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Was I Having Sex In My Dreams


I was taking a nap with just me and my dogs in the house, I felt a strange feeling, like someone's hand was going down in the back of my pj's, I woke and looked behind me, it was like I really couldn't see, so I just thought I was having a dream, it was like I was in and out, then felt the hand again, which started putting what I would say was a finger inside me, actually feeling it going in and out and without seeming weird I have to admit, I wasn't scared, and was quite enjoying it.

Then I just thought this was what would be called a wet dream, never having one of these before I just let it go, but it continued. It was like I could feel something larger inside me, there was no pressure like I heard some had, nothing forceful, actually it was quite pleasing. I even could remember moaning a time or two, and even started moving and grinding. Then it was like it just quit and I went back to sleep, still thinking this was a dream.

When I woke up totally, it smelled like it does after having sex, a strong smell of sperm, of course some might say I had an orgasm in my sleep, but that smell would be totally different. This was the first time this has happened, I don't want to seem like a freak, it's just that this totally weirded me out. I can't say I wouldn't like this to happen again, but if this would be a bad spirit, I don't think I would want this to be in my house.

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chikay (1 posts)
11 years ago (2011-06-07)
i have had the same experience too... And recently it has happened more. And that's the reason why I looked up for this website because I believe I needed some help. Last week I saw a figure of a man's leg right by me, but I know it wasnn't my husband's as he left for work. Today, I know there was someone with me in my room, I felt that someone was moving on my bed, twice... There was an insemination afterwards and gave me that errotic feeling... Help me! You can email me [at] joycearecto [at] you in advance...
ychoozeme (1 posts)
11 years ago (2011-03-22)
This has happened to me 3 x...I posted my story as well. Its not something people give sympathy for (like these I'm so sorry) its actually kind of cool and very erotic. Just sux not knowing who it is good or bad... ❤
AmpeDrew (3 posts)
12 years ago (2010-11-04)
AmpeDrew (3 posts)
12 years ago (2010-11-04)
Ive had a similar experience last night, I had an amazing dream, and I was having incredibly wild sex with a physically PERFECT woman for what seemed like hours, I felt super happy and I loved every minute of it, but toward the end of our third go at things, something felt... Off like she was evil, not by her expressions or actions or anything I just had the sense that what was happening was real and that she felt demonic somehow I can't quite describe it, but when I woke up the only thing burning in my brain was the word Succubus and her fantastic breasts bouncing in front of me as she glared down at me like she owned me, but she had not done so in the dream as far as I could remember. Also when I awoke I felt sexually satisfied and very happy, but also odd, I basically felt like I slept with a demon. My nickname used to be Speedemon:P because I'm a very successful ski racer
Myrtlebeach_thetrain (2 posts)
12 years ago (2010-08-21)
Im Confused I Didnt Know This Could Happen To Other Peopleee. 😭
My Heart Started Tooo Pounddd And I Got Up Off The Floor After it Stopped Touching Meeeee...
IAmTheUnison (9 posts)
12 years ago (2010-04-17)
I'm not certain what manner of spirit you're dealing with, but I do know for a fact that what you're talking about can and does happen. I happen to know by personal experience.

As hard as this might be to believe, my girlfriend is a ghost; the spirit of a girl I loved a very long time ago. I have had similar dreams such as what you speak, plus physical sensations while I was awake.

