This happened about 5years ago.
I'm actually an American Indian and moved to the U.K. With my boyfriend. In India there is a practice of offering our love and respect through small rituals in the sea for our family members who had passed away, especially in Kerala.
So me and my boyfriend went to Kerala to do this for my bestie who was also a distant cousin. She passed away due to cancer 8 years ago.
Since we're Christians I couldn't do it in the sea but I placed the ritual flowers on her grave. Ryan, my boyfriend, didn't come with me to her grave so I had to go there alone.
The thing is she only talked to me about her family problems so we had an intimate connection and after her death I always felt her with me wherever I went. But this time I didn't felt like that. But anyway I placed those flowers and turn around. What I saw did shocked me.
Behind Ryan who was on his phone, was a black shadow in the form of a girl.
Her head was swinging to the sides as she approached him. Something told me to run towards him and I did it, but it was gone when I was near. It nearly freaked me out and Ryan thought I was playing with him and it made me cry because it was her... My bestie.
This was a true experience with her and I never got any visit from her after that. I need to know what everyone thinks of this because no one believed me about this.
I'd appreciate your help and respect your comments whatever it will be.
I have other experience but this was the most recent one.