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My Husband And The Ghost?

 

I am not sure how to explain this experience, or what do to about it all, but I really need help in stopping what ever is happening from destroying my marriage. I have gone over this story a couple of times and tried my best to remove anything that was too graphic because I want to be taken seriously. I am a 34 years old and married 12 years to a wonderful man. We have a beautiful daughter of 11 that we both love to spoil terribly. We are not religious and before all of this I would never believe a story like this one. I am trying to figure out how to tell this tale with out sounding like someone that should be committed.

We recently purchased our dream home in a more rural area of our state and have been settling in fairly well until the last 3 weeks or so. Things started with just noticing little movements in the corner of my eye in our bedroom at night. Shadows what would move when there was nothing to cause the movement. They seem centered around the corner of our room by the walk in closet. At first I just put it off to being a new home and not being used to the way lights move when a car drives by outside but since noticing the shadows, more things have been happening.

I started to notice that the closet door was always open when I looked at it. I was sure I closed it but then next time I walked into the room it would be open. My husband thought I was was just imagining it or that my daughter was playing a trick on me. We tested it together once by closing the door and leaving the room to check on our daughter. When we both returned the door was partly open. My husband joked we must have bought a house on an Indian burial ground. I tried to laugh and accept it as a quirk of the house, but recently things have started to happen in our bed at night.

I have been waking up at night feeling the bed shift. For a while I put it off to my husband rolling over and ignored it. Last week I was again awakened by a movement of the bed. It was almost rhythmic. At first I thought it was my husband rolling over but I felt it again when I was awake. My husband was asleep next to me not moving but I noticed his breathing was a bit fast and I wondered if maybe he was having dream. It was a warm night and we had just been using sheets to stay cool and I was about to lay down when I felt the shift of weight again.

This time I was looking at my husband and he had definitely not shifted but he did let out a low moan like you would in a dream if something was bothering you. I looked around the bed for a source of the movement and noticed the sheet shift at my husbands waist. His hands where both under his pillow since he likes to sleep that way on his back hands under his head. I could see movement under the sheets at his groin and thought for a moment he was having a nice dream but then they moved again and it wasn't a movement that a dream could cause. I gently moved the sheets aside to see my husband's boxers pulled down and him in an erect state. I am not sure how to tell this and try to keep things from sounding like a bad R rated movie, but as I watched him, things moved in ways they should not be able to on their own. Skin was moving like it was being touched and he was breathing heavy. I was scared not understanding what was going on. I thought maybe I was dreaming or going crazy. I said his name a few times but he did not respond. I shook him and finally his eyes opened and looked at me, but then he moaned. I shook him harder and then everything stopped. He was awake, looking at me and confused.

I told him everything that had happened and he told me that maybe he had dream, but he swears he had felt something down there. He said it was a gentle almost electric feeling of pin pricks and feather touches that felt very sexually intense. I was at a loss for words. I didn't know what to think or do. I was suddenly intensely jealous. He was still in a state and said he could feel it faintly and almost wished that I had not woken him up. I just looked at him a moment not believing what he just said, then I angrily got out of bed and went and slept on the couch.

In the morning I went in to our bedroom to talk to him and found him asleep naked with all our sheets his boxers and tee shirt thrown to the floor. The bed looked like it does after one of our own energetic romps and I could smell his lingering scent still in the air that told me something had brought him to climax. I stormed out of the room and went to get my daughter her breakfast and when he got up he looked sheepish and guilty. We didn't say three words to each other and he quietly got ready for work and left me with my daughter and a whirlwind of emotions. I went into angry cleaning mode and changed the bedding that still smelled of him and then started cleaning the rest of the house while my daughter played on her PlayStation. She asked if we were fighting and I admitted to her I was a little mad at daddy. She asked if it was because of all the noise he made last night? And I looked at her confused and asked her what noise? She said daddy was moaning all night and she wondered if maybe he was sick. I told her not to worry and I made her lunch and talked to her about how her school would work this year with distance learning.

