My boyfriend and I have been together for little more than a year. We have had our ups and downs just like every other relationship. Sometimes we fight and we stay mad at each other for days, but that all stopped about two months ago. I don't remember ever being as happy as I was during those two months.
My boyfriend's parents had a beautiful relationship, and about three weeks ago his dad asked his mom for a divorce, it was a surprise to everyone. They weren't speaking to each other at all.
About two or three days after that, I'm laying with my boyfriend on his bed watching a movie. We turn the movie off and he gets up to paint, I decided to play a video game. Then I heard something weird like the stereo of a car coming from outside, it sounded like the person had a talk show on, but for some reason it caught my attention and I became very curious on what was being said on the stereo. I couldn't make it out, so I turned the volume of the game down, as I'm turning the volume down I heard a voice coming out of the speaker I had just turned the volume down for. The speaker was right next to my left ear. My boyfriend heard it too. I laughed and turned the volume of the surround sound off. Then I heard a very deep raspy voice say my boyfriend's name then mine. We both just looked at each other very puzzled, then the voice repeated the names in that same order two more times.
The next day my boyfriend and I started fighting over nothing and the fights usually happen around 8:30 at night which is when we heard the voice. Every day since then we have been fighting. We wake up the next morning like nothing has happened we're not mad and we can't explain to each other why we fought. The strangest thing happened, my boyfriend's parents are speaking to each other like nothing happened between them and me and my boyfriend are fighting. The arguments usually start in that room.
Four days ago I'm in my house and I'm getting ready to go to a job interview. I was home alone, my mom was at work. I was getting out of the shower when I heard someone calling me from downstairs, I thought my mom had gotten out early or she forgot something. I go downstairs and there wasn't anyone there. I decided to not pay it any mind.
I started ironing my shirt and I heard the bathroom door slam shut, I had closed the door when I left the bathroom so I can't find any explanation for it. I was ready to go and for some reason every time I walked towards the door, I remembered I had forgotten something I went back to get it, it happened a couple of times. It was as if I wasn't able to leave my house. My brother came from school, and that's when I felt free to leave. I don't know how to explain it but I felt trapped.
I have been looking for answers all over the internet and I can't find any explanation. I don't want my relationship to get ruined because of something neither one of us can control.
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A good Christian church would be the best place to start. If you have a relationship with God and can call upon his name at anytime, whatever it is will know that the jigg is up and that this girl has done her research. Instead of saying "go away" just say "God loves you" or "God has a special place for you", or "whoever is here, I would like to tell you about Jesus" and the last door slamming will be on its way out the front. I think the sage farmers are taking over this site. It is repeat business because it never last long. Really, just kidding about the sage. Call on the One that made you, they know who He is. You should too.