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An Angry Incubus


I'm a 23 year old female and have just had a terrifying experience with an incubus. I've suffered from sleep paralysis in the past with occasional intense, sexual presence.

One time I felt my trousers being pulled down and another time I felt someone lick my arm while I was unable to move.

I haven't had these experiences in years but about an hour ago I was asleep on the couch and I had a sleep paralysis episode. I woke up but couldn't move. I was used to this from before so I was relaxed and told myself it would pass in a few seconds. I even felt quite proud of myself for being so calm but was tired so was like 'ugh just hurry up so I can get back to sleep!'

Then I felt a sudden angry presence which held on to my ankles. I had limited movement at this point and could no longer open my eyes but I was in a foetal position so reached down to try to remove the grip. I felt the hands but no one will ever convince me it didn't happen. I pulled and clawed and the being bit my hands not hard but more of a warning. I was terrified at this point and could not speak but I thought maybe he could read my thoughts so I started apologising repeatedly in my head. He softened his grip and started stroking me. Then I felt him enter me and his fingers massaging me. He wasn't very gentle. I was so scared of him getting angry again that I let it all happen until he was finished. After struggling for 10-15 minutes trying to open my eyes they just opened so peacefully like he'd left.

I don't have any experience of this site, and literally woke up and went online to try to find help. I found this site and thought I would put this to people who know more than me.

This happened at 9.30pm and it is currently 11pm and I'm too scared to go back to sleep. Is there any way of getting rid if this demon without angering him again?

I really need your experiences, should I expect a return visit?

I've heard these spirits are usually mild and gentle, does this mean mine is evil?

Any help greatly appreciated

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Shangre (1 posts)
9 years ago (2012-11-20)
Im a young female and I have been having sleep paralysis more now in the month what happens to me is that I wake up around 2:30-3:40 am when I'm awake my body won't move and I feel a very hard pressure against my chest then I feel someone's hand slideing down my thigh and a ver rough deep whisper agaisnt my ear though I don't understand what its saying. I wan't to know who's doing this to me.
hippyt (1 posts)
9 years ago (2012-08-28)
i can entirely sympathise with your experience as this has happened to me on several occasions. I have had paralysis with a sense of someone in the room and then it gets into bed with me. The sensation, to be honest isn't unpleasant initially but soon I feel complete terror and helplessness as it presses against me as if trying to take me over. I have prayed and this does seem to help somewhat but it still happens every now and then. Let me know how you get on. I will be thinking of you and at least you know you aren't alone. 😊
TRENTON84 (1 stories) (20 posts)
10 years ago (2011-12-28)
It seems to me you need your house blessed, or you need a cleanse but a proper normal one.

God Bless You 😊
Spaceboygo (1 posts)
10 years ago (2011-11-12)
Listen, Your experience is that of a wonderful, loving spirit looking for affection from those who have not passed because they also have not passed. Some chose to stay here (avoid the light) or even do not know they are dead. This happens when death is sudden, and unexpected.
You are a spirit as well. You just so happen to inhabit a body in our material realm and because of that you have all the power. Your energy is tuned to this reality while there's is half in/half out, you follow? What ever you tell this spirit it will listen. The reason some "haunts" remain or become frightening or even violent is because the human or humans present are going over fearful thoughts of "what horrible things could this spirit do to me?" and they play all kinds of awful scenarios over in there mind which in-turn is giving the entity permission (by proxy) to persist and also match the energy you are projecting. And it WILL. Tell it to leave and stop thinking scary stuff like "what ifs" and it will leave. Now, if you think loving, pleasurable thoughts about this being then you will only allow it to interact in that way. Just like humans... Act like a jerk and they will return that. Act fearful and you will be preyed upon. Think negative... Get negative. Think positive... Get positive. It's the law of attraction and you get what you put out. You are a powerful creator. Demons, Devils, and Ghouls are creations of man used to control man. But yes, they are very real in the regards that you get what you put out. If you believe in "evil", then fear is a big part of your living experience and you will "create" or invite that negative energy. Listening to Bible thumpers will only scare you further.
Murraymints (2 stories) (16 posts)
10 years ago (2011-10-03)
I know some people that have the same thing as you and its a horrible experience. All I can say is of what I know all houses have spirit guardians? And sometimes theyve been there for years. So These guardians do not like strangers or other people staying there. It doesn't matter wether the house is newly built these guardians can be waiting for someone that will never come back if you get me? So when my mate got it as he was walking into his room he knocked on it and asked permission to go in and said he was sorry for intruding. And he hasnt got it since. Also I would recommend maybe seeing someone about it as I wouldn't know a lot only from what people told me 😁
hithernthither (1 posts)
10 years ago (2011-10-01)
This comment is for the POSTER, not for the other commentors. Sorry if this has been said already.