When my husband got home I asked him what had happened and he looked at me shaking his head and said he really didn't know. He said after I left the room he felt like a flood of static pinpricks, as you would feel when your arm falls asleep, it slowly crept up his legs. He said it felt good but it frightened him a little too. When the feeling reached his hips and his privates all the feelings returned even stronger than before. He said he remembered not being able to resist the feelings as they where far beyond anything he had ever felt with me. He said they went on and on for quite a while. And he eventually passed out and fell asleep. He told me he was sorry and he loved me and he didn't want it to happen and he was frightened by how seductive the feelings where and that he couldn't resist responding to them. I could see he was really upset and scared. So I just held him and told him everything was going to be alright. Nervously we went to bed that night.

At a little after 2:00am I awoke to the bed moving again and a moan from my husband. What ever it is, it was attacking him again I could see his state and I hugged him and told him it would be OK. I looked around the room told what ever it was to go away! I pulled back the sheets and again his boxers where down and he was being molested. He awoke and looked at me scared and I told it again to stop and to go find someone else. My husband looked me in the eyes and gasped that he was sorry and climaxed. I had never seen anything like it. I was so scared and jealous. After that everything stopped again and we just held each other and he kept telling me he was sorry and I kept saying it wasn't his fault.

This has been happening almost every night now and I am am exhausted from lack of sleep. My husband is feeling horrible about it but he says its not a feeling he can fight since it starts when he is asleep. I do not know what to do but I am jealous and hurt and I don't know what is doing this to him. I am afraid something is taking my husband from me and I can't fight it. I know this all sounds crazy and I must be insane but... I saw this site and read the stories here and they all sounded similar to what we are experiencing. What can I do? I am at wits end. How can this all be real?

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BrendaDances (1 stories) (16 posts)
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6 days ago (2020-09-14)
Thank you Shabtslover I will think on what you said.

Also if any of you have a problem with solutions presented to me Please feel free to email me another option. It would be more productive that arguments here.

Its too easy for feeling to be hurt and I do not want anyone else being hurt over my issues. I am hurting enough for everyone.
BrendaDances (1 stories) (16 posts)
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6 days ago (2020-09-14)
I have enough drama here at home with out having to see it on the page. Please keep disagreements off this page since they don't really help anyone.

I have been getting good advice and and help here and it has not been easy but I do not have anything bad to say about anyone. Even in private emails everyone has been very helpful and upfront.

