I'm not sure what to make of this, so please tell me what you think...
When I was 14, my best friend's (let's call her Tasha) boyfriend died 24 hours after he had been in a car accident. About four or five months before he died, we were at some school event where Tasha's boyfriend had to wear a tux, but he swore to us that we would never see him in a tux again- he hated it!
Anyway, the night after his funeral, I dreamt that I was with some of Jaco's friends on the porch of the place we all used to hang out, but Tasha wasn't there. Jaco's friends were sitting in a group, chatting and making jokes while I sat a few feet away from them, texting my friends. Now, I was the only one between Jaco's friends (I didn't even like them!) and my friends were all at their homes, and the place we were at was closed (it was night time).
As I was busy on my phone, I thought I saw someone else walking through the gate, so I looked up and saw Jaco coming up to me. He had the tux on he said he'd never wear again! None of the other guys took notice of him, it was like they didn't care that he was there. My heart jumped when I saw him, and all I could get out was: "Jaco, you're not supposed to be here..." So he just smiled and said: "Please, tell Tash I love her and I'm waiting for her" I just said okay, and as he turned away, I woke up.
At first I didn't know what to do, I was afraid that I would upset Tasha if I told her. When I saw her at school two days later, she could see that something was wrong. She insisted that I tell her, so I just said: "Tash, Jaco asked me to tell you that he loves you and he's waiting for you." She did start crying, but she was happy to hear it.
So, what I need to know is: was it just a dream and did I make too much out of it? Or did he really come to me in a dream to give my friend the message?