I am 42 years old and this happened when I was 14.
I was going through some rough times, Ran away from home and was a very defiant child. I ended up at my aunt's house and took a nap; woke up around 4 in the afternoon and looking out the window trying to wake up. Then got this eerie feeling that something was behind me (this is another story but I have had feelings and seeing spirits since I was 3 especially in this house). I rolled over and saw a tall man with a black trench coat and black hat; I was like oh my God. I rolled over and told him to go away and waited a minute then looked back and he was gone.
My sister who was 7 told me of a similar incident at the same time but in different cities that a tall man with a trench coat and hat along with a shorter man same dress attire in her room. She was so scared she jumped down a flight of steps and made it. Shocked me that there is a site like yours with similar stories.
My one Spirit friend told me "you're not the only one?" I was like what? So here I am sharing.
I don't think he meant me any harm; just at the time I was in shock. He may be some sort of spirit guide of mine. I would like anyone that would like to contact me please do. I am still in awe from finding out this information last night 11-22-2010 and here it is 28yrs later telling my story.