Thank you for your support and please be calm and do not fight here.
Shabtslover (3 posts)
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7 days ago (2020-09-13)
alsoo to the author, I don't know much about ways to prevent these kind of stuff but as notjustme said having faith actually helps a lot, as in my previous post, which I am again really sorry to you too cuz I said all that when I should be posting about YOU! Having faith in Hanuman as my brother has saved me a lot of times and it actually feels like he is with me just like a human brother would be, I talk to him, we fight, I get angry at him, I think that it is my right to be saved by him as his sister, ofc I give him bananas in return tooπŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚, so if you are having a hard time believing you can try that method with Jesus or Your mother or any guide, and I am very bad at English so I don't know how to say it but I send you lots of strength and happiness to deal with thiss
Shabtslover (3 posts)
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7 days ago (2020-09-13)
Hey MrsRamsay, I just made this account to clarify that Hanuman is actually a very important part of our Indian culture, just like Jesus for christians, now I personally don't follow any religion but I really have faith in Hnauman or known as the monkey god and I have been treating him like a brother since I was a kid and he has helped me a lot, And I know you may have felt like it may be a cult or something cuz a "monkey" god but it's just our culture like fox familiar in Japan, like that, also Awadhi isn't a monkey god language but it's a language of India, just like Japanese and English, so that was what Pinky person meant, Ik it may sound sketchy to you cuz not a lot of people know about our Indian cultue and gods but as pinky person said we consider the Hanuman chalisa which is like Bible quotes for us very powerful, if you read the Indian stories posted here you will find what I am talking about, And I would want you to not say anything like that again without knowing because I may be getting oversensitive but I have been treating him as family, I don't even believe in gods and stuff I just think of him as a human brother, and there is this festival here in India called Rakshabandhan where sisters tie a thread around their brother, s wrist and the brothers vow to protect the sisters, now I just did that as a kid thinking that if I have the most powerful god as my brother then according to this festival he would save me anytime and he has, even from myself when I tried to take my life so you saying that just made me feel really bad oof... Also I am only 17 so like if I am super emo I am soryyyyy but yeah I would say next time be a bit careful cuz I thought you feel same way about Jesus so you may understand where I am coming from... Also our Indian culture is very rich so there are very different kinds of gods but I assure you they are not sketchy, also a lot of people know about Buddhism which actually originated here in our country but don't know about Hinduism, that kind of makes me sad but I don't know why I really felt like crying when you called him sketchy so like you don't gotta believe in him or something but please respect our culture: (
ALSO I AM SORRY AGAIN IF I SOUND TOO SENSITIVEEE OR OVERREACTING
Pinksweety (27 posts)
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7 days ago (2020-09-13)
MrsRamsay do not speak about the things which you are ignorant about. Your attitude is very discouraging. You have no right to ask BrendaDances to stop messaging me. And what sounds like a sketch to you may I know? Your very ignorance in fact sounds sketchy to me.
Pinksweety (27 posts)
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7 days ago (2020-09-13)
It's ok BrendaDances if you don't trust me. But here it's like a open discussion for all the members and as a group member, a person can suggest what he/she feels about the situation. No member has the right to criticise or mock a suggestion that is given to a needy member. It's upto the member to consider the advice or not.
Sullykim (1 posts)
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1 week ago (2020-09-12)
I sure am hoping for the best outcome for your family! Please let us know how it goes. ❀
MrsRamsay (7 stories) (125 posts)
 
1 week ago (2020-09-12)
Good luck. I suggest you don't email with Pinksweety or whatever. Sounds sketch.
Ha, like you're going to learn some monkey god language? Holy cow. No pun intended.
BrendaDances (1 stories) (16 posts)
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1 week ago (2020-09-11)
We are working with remote help and yesterday we contacted a local group for assistance.

This thing has done ALLOT of damage to my family and I am not sure what the outcome will be but now I have some help.
BrendaDances (1 stories) (16 posts)
 
2 weeks ago (2020-09-02)
The house is new construction with no history. The land was unincorporated. I know in the early 1800 it was Indian land, after that it was part of Rancho until after the end of the Mexican American war. Then the land changes hands a few time and becomes unincorporated in the 1920's

Also the night I slept in the room I dreamed of woman before everything happened. She was small with long straight black hair. Very beautiful I can't remember her words it was more feel. Warm and comforting I remember her playing with my hair.

It could just be a dream but I don't know.
Pinksweety (27 posts)
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3 weeks ago (2020-09-02)
What about the history of the house? You didn't say anything about it. Did you enquire with previous tenants?
Pinksweety (27 posts)
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3 weeks ago (2020-09-02)
Hi Brenda, I have already sent you a mail. Do check in your free time. By the way are you aware of Lord Hanuman? The hindu Monkey God? Well, I suggest you first do little surfing on net to know about him and ghosts... Then download the Hanuman Chalisa and recite it loudly... Mind you it's in awadhi language... So it will take some time for you to learn it... Do it with full devotion by bringing a picture of Hanumanji in your mind... It will surely help... Jus read it loudly when that incident happens... One on one... Write it down on a page and read loudly... It will work
AugustaM (5 stories) (971 posts)
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3 weeks ago (2020-09-02)
In terms of pets and allergies, there are breeds of both dogs and cats that are hypoallergenic- such as poodles. All breeds have rescues, I recommend contacting one and chatting with them about it.

