Last month my ex-husband was killed instantly by a speeding drunk driver. Paul T was on his Harley-Davidson motorcycle cruising behind my son, Paul Jr when he was hit by a speeding car. His body hit the front of the car, knocking the hood up over the windshield, then landed on the top of the car. The driver could not see out to control the car. The Harley went under the front of the car. When the car kept going farther into the concrete barrier throwing sparks and then stopped abruptly his body was thrown over the concrete median onto the inside shoulder of oncoming traffic.
My son, Paul Jr witnessed the driver passing with his dad's body on top of the car and being thrown off onto the ground.
That night he felt pressure on his chest and bed like there
Was a person there. He also saw his dad sitting in a chair that was at the end of the bed. The chair was facing away from the bed so all that Paul Jr could see was head and arms. One arm was raised up like maybe saying goodbye.
A couple of days later Paul Jr received a phone call and didn't answer in time but there was a voice-message left by the caller. Paul Jr called the number on his caller ID and a man answered. The man did not know him and said he did not make that call. The message recorded just said HEY in a voice just like his dad's.
I live in the same home with Paul Jr, his wife and two small children. Paul T also lived in this same house so we are a pretty close family. Paul T started a business and handed it over to Paul Jr to manage and run. They are both mechanics for heavy duty trucks and are always at risk of getting hurt.
The Wake was only three days after the accident. Only the immediate family were allowed to attend. His body was so damaged that the only viewing was his face. The top of his head was wrapped in white sheeting to cover the missing gaps. He could not be embalmed due to all the open vessels which gave no choice for an open casket service. His funeral and burial was on Saturday, September 1st and many of his family attended. He was blessed with holy water several times.
All of us in the house feel that he has tried to make his presence known. Would he harbor any angry feelings after becoming aware of this instant death? I've read that the soul is in an afterlife realm before passing on into the light and meeting with guides for the final journey.
We are all wondering if he will return again.
Thank you for listening