My grandfather died of cancer when my mom was only 12 years old, but my mom happened to be out of the house at the time of his actual death. My grandmother told me exactly how he died. My grandfather was bed-ridden and on the edge of death for a long time. On the day of his death my grandmother was standing beside him and he said "I see jesus..." she asked him what he meant and he said that jesus was coming from the ceiling with one arm out in front of him, to take him away to heaven. My grandfather was a strong christian, and always believed that he would go to heaven when he died. My grandmother told me my grandfather then raised his hand as if to grab the hand of someone else, closed his eyes, actually raised slightly out of the bed then dropped back down and laid still. He was dead.
That night, my mom had a dream where my grandfather came to her and told her that he was in heaven and that she shouldn't worry anymore, and that he was okay. She told him she was still scared, and she instantly woke up and saw him standing at the edge of her bed. He told her personally that he was okay, and that he loved her. Then he vanished, and she felt at peace with his death.
Could this really be my grandfather that visited her?