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Encounter With An Incubus


I don't know where to start with this, I just feel like I need an answer really.

About 3 nights ago, perhaps four... I decided to take a cat nap around noon. I fell asleep alright for maybe about ten minutes... When I felt weird. I had a feeling like I was not alone in my bed. I don't recall much between that time to what happened next... Or how long it took. But I can recall... This feeling like I was off my bed, but held by my wrists. I then felt my body being touched and fondled. But not in a harmful or forceful way. I don't ever recall being scared. But I remember that my eyes were rolled back hard, and that my back was arched up very high.

I then remember getting up, but not being able to leave my bedroom. I tried screaming but all I could hear was a faint whisper. I then was back in bed, but it was this time I felt like I was having sex, but I wasn't scared... And it left no bruises or scratches on my body. I only recall seeing the figure of a man, but I couldn't actually see him only a black figure. But again, he did not scare me, but I do know that he was in control over the situation.

I have never had this happen before. Please let me know if that was truly an Incubus, or something else.

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Walter_R (1 stories) (81 posts)
11 years ago (2011-05-06)
I have read your story and I understand what your going through. How ever I've near had a sex demon bother me, a demon was bothing me years ago.

1. Get a cross and hang it on the wall.
2. Get a Bible and set it near your bed.
3. Pray to God every time before you go to bed.
4. Pray in your mind if the sex demon shows up.

Take care,

Walter 😁
Spiderwood (9 posts)
11 years ago (2011-02-16)
AlwaysHaunted, the short answer to your question is "yes." The details of that are textbook incubus. So far it doesn't seem to be hostile, but be cautious of those creatures. I suggest you decide what you want to happen concerning this and then take steps to go about it. If you want the creature gone, get rid of it.

If you want it to stay... I will say that other people seem to have found some satisfaction in relationships with incubi and succubi. Personally I wouldn't advocate it, but I don't tell people how to live. Just stay mindful and protect yourself.
Bluegold (1 posts)
12 years ago (2011-01-25)

This is my first comment here, please excuse any misspellings as english is not my native language. Anyway...I've been through something similar. It all started in I think it was July last summer - I had what I soon after learned could have been a sleep paralysis and that it wasn't real - I questioned this a lot it felt so real! I remember waking up very early one morning - feeling like someone pushed me or held me down on my bed and "doing things to me" - tried to scream and move but I just couldn't. I was scared as heck right at that time, and when I could finally move and turn around (was lying face down on my pillow) I actually saw, just a brief moment, somekind of silhuette or something like the shape of a man. It was white and kind of bright. Almost like made of white, bright water. It scared me really bad. Then after maybe a week when being on holiday, I was staying at my sister's house in a completely different city. This time I wasn't scared and I wasn't paralysed, but I definitly had someone touching me...everywhere, even at her house. This went on during my whole holiday every night and, I didn't have to be sleeping, it was enough I had turned the lights off and just laied down... And it took maybe 5-10 minutes when I started feeling this touch everywhere again (and this happens now at home as well - I haven't even fallen asleep yet, until I can feel something heavy... Like someone's lying on top of me and then touching me everywhere - very gently. I really started questioning my mental health at some occasions *lol* but I know I'm not crazy. Anyway when I got back home - on and off it's the same thing (still is). What made me really realize I'm not going crazy is during autumn when I had my dad visiting me for a few days. I was sitting by my computer in my living room and he was sitting on the couch watching TV - he suddenly asked me "who is that?" I asked him what he meant... Which who? I said there's no one else here!? Then he said to me that he saw a man walking past me through the hall way, which is right on my left side of where I am sitting. I immediately understood that I'm actually not crazy, there _is_ a man/angel/ghost here, but I didn't tell him anything about that. I just said he must have seen the cat running by. Allthough I felt like I somehow got confirmation about what I've been through. This "angel" have never made me scared (except for the first time, if the same) he's very friendly with me (I prefer calling it an angel - makes it less dramatic) and to add another thing to my story is, that in autumn last year I was at a big party. There was a fight between some guys, and I got pushed by accident and hit my head and my butt very hard on the ground. I was in so much pain afterwards (didn't bleed or anything though), so the first 2 maybe 3 at nights after this, I could feel this angel really you know touching me gently where it hurt and I felt like he/it was trying to make me feel good and sort of giving me a gentle massage. I have never told any of my friends about anything that's happened after the first experience - I'm afraid they would lock me up somewhere:P
So what do you think? Is this a "sandman", angel, incubus or what is it? Sorry for "stealing" this thread maybe I should have made my own, but I just felt like I had to share this as a comment to your thread.
debbie_cole2000 (1 stories) (3 posts)
12 years ago (2010-11-17)
I have had what I think to be demonic attacks ever since I was 15 years old. I am not 46. It started out with whatever it is start at my feet paralyzing me and working its way to my chest I felt like I could not breathe and I could not move or scream. It was a very strong force and it would sometimes touch me and as I got older it was still bothering me, it would always come at night and awaken me right after falling asleep. Sometimes I would see things or hear things. But now it has changed it the past couple years It will awake me and it will be hugging me up embracing me like it loves me, only to start squeezing me too hard like it is going to crush me and trying to sexually molest me. It is used to happen every night because it feed off my fear and it grew stronger when I finally started getting myself not to fear it so bad and would pray 3 times in a row it would release me. And that still works. I sleep with a bible and most of the time with a cross around my neck. It does help but why is my question, why has it been with me almost my entire life, and it has changed from what I thought was a very strong demon to now like a incubus. Trying to get sexual with me... Of course I don't give in and fight it away but it still happens once or twice a month... Can anyone give me some advice? I do not know what brought it into my home except my father was a drunk when I was growing up and sometimes claim he was the devil but also my grandmother told me 3 generations ago my great great great grandmother was a witch and as she lied dying she begged someone to take her hand and take her powers and no one would they were too scared of her powers so she said it would fall upon the 4th generation which is me and my sister. My sisters have had attacks but not near as much as me.
Succubusluver69 (40 posts)
12 years ago (2010-09-29)
Hi AlwaysHaunted,