First of all, I'm not really sure if I believe in incubi but I have read that if you are being harassed/attacked by one then you should place your shoes on your floor next to where you sleep and have the shoes pointing toward the door. This apparently prevents them from entering the room.

Also, you should probably seek therapy because these instances might be repressed memories of a sexual assault that your brain is reliving for some reason.
King-Jack (3 stories) (19 posts)
10 years ago (2011-09-09)
Again, most likely a teenaged girl who likes watching "Bleach", and read the Japanese subtitles. I just want this person to man up and confess, or leave the site. Lying is one of the worst things in my mind, and I'll not stand for it.
Mountaineer (4 stories) (176 posts)
10 years ago (2011-09-07)
[at] King-Jack: maybe he's in cahoots with this author? For someone who "needs help with what she has experienced," she sure hasn't taken much interest in the discussion about her fairytale. I'd also like to point out that here, good ol' Vincy says his father may have been an incubus. But in his Syfy movie script, he says his father is an oni. The kid can't even keep his lies straight.
King-Jack (3 stories) (19 posts)
10 years ago (2011-09-07)
Vincent, you are one of the most shameless liars I've ever seen. Those who have read your story have found it to be fake, so please just stop while you're ahead. Nobody believes you, child. It would be best for you to leave.
VincentBernier (1 stories) (2 posts)
10 years ago (2011-08-25)
I feel terribly sorry for you I may have been scarred and attacked by spirits but what happened is really a bad case you should consider having someone exorcising your room and also stay on BCNTRL because it may sound crazy but my fathered have a been an incubus stay strong you are stronger than them
Little_dandelion (2 stories) (16 posts)
10 years ago (2011-07-09)
I came off a little presumoptious, I didn't mean he CANT save you, sorry if I offended. I only meant she isn't responsible and in a case like this she needs to take immediate action since it is physically attacking her. Sorry if I offended you I jumped the gun a bit.
Rabidren (14 posts)
10 years ago (2011-07-08)
Yes, Jesus can save you.

In this case, I suggest you use good ol' WIKI.
It's helped me before~
Little_dandelion (2 stories) (16 posts)
10 years ago (2011-07-06)
Im sorry but relying on "jesus" to save you from being raped by a demon doesn't work. You cannot rely on "god" to save you. And to the writer of this You need to clanse your room, house, bed and yourselve. This is in no way your fault. I hope your okay and I hope thie never ever happens to you again. ❤ ❤ ❤
Endymion77 (1 stories) (6 posts)
10 years ago (2011-07-05)
Your experience may lead to many problems in your life but there is hope. Learn to pray against this thing you are not obligated to take my advice. If the experience persists if you are in london I can see if there are folk there to help though iam in south africa um at endymion [at]
gods_child (5 posts)
10 years ago (2011-06-24) all I can say ❤ ❤ ❤
Jesus is the only one that can help you
BlueRose30 (11 posts)
10 years ago (2011-06-22)
Thank you Jav. I guess it's nice to know that some people can tell me politely what they are thinking, instead of constantly dwelling on every little thing I say. But thank you, and I do try to respect everyone as best as I can. And I do suppose that I was going a little overboard with the religious comments. Thanks 😊 -Rose
Javelina (4 stories) (3749 posts)
10 years ago (2011-06-22)
[at] Bluerose,
Excuse me, I really don't mean to be a bother. Well, the thing is that I was noticing that you were having a hard time with the rules for commenting on stories. And since you sre new, I thought the only neighborly thing to do was give you a look at the actual guideline you happen to be crossing (with great abandon and pride I might add).
These are the actual rules, just in case you missed them posted up on the boards when you entered the establishment.~~~