As for having a belief in something to combat this thing, it doesn't have to be Jesus or god or necessarily Christian in nature. There are many paths to divinity and all have their merits. I am a pagan and my firmest belief is that if there is anyone out there looking out for me, it is less likely to be a deity than one of my own ancestors. I have had experiences enough to solidify my belief that my maternal grandparents and great grandfather are definitely keeping an eye on me and my mother. You need to pick your own path and not feel constrained by mainstream culture - I figure you can still sort of maintain a mostly atheist stance *and* call on ancestors to protect you if that sits well in your mind. It is belief that gives any method of dealing with this sort of thing it's "teeth."

As crazy as it sounds, maybe look into tantric (ummm) "relations" (trying to stay PG) with your husband. Without going into too much adult detail, it does rather make the act a ritual in and of itself, which may be a power worth igniting at this point in time. Show this entity that the bond between the two of you is in no way weakened by its tawdry advances.

Also, consider placing "talismans" of your own around the space - souvenirs from good times, pieces that were given to you or made for you with love, images of loved ones both here today and those who have passed on - things that bring you joy and happy memories. Play music that makes you smile - sing and dance along. Have friends over for game nights (COVID permitting). Fill your home with joy and laughter.

I recommend this site all the time but it's a good one so here I go again - it's a pretty decent compendium for folk remedies for this sort of thing and many of its suggestions are quite simple; things like placing a dish of white vinegar in the effected space (in your case, the closet) and allowing it to evaporate (we use this method in our kitchen as we have a little lady there who likes us and our cats just fine but tends to like to scare guests).

Https://www.ghostlyactivities.com/herbs-protect-evil-spirits/?amp

Most of all, stay strong, show this thing who is boss, be kind to each other and never go to bed angry.
BrendaDances (1 stories) (16 posts)
 
3 weeks ago (2020-09-01)
My daughter has asthma and is very allergic to dogs and cats. She can't even handle a hamster in the house with out it triggering an exacerbation.

Yes it went after me but I am reluctant to say the details here. We are suppose to keep this very non-explicit and I am not sure how to explain it all with out pushing that to the edge. It's also rather embarrassing. That is the limiting factor here that at times is very frustrating since details and thoughts could be important. It's part of why I put my email in my profile so I could talk unhindered if someone needed more detail.

Suffice it to say I kind of went in with the attitude and intent I was challenging it to try something and it did... And I was not equal to the task.
Pinksweety (27 posts)
 
3 weeks ago (2020-09-01)
We all have an idea of what torture you are going through. But we also need to know what is happening at the present. My heart really goes out to you during this tough time. As I have told you before why are you hesitating to bring a dog as a pet in your home? I'm sure it will help
Pinksweety (27 posts)
 
3 weeks ago (2020-09-01)
Brenda, are you trying to say that it attacked you also? Please tell us in detail. I'm really interested to know what happened.
BrendaDances (1 stories) (16 posts)
 
3 weeks ago (2020-08-31)
Maybe I was too Brave. It went after me. I don't know how to express what I experienced here, but I am no longer in any way blaming husband... I think we need a priest or something. I will talk to my fiend that got us the Holy Water. Really not feeling very comfortable talking about this here. It just feels so much more personal now.
notjustme (19 stories) (849 posts)
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3 weeks ago (2020-08-31)
Brenda, you're brave af. See? You got this. Please keep us updated
BrendaDances (1 stories) (16 posts)
 
3 weeks ago (2020-08-31)
Last 2 nights in the living room camping have been quiet. I am going to try tonight to sleep alone in our room while he stays with our daughter. We have the salt lamp on now on my side table.
MrsRamsay (7 stories) (125 posts)
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3 weeks ago (2020-08-30)
Brenda, I think you're getting some good advice here, pick and choose as you will! Your story is so fantastic, but we are taking it seriously and you need to know you are not alone in your discomfort!