If you have any questions on these matters feel free to e-mail me, and I'll do my best to answer any questions you have.
theassman (2 posts)
12 years ago (2010-02-20)
I lived in a tri-level house 1 year ago. Many many things happened in that house, and when their is free space to post my story I will. I did have a similar experience though. Whatever was in that house for sure wanted me and my daughter. We were the only ones it bothered. My son, and my husband felt uneasy in the house but didn't experience as much. My husband and I had an argument and I left to sleep downstairs in the botom family room. When I fell asleep I remember being touched in my pelvic area, and my breast were being kissed. I thought it was my husband trying to wake me up to make up, and I ignored him (I was really mad). 😠 It felt good but in my head I wasn't going to give in so I kept my eyes closed, and wouldn't allow him to wake me all the way. The next morning, I woke up, and found my underwear hanging from my right foot. I put them on and went upstairs, he was in the shower, and when he got out I joked with him about trying to make up. He swore and swore he never went downstairs. My husband is not dramatic, he doesn't make things up to scare me. He's very cut and dry and to the point. He actually got upset when I told him what happened. I believe I was raped in my sleep by something beyond me. I believe you, and I know how you feel 😢
VAGhost_Believer (1 posts)
13 years ago (2009-07-17)
I think in my personal opinion that these these things can happen. Because I have had an experience myself. A friend of mine, who is a girl and I were messing around with a homemade Ouija board (Bad idea, I know). We used a blank CD disk as the pointer, which worked out pretty good. Anyways, we were sitting there asking questions and one of them was, "Are there anyone else in here besides us two?" It was only me and her in the house. It answered yes. We asked "How many more?" It said one this time. We asked "Male or female?" It said female. Then out of curiousity we asked, "Where are you?" The pointer spelled out "h-i-s l-a-p." We looked at each other and I asked, "What do you look like?" She described herself quite well, black hair, green eyes, 5'9", skinny. And as it's sitting there I was thinking to myself and I didn't say anything about it, I was thinking (Well, how big are your boobs?) (Typical guy questions, I know, sorry ladies) It said big boobs without either one of us saying anything at all out loud. We both started cracking up laughing. We both barely touching the pointer and each time we asked a question, my hand got freezing cold, like way below room temperature. And then my friend asked, "What would you like to do?" And the "girl" replied, "Get hard" We started laughing even harder about this and I kept asking my friend if she was moving it and she swears to this day she wasn't and I believe her. Once out laughing had subsided, we asked "Good or evil?" The spirit answered, "evil". We asked why and it spelled out m-u-r-d-e-r. And after a long series of questions we found out that she had murdered her family, killing her mom and dad with a pistol and then shot all three of her sisters. Her name was Mary. And she killed herself after she killed her family. At the time the spirit said it was 73 years ago, now it would 77 years ago that she had murdered her family. I know you guys are probably thinking that I am a phony and that I am telling you lies, but I swear on my life that this event happened. So when it comes to incubus/succubus, I believe in that sort of thing, because of what I have told you. Plus I know people who have had experiences with sexual spirits. So there you go Pstaley, I am backing you up on what has happened to you and I believe that you are telling the truth and not telling us things for attention like some people do.
scrapmetalkitten (306 posts)
13 years ago (2009-05-25)
Well if you feel guilty about it, then don't do it again. It only happened a few times so need to dwell on it too much. If it comes back, you will probably be aware of the same feeling and just tell it to leave. You should feel good about the choices you make in life. Life is hard enough as is you don't need to complicate it with negative feelings and thoughts.
dream_catcher (1 posts)
13 years ago (2009-03-14)
i know this is going to sound incredible and completely unbelieveable for some one as young as me 😢 but please bear with me here. I have had the same sort of expierence except for guys. I sleep in a small room and I keep my windows locked, and I have a head bolt on my door and I am the only one with a key because I purchased it and installed it my self (I doubt you'll believe that but ok) so there is no way into my room at night when I am asleep or during the day when I am not home. But I have had several of what I thought were just dreams like Pstaley except here is where it get a little far fetched and your going to jsut say to your self he is lying. Quite a few times over the past 2 years I have been having expierences in my dreams that you wouldn't believe and when I wake thing things that happened in the dreams seem to really have happened. More than once I have woken to find my self completely naked save the bed sheet and just covered in sweat with that just had sex feeling and even the scent of vaginal secretions present on my bed and to me scarily enough on my face. Once I even awoke with a use condom on naked covered in the scent of a woman all over me and my bed but there is no way for any living thing to enter my room so I'm in the same boat as you Pstaley. And I'm sorry to post this on your stories page but there is no more submissions and our stories are so alike I figured that any help they could offer you they could offer me too I hope you don't mind. 😳
Pstaley (1 stories) (3 posts)
14 years ago (2008-12-18)
It only happened twice, but then again, things had been crazy around my house, so maybe that is keeping it away, if it happens again I will write about it. I almost feel guilty, like I'm cheating on my husband.
Mike823 (1 stories) (10 posts)
14 years ago (2008-12-18)
Hey hun have you had anymore experiences with this spirit in your dreams 😜 keep me informed. 😳
johncess1211 (1 posts)
14 years ago (2008-12-18)
wew! That's my favorite spirit...
There are two types of erotic spirits...
The male one, incubus and the female, succubus
Both really suck... 😭
Tonith (1136 posts)
14 years ago (2008-12-17)
I think we all have had (especially in our younger years) what is known as a wet dream. I don't know if it is just dreaming or something else. My first inclination is to say its just the physical frustration meeting the dream world and producing dream like pleasure. I just have an issue with incubus/ succubus enities being that they are more fantasy than reality to me. Of course I could be wrong but I just have no experience with such things so therefore I'm limited in my view.
Hoochler (1 stories) (263 posts)
14 years ago (2008-12-17)

Or perhaps you are saying that involvement with these types of entities precludes other wordly interests and thus leads to the effective stagnation of the human partner's soul because this person continues to NOT expereince what they came here (to this world) to experience preferring instead to feel the pleasure of the erotic spirit?
Hoochler (1 stories) (263 posts)
14 years ago (2008-12-17)

What do you mean "it eats away at the core of your Soul"?

