the best,
Dee
Rex-T (4 stories) (249 posts)
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1 year ago (2018-06-14)
Gidday AussieGuy81,

This sounds like certain 'doors' in your mind have been opened while tripping, that were best left shut. I agree with LuciaJacinta that something has been attracted to you and has stayed close since your first experience.

From what you have written, it appears to move in when you are vulnerable and beats a hasty retreat when you return to your heritage and become stronger via the smoking ceremony.

As LuciaJacinta has already stated, make the smoking ceremony a regular occurrence.

Appears to me that you have come a long way in getting to know yourself. There's plenty of things out there that pollute the soul so a good cleansing every now and then wouldn't hurt.

Good Luck
Rex-T
LuciaJacinta (7 stories) (237 posts)
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1 year ago (2018-06-13)
I would think it's probably the same one just hanging around you but steps back a bit after the cleansing ritual. Maybe you should go routinely as a given even if nothing is happening every few months to make sure it stays away.

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