I keep getting the vibe that this thing is NOT a HER. So I think you need to stop personifying it! You're onto something about the Himilayan salt thing being a wedding gift, and the campout in the living room was a GREAT idea! I think the key to shutting this thing out is to continue the family circle strengthening. But also, the idea to go into that closet and really open it up is something I like. It caused me to wonder if there is anything in there that might have some bad energy? Maybe a really good cleaning, even (this might sound weird) emptying it all out, getting a can of white paint and having the paint blessed by a priest (do priests do that, I'm Methodist?) Then paint that closet together while asking for the armor of God's protection. I can't reiterate enough, Jesus and God do not discriminate based on your views at this moment in time. You are still a child of God and Jesus (if you are a Christian, you believe this) gave his life FOR you, unconditionally. All you need to do is ask for help. I realize this sounds like I'm a church lady. I can assure you I rarely go to church. But so many things in my lifetime have led me specifically to my beliefs. Spiritual things that can only be attributed to a higher power. And there is a reason, in my faith, we are told to ask for the protection of God's Angels when spiritual warfare is involved. You are in the midst of such warfare, and should use the tools we've been given as humans. If you are honest about it being hard to believe, that's ok. If you aren't even ready to believe, that's ok too. He will still help you! That's what's cool about Jesus. He can wait until you are ready. I AM sorry for this somewhat preaching here and hope I have not offended anyone. I'm a beginner chearleader for my faith and usually don't talk about it.
The_Lost_Voyage_11 (2 stories) (14 posts)
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3 weeks ago (2020-08-29)
Brendadances, this entity/spirit or whatever it is seems puzzling. Typically a 'succubus' if that's indeed what it is, attaches itself to a male, this seems to be the case in everything I've read including first hand encounters. This entity, whatever it is, however seems to be confined to the bedroom and the focal point seems to be the closet. Moreover it's rare that a 3rd party witnesses the 'activities' between a succubus and it's male partner. I don't believe this is what it appears to be. If you and your husband are comfortable with it, I'd search the closet throughly together and in broad daylight. Prop the door wide open, flood the room with daylight and prop the bedroom door open. Take note of feelings while you're in there, but see if there's anything unusual in there. I can't tell you what you're looking for, just look for anything out of the ordinary, a hidden panel, anything on the walls, anything done in there to cover something up like an opening or something. I would also take the cleansing rituals in there afterward and then extend them out into the bedroom. You had mentioned in a post after this weekend trying to stay the night in your bedroom alone if things went well, I would advise against this, if your encounter in the closet is any indication of what this thing is capable of. I wouldn't let anyone stay in that room until it is purged of this force completely. Stay strong and please keep us apprised of your progress! Good luck!
LuciaJacinta (8 stories) (291 posts)
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3 weeks ago (2020-08-29)
Ok I agree with the previous poster. Why not just be intimate with him right before bed so that it would be less likely to occur again do soon. And agree with Mrs Ramsey, if you see it aroused, jump on him. Not a three some but it would you with your husband. Pay that thing no mind.

You may not believe in religion but you believe in LOVE and that is something. Love is a power. Guard that love, protect it. Spend time in date nights and rekindling the sparks. Make your love strong.

I also would watch your words if you address it. You said to "go somewhere else"--- my immediate thought was the somewhere else could be your daughter's room. Be careful how you phrase things.

