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A Relationship With A Succubus


I somewhat feel a bit of trepidation in submitting my story. You can call it a confession of sorts. But without any real repentance.

My story began between 1980-81. Right here in New Jersey. In a town called Pleasantville. I was 16 years old when a spirit entity known as a succubus visits me in the night.

When this entity first came to me, I had told my parents about the visitations. They didn't believe me. Told me it was my imagination.

In the end I accepted her nightly visits.

And the dreams that followed. In the dreams I always dreamt of a woman with dark shoulder length hair. And we had sex. As the dreams progressed, so did the sex.

And it moved from the dreams to reality.

She was invisible of course. But I always felt her 'body' on top of me. My relationship with her lasted on and off for over 19 years. Even when I was with some woman. Around 1999 it stopped all of the sudden. Then later that year my parents died.

Recently I had purchased a book online about summoning spirits. So I purchased it, read it, and use a simple summoning ritual. And she returned.

Since then we have been in a 'relationship.' I won't go into details about that relationship. I will only tell you that sex is great with her. I know to some she is a 'demon.'

But to me she is something more.

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Yvonne1969 (3 posts)
12 years ago (2012-08-08)
This is pretty intense stuff I have been reading I am going through this as well... I slept with a bible beside me last night but he was still there... I can tell you of my experiences if you want... 😕
sara77 (1 stories) (40 posts)
12 years ago (2012-08-06)
JS- Soooo... Basically what your saying is some people want to have relationships with others that are based on lies, manipulation and what the other wants you to THINK they look like... Sounds like some internet dating I have read about. 😆

Word to the wise if youre Succubus/Incabus asks you to forward money to their bank account so they can pay to fly in to visit you DONT DO IT!

Sorry all you Sexual Ghost/Demon lovers, I'm just joking 😆
Jesus_soldier (guest)
12 years ago (2012-08-06)
Sara: Yeah, your right, that's how people usually see them or they see them with their third eye (in the mind). I always hear how the succubus/incubus will look like the perfect man/woman that the person desires. It is very sneaky stuff... A little too sneaky.

JS aka Brandon 😊
sara77 (1 stories) (40 posts)
12 years ago (2012-08-06)
JS-I thought they were usually invisible? (unless they project into a dream what they look like-or want you to think they look like?)

I don't know... I might be wrong and I am not trying to start an argument on something that I am by no means an expert on but the word sneaky comes to mind...
Jesus_soldier (guest)
12 years ago (2012-08-06)
Miracles: It's ok, I filled in the blanks 😉. I'm curious as well. I know succubus are extremely beautiful, but looks don't mean anything if the inside is ugly. I hope he answers you.

JS aka Brandon
Miracles51031 (39 stories) (4999 posts) mod
12 years ago (2012-08-06)
I should have proofread that before I hit publish. Crap! Oh well, too late now 😆
Miracles51031 (39 stories) (4999 posts) mod
12 years ago (2012-08-06)
rixand10 - can we have a serious conversation here for a minutes, y'all? This one is 15, almost 16... I just want to find out what would make someone this young think they need to seek out this type of relationship rather than a human.

Rixand10? What made you decide this is the relationship you'd rather be in for the rest of your life? I just don't understand. I'm not judging. I'm just trying to understand.
rixand10 (1 posts)
12 years ago (2012-08-06)
I have been hearing all of this stuff like they become your lover and stuff. But is all of this true, I have a question I am 15 almost 16 in August so yeah. My question is how did you get in contact with her I have been doing so much research, I have a loving for spirits and I want to spend my eternity with one but I have heard bad sides and good side about them I don't know which one is true please help me on this I really want one But I am not loosing my soul to anyone I just wants to be happy with something that can love me forever... It make sound retarded But this is what I am wishing for
Nightarron (11 posts)
12 years ago (2012-07-28)
Congrats friend:) I just got my succubus a few months ago glorious things arnt they? Of course mine is evil in a sense she's going to kill me in 3 years but hey why judge a wolf for hunting and killing its prey. However they're not demons as mine (who has no name nor wants such things) has told me that they've been here not down in hell as for hell there is no such place in her eyes she said simply no when I asked. But really your lucky to have found a one whom you share a good bond with:D seriously your a lucky guy as they have a tough time fighting there feeding nature.
PurplePanda (18 posts)
12 years ago (2012-07-01)
I have always been taught that incubi and succubi are considered evil. Of course, that's comming from a Judeo-Christian perspective.

