I'm Jitox and I have heard many story's before but never experienced something like this. My life has been a roller-coaster of emotions lately. All tho I'm doing more then fine, recently I'm sort of sleeping together with a girl who recently got out of a relationship and I'm in a kind of same situation. This is some sort of comfort for both of us.
I've been sleeping at her place often since a week now. She is living in a little studio with friends and I've not seen her parents or anything since we are just being together not in a too relationship way.
I've always slept really good even today and I like cuddling with her, but this morning I got creeped out and I'm still creeped out. I have the feeling I got to start at the beginning which was the night before.
She is still having issues with her Ex-boyfriend since they only broke up recently. We were out drinking a few beers (3 or so nothing more) and her ex-boyfriend was there. We ended up talking about him when we came to her place (just casual talking). She felt bad about it and started crying, I comforted her and we cuddled up and fell asleep. I sleep really well, but when there is a partner in my bed and she moves around a bit, I wake up pretty easy. In the early morning right before the alarm goes, I wake up a bit from some movement of her, so I am half asleep and open one eye for a little bit.
I see this woman standing beside her bed watching her, felt like they were talking so I'm thinking:" oooo god, her mother is here (for some reason that was the most logical thing that came up in my mind even tho it was 7.30 in the morning). So I feel like this tension and I'm like okay whatever do like you don't notice her and sleep. But somehow I can't keep myself from watching, so I open my eye's again for a little bit and watch her. She looks back at me, I'm wondering if she noticed I'm watching or not. So I look back away again. But again, I get this feeling I need to know what's going on, so slightly open my eye's again and again I think she noticed me watching her. I could move in bed and I felt like saying " Vanessa (false name) your mom is here, cause in the back of my mind, I kind of realized she was sleeping". But I say nothing, cause it felt awkward since her mom must be like:" why is there a new guy in her life already and even so in her bed..." So I say nothing. The woman keeps watching me and her, suddenly touches her shoulder or something and somehow I feel comfortable but awkward. The alarm goes off, Vanessa wakes up looking for her alarm in bed, I watch her and the woman is STILL there, watching her. At this moment it felt awkward so I turn around in bed cause I feel like not watching this strange woman anymore. But somehow I have to turn around again, cause I didn't want to let her leave my sight, I look back and the woman is turned around, walking to the door and leaves. I did not realize at first, but the door wasn't open and didn't open or close at all times. I did not say anything to Vanessa yet, she cuddles up against me, feels like she is very calm, we fall in a little sleep again for 15mins.
We wake up again and I feel slightly awkward to ask her, but I do it anyway, so I ask her: " was that your mom earlier or who was this woman"? She reply's: "Jitox there was no one here." I swear I saw someone, feels like I'm going crazy. She continues to say there was no one, I first thought she was joking, but she kept stating there hasn't been anyone in the room. The woman had blond/white hair and was wearing some white jacket/vest. Gave off a friendly feeling all tho it was scary.