"This site offers discussions on the topic of ghost experiences, with people coming from various cultures, so please avoid proselytizing or preaching, unless the author of a story specifically asks to receive feedback from that religious perspective. This site is not about religious beliefs, it is about actual personal paranormal experiences and exploring reality with an open and investigative mind so we can actually learn more about the paranormal, with the same empirical mind set that made science so successful in other fields. Religions have a lot of wisdom to offer in terms of personal spirituality, but they can also limit our knowledge of the world with old superstitions and unproven dogmas. It's fine to share what your religion has to offer as a possible explanation, but everyone has their own, they certainly don't come here to be converted, so please, don't push it on others as irrefutable fact."

Thank you for your time and welcome to YGS.

BlueRose30 (11 posts)
10 years ago (2011-06-22)
One last thing. When I said that they can not hurt you, I meant that while you may be attacked, or hurt, these things won't exist in Heaven, and they won't matter. Also, you can make entities to leave. I believe (emphasis on the I, might not be everyone), that through the Lord, and prayer, you can make them go. Anyways, I'm tired of arguing with people who make such a big deal of things, and can't just go on with their lives, instead of just dwelling on the things that other people say and do. I will just have to keep in mind to not share my personal opinions so much, because of people who overreact, and let their minds run wild...
BlueRose30 (11 posts)
10 years ago (2011-06-22)
Wow, okay. I did not mean to offend anyone, if I did. All I am trying to do is to give MY personal opinion and advice. If anyone has a problem with what I say, they don't have to pay any attention. Again, I'm sorry if I was "offending" anyone, but these are just my personal opinions. No one has to listen to my advice, I am simply offering help. They can do whatever they want. And when I said "fear", and how you asked how fear is not in a bad way. I may have used too strong of a word. I guess I used it because I, you may not, believe that God is so powerful, and some people underestimate that power. I think people should just be aware of that. I guess I could have left that word out completely, but some personal opinions can be too difficult to understand, and explain. Everyone has their own opinions, I'd advise you to remember that. Thanks.
rookdygin (24 stories) (4458 posts)
10 years ago (2011-06-20)

It seems I'm following you about...I'd like to ask you a question... You say...

"I personally believe that demons nor the devil can touch you, or hurt you. BUT! He can tempt you..."

While Temptation is a Major 'tool' of 'evil entities' It is my experience that it is used to lead an individual into 'bad things' in order to weaken a person so that they may be 'possessed' and if that is not 'hurting someone' then I do not know what is.

I must repeat, to come here and simply dismiss other peoples beliefs by saying..."Only the Lord our God can protect us from the snare of the fowler (the devil), and everything else!" Is rude.

I avoided a religious 'debate' with you on another thread but you've said... "The only thing that you should be afraid of is God (not in a bad way), because of his power, and wrath, he is mighty! Only God can help you win any battle against anything."

I find myself having to ask this... How can fearing something be 'not in a bad way'? Fear leads to misunderstanding, misunderstanding leads to the dark side... (sorry had to go Fear is a powerful emotion and it leads to people doing things that are 'not so nice' because they do not understand what is happening to them, nor do they take the time to try and understand what scares them... If they took a small amount of time to research what is happening, they may realize there is nothing to fear or that no harm will come to them. Ignorance and Fear have 'hurt' more people than can really be mentioned here on these pages and it is not a 'good way' to approach the Paranormal.

Please, before you 'Preach' to anyone, try and really understand what they are going through and what may be happening around them.


