I'm not sure what to do. I have never written on any blogs like this and before now never had any interest in this subject/arena. I just don't know who to talk to to get serious advice. So this may sound strange but recently I have been seeing my grandad at home! Not in an obvious "standing in front of me" way. More like in my peripheral vision.
A few days ago I was at home, on my own, it was raining (not unusual for the UK) and pretty dingy outside. I had the TV on but not very loud and was eating a shepards pie which is my grandads favourite. I left my phone in my room so stopped eating dinner and went into my room to get my phone, leaving my dinner in the living room with the TV on. As I passed the kitchen, which I need to pass on the way to my room, I saw out the corner of my eye my grandad. This is not something I imagined, I know I saw him! This has happened more than once and I am sure this is not my imagination. He also has a very unique smell and every now and then I can smell him, like he is sat right next to me. It's hard to describe but it is like he is really sat next to me. Is this normal? Also what does he want with me?
I don't understand if there is something I need to do or something I need to stop doing? Is there anyone who I need to speak to in order to resolve this? Not that I don't love my grandad, of course I do, I just want to live in peace at home. I know this sounds a bit selfish of me but I just want to feel comfortable in my own home. How can I get rid of him? I feel terrible saying this!