I do believe that you had an encounter with an Incubus as described. It's up to you whether or not you wish to continue involvement with this Incubus; as long as you don't feel physically or mentally threatened/violated there's no harm. Such encounters are far more common than most people believe and can be both very positive for both as well as incredibly enjoyable and satisfying both physically and mentally.

I've been having regular erotic encounters with both Incubi and Succubi for many years and I have no complaints whatsoever! If you don't want such experiences with your visitor be firm with your insistence that he leave and not return - if on the otherhand you enjoyed the experience and want to continue it that's fine too.

Please don't let your feelings and decision be unduly swayed by others who only speak from a basis of fearmongering or ignorance (to them, any sexual involvement with anything other than a fellow human is 'taboo'). Hope this helps you, feel free to contact me about this if you wish.
MrGray (6 posts)
12 years ago (2010-09-02)

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MrGray (6 posts)
12 years ago (2010-09-02)
oh heres a link to informations about a incubus ps I changed my mind to its a incubus so your in trouble because a sandman doesn't make you think you just had sex or orgasm try to get a silver cross (a neckless) because silver wards off or hurts supernatural beings.
MrGray (6 posts)
12 years ago (2010-09-02)
you saw a shiloutte man figure when you woke up? And it sounds like you were dreaming. This sounds like a sandman not a incubus. A sandman (a sandman which is what I call them, is a ghost not a demon, who manipulates your dreams and give you nightmares and sometimes can hurt you by giving scartches and bruises or force you to sleep walk and talk in you sleep) can be easily mistake for a incubus or a playful incubus (who doesn't hurt you yet but messes around with you to weaken your willpower). But at the moment it maybe be a incubus or sandman but if strange things like your stuff disappearing or objects being manipulated and you hear weird a voice its most likely a incubus but for now I'm 90% sure its a sandman being playful
Madisonm (1 posts)
12 years ago (2010-09-01)
Whether it is sleep paralysis or what, it is very real. I have had that problem, off and on, for years. I started sometime in my teen years and I lived both in NC as well as Indiana. Had experiences in both places, so it is not a 'house' thing. Maybe it is sleep paralysis?

You feel paralyzed at first, and you know it is about to happen. The first time it ever happened with me, I was terrified. Now, when it happens, occasionally, it doesn't scare me as bad, but is alarming. 😨
Tessadragon (1 stories) (1 posts)
12 years ago (2010-08-30)
I had an experience very similar to this but was scared by it. I actually used thread magic to protect myself... Using the colours that represent protection and psychic awareness (purple, gold, red, silver, if I remember correctly), I braided a bracelet and tied it around my wrist before I went to sleep. It never ever happened again.
Before anyone asks, yes, there was a ghost in that room. I'll try and submit the accounts some time soon.
HauntedCowgirl (2 posts)
12 years ago (2010-08-30)
A couple of weeks ago on a Saturday night, I went on a ghost tour for a friends party, we went to a place called the picton tunnel or the mushroom tunel, we got to the tunnel and it was pitch black, we turned all our tourches off and the tour guide began calling a certain ghost. She when she called the ghost the ghost that was beside her side disappeared, I then began to feel like I was being touched sexual under my clothes, after leaving and being well away from the tunnel I told the guide what happened and she said that a murder and rapist had died in the tunnel and haunted the site, weeks after I can still feel the touch late a night when I'm home by myself
Miracles51031 (39 stories) (4998 posts) mod
12 years ago (2010-08-29)
BadJuuJuu - I am 😊 and 😆 because you didn't lose any Karma points! And because I can't just say Yay! (not enough characters!) Keep that phone on you!
BadJuuJuu (guest)
12 years ago (2010-08-29)
It doesn't look like it cost me any. I'm slightly confused by that. Ok, more than slightly.
But, I am keeping my phone handy. Anything happens, I'll text myself, then write it down in notebook later. Thanks for the suggestion 😊.
Miracles51031 (39 stories) (4998 posts) mod
12 years ago (2010-08-29)
AlwaysHaunted - I had a similar experience that I tried to submit here and it was rejected LOL! (shrugging shoulders and grinning) It was real enough to me that I still have to wonder. But my point is, dreams, sleep paralysis, whatever you want to call it, can be VERY strong and VERY real. Real enough that every emotion and personal touch can be felt long after you "come out of it." It can leave you wondering for a long time whether or not what you experienced really happened. I felt chin stubble on my back and a hand even after I "woke up," so I still don't know what the heck happened.