#1 Are you saying that you think that erotic spirits consume their human partner's soul from the inside out (like worms eat an apple)? If so, than you think that a soul can be forever destroyed?

#2 Or are you saying something more like these beings lower the frequency at which a human partner's soul vibrates over time? If so, this would presumably have the effect of "de-evolving" or making the human partner's soul worse off (less developed) than when it came to this Earth to be born?

If you are saying #2, then have you noticed a set of behavior characteristics that seem to accompany a person who consorts with such beings over time (such as malice, greed or some other dark traits)?

Or are you saying something else?
ghostseer (41 stories) (408 posts)
14 years ago (2008-12-17)
It is NEVER a good idea to encourage sex with otherworldy entities. Physical pleasure is meant for the living, and those emotions are best kept within the sanctity of a breathing, warm, loving relationship. I have rcvd letters (Over 30 years) and emails from Individuals, who were tricked into thinking they were having sex with an entity, and it turned out to be a really evil "thing", demonic, and otherwise... After time, it eats away at the core of your Soul... There are many levels of sexual entrapment that use you for your healthy, living energy... Be very careful, and if you want help, write me... I can give you detailed info how to rid yourself of this potential parasite (yes, this is what they become... An otherworldy parasite). Blessings, Ghostseer
Pstaley (1 stories) (3 posts)
14 years ago (2008-12-16)
Thanks so much for all the comments, I have been talking to succubiluv and Succubussed and they are really helping me out. As for Axl comment, well yea it is a bit personal, but I wanted to find out if there are more people out there that had the same experience... Thanks again.
Mysti (1 stories) (5 posts)
14 years ago (2008-12-16)
I have the same experience practically every other night. In my case it's no physical touching, just waves of intense erotic feelings down under and makes me ready in an instant. The waves continue for maybe 10-15 minutes before it all gradually, but quickly fades out.
Nothing is "finished" as in your case, but I fully enjoy and welcome the experience. I go into a kind of half consious state of euphoria while it is happening. Sometimes intense, romantic kissing and I sense a kind of frenzy, like she is enjoying it quite a bit.

Then the experience fades until next time. It's been going on since about October.
Jackets (3 stories) (71 posts)
14 years ago (2008-12-16)
I really shouldn't have read this in the morning at work. 😉 But now that I did, it does sound like an encounter with an Incubus. I am not sure there is any way to make it happen again, and as you concluded, if it is a "bad spirit" you don't want it around. I am not one to encourage any relationships with someone out of the spirit world. We do not know nearly enough to attempt to form relationships with entities. Just take it for what it was... A once in a lifetime (hopefully) enjoyable experience.
courtneyOMGG (12 stories) (179 posts)
14 years ago (2008-12-16)
I was going to say what DeviousAngel said, "That's succubiluv and Succubussed's realm, so they'd be able to tell you better than I."
It does sound like an Incubus to me, but if it is causing you no harm so far, then it's up to your own personal feelings with what you want to do.
Has this happened again?
Axl (1 stories) (7 posts)
14 years ago (2008-12-16)
eh...that was kind of personal dontcha think? But I think that it was an incubus (the guy one) but, then again never ran into them. Well you seemed to enjoy it so... Nothing I can help you with.
Hoochler (1 stories) (263 posts)
14 years ago (2008-12-16)
Succubiluv retired from YGS, so I would not be surprised if he was silent on this thread. I told him he wouldn't be able to quit cold turkey, I guess we'll see! 😁

As far as your post goes Pstaley, it sounds like you had a sex demon visit. You will most likely hear people say things for and against sex demons, I would encourage you to listen to what they say but reserve final judgement for yourself and your own experiences. Also, be sure to consider the bias of each source when you think about what they are saying, why they are saying it, and what thier first hand experiences are (or are not).

Also, welcome to YGS!
DeviousAngel (11 stories) (1910 posts)
14 years ago (2008-12-16)
Hm...this could possibly be an encounter with a sex spirit. That's succubiluv and Succubussed's realm, so they'd be able to tell you better than I. It doesn't sound like it was a bad thing though, it sounds like you enjoyed it. If it becomes a problem, just tell it to leave.:)

Warmest blessings,

Mike823 (1 stories) (10 posts)
14 years ago (2008-12-16)
That is quite in one way cool but also scary:| I have had similar dreams where I would think someone was playing with me but as like you I wouldn't think much of it, but I would also check for solutions on the internet as bad spirits might be trying to take advantage of you and you definitley do not want that as it may be a bad spirit with a bad past: (take care xx

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