BlueRose30 (11 posts)
10 years ago (2011-06-20)
You don't have to read just that in the Bible. Read anything in the Bible! But try to wear a cross (whether it's a regular cross like mine, (mine says Live By Faith, Not By Sight), or a crucifix, depending whether you are Catholic or not.) And keep the Bible near you as much as possible to look to for guidance. But really, the big thing you must do is pray to The Lord, asking Him to get rid of anything evil that may be hurting you, and He won't let you down:). P.S.- If anyone may be wondering, I'm Baptist/Non-Denominational, (obviously not Catholic. ❤
BlueRose30 (11 posts)
10 years ago (2011-06-20)
Hello. I personally believe that demons nor the devil can touch you, or hurt you. BUT! He can tempt you (like how he disguised himself as a serpent and tempted Eve to eat the forbidden fruit in the garden of Eden), to do things. But you mustn't let him! You can stop this from happening! I'm with angelyuki on this one. No priest, "Holy water", incense, sage, salt, olive oil, or ANY of that ridiculous stuff that says to get rid of "bad spirits" is going to work! Only the Lord our God can protect us from the snare of the fowler (the devil), and everything else! You MUST pray! I'm sort of upset on how Catholics (no offense) believe that you have to ask a priest to pray FOR you, and to get rid of the "evil entities". YOU have to do this! You MUST PRAY! If you truly believe that demons are hurting you, then only God can get rid of it. Pray about this every night before you go to bed. Read the Lord's Prayer aloud, and read Psalm 91. Also! The only thing that you should be afraid of is God (not in a bad way), because of his power, and wrath, he is mighty! Only God can help you win any battle against anything. God Bless! 😊 ❤ p.s.- make the "demon" know that, "In the name of The Lord, Jesus Christ, you are not welcome anywhere! 😊 I hope I helped:)
Kuruni_Nisse (3 posts)
11 years ago (2011-05-23)
First of all,... I do agree with some of the advice I've read,... It will stay as long as you do nothing Spiritually positive. Some say, hang up a cross, However, To have a deep and abiding Spiritually positive frame of mind and heart, having a Crucifix Blessed will be a much stronger detterent to the demon. As will creating a wall hanging (a piece of plain 8" x 10" white paper with a handmade design border if you want--Should designate your residence with the words, " Et Indominus Christos Infinitum!" (Latin for Christ Reigns Forever!). And In addition to prayers to St. Michael, and God, and Jesus, Also make implorations to the Holy Mother, The Virgin Mary.
As well as these actions make the demon angry,... They are supposed to... This is Not a simple competition for sex with a human being... This Demon uses fear, confusion, and your undeclared giving up of your body for it's own selfish pleasures... This type of demon is using its powers of fear and sexual
Prowess to get control of your body,... To eventually gain control and possession of YOUR SOUL. And if you are not certain you can do this yourself, Run!...
Don't walk, to your closest Clergy master (pastor or
Priest.) They are for the most part, specifically
Trained to help people having these types of occurrences. May the Angels hear your prayers and
Offer their divine warrior countenances for your
Walter_R (1 stories) (81 posts)
11 years ago (2011-05-06)
I have read your story and I understand what your going through. How ever I've near had a sex demon bother me, a demon yes, but not a sex demon was bothing me years ago.

1. Get a cross and hang it on the wall.
2. Get a Bible and set it near your bed.
3. Pray to God every time before you go to bed.
4. Pray in your mind if the sex demon shows up.