The best advice I can offer you, and BadJuuJuu commented on this, keep a journal so the next time, if this ever happens again, you'll have a better record of the event. I've been keeping a "paranormal" journal of events that have happened in my life since I was 13 and, trust me, it comes in very handy. Very therapeutic LOL! It doesn't have to be something formal, texting yourself will do (BJJ😉)

BJJ - how many Karma points did that cost you? 😆
Succubussed (guest)
12 years ago (2010-08-29)
I believe that what you experienced was not a visit by an actual Being, but rather an episode of Sleep Paralysis.

Google "sleep paralysis" and you will see that people who suffer from this have experiences similar to yours, including the sensations and the "visitor"

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biblefreeme (2 stories) (137 posts)
12 years ago (2010-08-27)
hey bad juu juu you got one from me just for being you, and ofcourse the highly usefull and enlightning comment you give. 😆 😊 😉
aussiedaz (18 stories) (1523 posts)
12 years ago (2010-08-27)
Yeah, I can understand your experience and believe your account... I will try my best to explain it... I have through my own experiences questioned whether sex spirits are real or not?...for most of my life I believe they were not until recently... I believe they are... But I also believe that some people experience imaginary sexual experiences brought on by there own sexual tendency... What you experience was what they call ceiling height, you were floating out of your body... The reason why you felt connected by your wrist, as you where kind of holding yourself to your body... Is the fear of complete separation, quite normal, then as you come back to your body it then turn into a sexual sensation with an separate entity... Now!... If this sensation was not intense, it probably means it was just your imagination as there is a difference between the two... Most people including myself who have had a experience with an incubus or succubus report An overwhelming intense sexual seductive feeling... And the imaginary
Sexual experiences do not have that... Which I also believe in the past have experienced as well.

Regards Daz 😁
Shinigami0 (2 stories) (203 posts)
12 years ago (2010-08-27)
Well, aside from the possible mistake that Badjuujuu pointed out, when comparing yours to other Incubus/ Succubus stories, I'd have to say that yours is more believable.
Why? Because you (thankfully) didn't inform us of every little detail that may have gone on. In my opinion, if it was a traumatic experience, you'd be against loads of detail, especially when it comes to a happening of this nature.
Here's what I do if Lady Gaga (I named the demon/entity in my house this, to make him less terrifying) decides to go bump in the night:
Keep a load of salt with you. Sea salt, charged salts, rock salt; whichever you prefer. I personally like rock salt.
Also, as going to a priest to request holy water is a hard task to go about, try making your own holy water by putting a holy object, such as a cross, into a container of water. I've done this on multiple occasions and its super effective.
You could also burn some sage around the house and say a few prayers (if you so desire).

I mean, if you're cool with having something do that, then more power to you, but the hunter (yes, I watch Supernatural) in me is saying, "salt the effer" and get rid of it, as I wouldn't want something decide it wanted to do that to me.
Mulattospirit (1 stories) (2 posts)
12 years ago (2010-08-27)
that is so odd I was going to submit a similar story but I am ubale to because the site is not accepting any new ones ta this time... Your experiencve is almost exactly like mine only I was uable to se anyone...
zzsgranny (18 stories) (3327 posts) mod
12 years ago (2010-08-27)
AH: Your discription of this event seems disjointed, which leads me to believe that this was merely a dream... 😐
AlwaysHaunted (2 stories) (9 posts)
12 years ago (2010-08-27)
damn lol I did mess that up hahaha my bad...
No need to be rude becuase I made a mistake...
BadJuuJuu (guest)
12 years ago (2010-08-27)
"About three nights ago, perhaps four... I decided to take a cat nap around noon."
Come back when you have your b.s. Straight.
Goodbye karma points.

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