There are probably paranormal investigation teams in the area that are *neutral" in beliefs. They might help.
Triskaideka (2 stories) (388 posts)
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3 weeks ago (2020-08-29)
I like the idea of beating the succubus to the punch. Rekindle that flame and take care of him first. Unless he has an extremely short refractory period, the succubus will likely be left unsatisfied, then hopefully move on. But I also know that maybe it won't matter. Sleeping in another room sounds like a good idea as well. And if worse comes to worse - well, there is ancient garb one might wear to prevent solidification in the first place. I want to pretend I'm being coy but honestly I don't remember what those things are called. It's a chastity guarding thing. So I'd make sure his climax occurred soon before bed then strap him up with a chastity guarder. Then do the other stuff too, salt, candles, prayer, etc.
Pinksweety (27 posts)
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3 weeks ago (2020-08-29)
BrendaDances: I think the house cleaning has been effective in getting rid of it... Do keep on doing it on a regular basis. It really helps.
notjustme (19 stories) (849 posts)
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3 weeks ago (2020-08-29)
You are right to trust your instincts because things communicate telepathically. They know what you fear most, which is losing your husband to this. They can sense what is going through your mind. So if that happens again, I know fear is the first thing you will feel, but then think of your family. Build the courage and shout at it in your head. Say go away in the name of Jesus. Or Light if you can't bring yourself to do it. You have to stay strong and have faith. Like someone mentioned below, just because Jesus or Buddha, etc isn't your usual go-to...doesn't mean they won't help.
Please, for the sake of your family, just try it. Maybe really get a blessed bible and leave it in your bedroom. Or even tell husband to wear a cross. This is coming from a non Christian but always felt Jesus had my back. It is now a spiritual battle. But know YOU are in control because IT is coming into YOUR world, so get your faith together and continue doing what you're doing. πŸ™
BrendaDances (1 stories) (16 posts)
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3 weeks ago (2020-08-28)
Last night was quiet and peaceful. My husband went to work this morning, so I went to do laundry and gathered clothes from the hamper by the closet. The door was open as usual and I felt the odd feeling of someone standing very close to me. I went to put something in the closet and the door closed behind me and left me in pitch darkness. I was started and turned to open the door but it was like I was disoriented and all I felt clothing when I reached out.

I felt very afraid. I called out to my daughter but she didn't hear me. Then I had all these odd flashes in my mind, memories of watching my husband loose his control and climax. I could actually smell it. Then I could see the light under the door of the closet and was able to get out.

I am telling my self the windows where open so a breeze could have closed the door, and the memories where just me panicking, and I had dirty laundry in my arms so that could have been the smell, but my fear keeps saying it was her telling me she was still there and he belonged to her.

I am not going in there again alone until my husband is home.
Pinksweety (27 posts)
 
3 weeks ago (2020-08-28)
BrendaDances:I would like to know about the closet. Does it still open by itself? Have you observed recently? Try bringing a dog in your home and make him to sniff around the closet and under your cot/bed.
The_Lost_Voyage_11 (2 stories) (14 posts)
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3 weeks ago (2020-08-27)
Hello BrendaDances, so moving away from the room worked, that's great news! I had a feeling based on your story that this disturbance was focused on the bedroom. I'm not sure why that's the case, but you mentioned that you also are using the cleansing ritual. Now you know where to focus it. I would use it in the entire house of course but put extra effort into your bedroom. Camping out in the living room for the weekend is an excellent idea and the time away and rest will allow you to reconnect with one another and as a family. It will also give you the space to continue to research and come up with a plan of action. You may consider contacting a reputable medium (do your research on this one) or contacting a clergyman at the church. I know you don't subscribe to religion, but many of them will help whether you are of their faith or not, and it could actually be the solution. These are only suggestions, do what feels comfortable to you and please keep us apprised of your progress!
notjustme (19 stories) (849 posts)
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3 weeks ago (2020-08-27)
Good for you girl. Keep doing what you're doing as you build Faith. Thanks for keeping us posted.
t_bev (3 stories) (31 posts)
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3 weeks ago (2020-08-27)
BrendaDances - Thanks for the details on what's worked and hasn't for you. Sounds like you're determined and really doing what you've got to do. I applaud you for dealing with this as you have. It's a crazy story and I'm glad you found people on here who listened and genuinely seemed to want to help you.

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