Take care,

Walter 😁
crazymisscarly (1 stories) (3 posts)
11 years ago (2011-04-27)
hi. Like you, I was searching for some kind of ghost explanation (can't remember why, I was in year 7 at the time lol) and stumbled across this site. It really is helpful and I hope your okay! 😭
Puppeteer13 (131 posts)
11 years ago (2011-04-18)
First off let me extend my deepest sympathy for you this incident must have been rather traumatic. As to wether or not it will return though it seems likely, If your spirit is exibiting violent or agressive tendencys you should be prepaired just incase. Now as a Bokor and Exorcist allow me to offer you a solution, I'm not going to tell you to do hail marrys or confess your sins. Instead I offer afirmitive action, Smudge your house with sage, lay down a circle of salt along your bed couch anywere you sleep, and keep vases of wild roses in your house. The salt will provide you with a protective barrier, the sage will purify the negitive energy within the home makeing it harder for your entity to maifest, and wild roses put off an intence life energy wich drives off the dead and for some odd reason demons. Please inform me if I can be of further assistance and may the gods bless and protect you

Your freind,
The Puppeteer
scarletnine (2 stories) (20 posts)
11 years ago (2011-03-11)
Aww, I'm really sorry you experienced this, it's so bad and I know how you feel... It must be really hard for you and that you're scared to sleep... I know it's horrible and terrifying as hell! I had this kind of things too, some experiences but this far (you know what I mean) hehe...

But ok well, first of all there are many possibilities that this entity entered your house, you should try to think back again and remember... Try to remember again how it happened for the very first time... Time, date, place, all the exact spot and stuffs... Might

Ok so other thing I want to say... Remember that our mind is strong, and our thoughts create our own reality. Our thoughts manifest what we want and it becomes reality, it's very possible trust me.
So I am sorry, very sorry... This might be the desire for s**, and that you really want it so you began imaginating it with your thoughts then it became reality, but at some point this thoughts you had feeding some being that were around you and this "thing" became more fierce... Well I don't know, I'm just guessing... But I do believe this story and I respect it too, and yes it's evil for sure since it forced you to "do that"

And well you can call up to Archangel Michael tho If you want to, he's good at it xD lol if you every need help or feel scare... The need of everything just pray to him, and hey I'm talking about this stuffs not based on any religion ok? Since I'm agnostic... Hehe
Hope helps:]
hola226 (1 posts)
11 years ago (2011-03-09)
After reading this I felt re-leaved. My husband thought I was cheating on him when he heard another man's voice in our new house. I kept telling him it was probaly just his imagination. Though a few nights later I heard and experience
aj911 (1 posts)
11 years ago (2011-03-08)
I havn't done really that much research on this topic. But my girlfriend has mentioned to me atleast twice of two mornings where should would wake up and felt like she had sex for a few hours straight that night. She has also mentioned hearing unexplainable noises while laying in bed coming from either her basement or attic above her room (can't really be sure because it sounds like it's around the room, so either above or below?) And lastly she told me about hearing some really creepy (unearthly) noises in her sleep every now and then. I worry about her sometimes because I'm her boy friend and there's nothing I can really do against a spirit while I'm at college and she's still at home... Anyways I'm sorry about what happened to you! I hope everything gets resolved.
aya22 (guest)
11 years ago (2011-03-07)
I just don't understand these. Like I stated, I believe in the supernatural but I obviously don't know everything about everything. Before believing anything to be paranormal, I try to think through a situation rationally at first. Not implying that the poster is crazy or anything like that. Not at all! It just seems odd that this thing "sexual entity" in the story was able to do everything from take off her pants and underwear, pin her down, have physical sex, and then physically swat her hands away. While studying some classes in college, I understand that the human psyche can manipulate situations to seem different from what they are... Memories can be altered, for instance. The mind can replace the insurmountable fear of something that is actually physically happening, on an earthly plane, with something else equally as frightening, but which is not the truth. The truth is, is that one is more bearable than the other.

Anybody can disagree with me, that's fine, that's why this is a forum. I'm not looking to be the most "popular poster" or gain karma points. Just trying to throw another perspective out there! I can be wrong of course, since I've already admitted that I know nothing about these kinds of sexual spirits. Like I stated before, whatever this is, spirit, demon, whatever... I hope the advice from people here are useful and that sbrown19 finds some peace regarding this situation. If it is a type of spirit, I think some of the comments on here sound very helpful. From my own experience with angry spirits, their objective can often be to make the person they're tormenting feel and believe that they are powerless. However, that is the farthest thing from the truth and if not completely opposite. ❤

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