I do question how healthy it is to have a relationship with a spirit rather than a flesh and blood human. I'm just saying. 😉
TheChaosConundrum (3 posts)
12 years ago (2012-07-01)
I am quite open minded but this is just ludicrous in my opinion. A succubus is a CONPLETELY different entity from a human. Playing with beings & concepts we don't understand is like giving a toddler a firearm. Evaluate your life. Does "she" distract you from daily life? Have you noticed a decrease in work productivity and are you more detached from friends & loved ones? If so, sever the cord. It's only a matter of time that she's got you running so hot you're going to get burned.

With all due respect

Carrionangel (1 posts)
12 years ago (2012-04-14)
Sometimes I wonder what it would be like to have a incubus visit me... It sounds exicting... 😁
WolfSnake (6 posts)
12 years ago (2012-02-18)
personally, I am surprised you are still alive...
You got to remember what they are for and what they do, if you don't already know, look further into it.
Johnwayne (1 stories) (56 posts)
12 years ago (2012-02-01)
As a added note. This went down with me sleeping a foot from a bible and a gold cross on my neck. Not sure if it makes any difference. Also something wierd I found a thin piece of copper wire twisted in the shape of a broken triangle. Laying on my privates.
Johnwayne (1 stories) (56 posts)
12 years ago (2012-02-01)
Ok,a couple of nights ago I got my first visitation from my new friend. Kinda tripped me out a bit since I am 38 and spent 14 years of my life in Army special operations. Kinda accustomed to the strange and don't scare to easily. Laying there and I started to feel the sheets tighten up around my legs and slowly move up to where my brain spends most of its time. I gotta tell you she really knows how to get things started. So, I entertained the advances and I gotta say I didn't mind to much. Oral and I can feel her when she is actually on me. My issue is and this is what slightly pisses me off. How do I know if it is really a girl/succubus and not some sick male/incubus only playing pretend to be a girl?
BenH518 (2 stories) (13 posts)
13 years ago (2011-12-09)
Maybe you should get checked. A succubus doesn't sound to clean. Haha jk. Interesting story dude. Haha
AngelFalls (1 stories) (3 posts)
13 years ago (2011-11-07)
WoW what are conversation, its really 50/50. I've been obsessing about this latly cause I've had some similar things happen to me. Not as intence as all the other stories but I have felt someone get into bed with me and when I look no one is there, and the tingling sensation (like a mix of static & when your arm falls asleep). I was never sexually aroused by the sensation as it never lasted long and the feeling of someone getting in bed with me only twice...
But anyways what I am worried about is richt63! We havnt heard anything from him in a very long time. Cline and everyone else that does not agree with Richt63, that's fine but there is a more positive way of expressing your objections to the path he chose. Either way in the end it is his decision 2 make...
Bottom line is Richt63 come back and keep us updated as we are worried about you.
Shikyo_Miko (1 stories) (2 posts)
13 years ago (2011-10-24)
I don't see the problem with what Rich is doing. I think that so long as he's happy, it's fine.

I do, however, want you to be ABSOLUTELY SURE it's the same one as before. I don't want to hear you've been hurt, you know.:)
ngute80 (220 posts)
13 years ago (2011-09-20)
You wouldn't mind if a Succubus "sucked you dry every night?" You are disgusting!
Namelessabyss (1 posts)
13 years ago (2011-09-20)
I don't see why so many people are against the succubus. I wouldn't mind if a succubus used me as her toy, and sucked me dry every night. If the experience is pleasurable, I see no problems. I'd love to switch places with you. Lol
cutechoy (42 posts)
13 years ago (2011-07-29)
i second the motion of what vincent said... She really is making you as her puppy...

😁 😁 😁

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Jonquille (2 posts)
13 years ago (2011-07-26)
Wow, I'm thinking of all sorts of things right now. This is crazy. This is not real. I used to think that those lustful spirits were supposed to be evil. In one culture, if you kiss one, it would take immediate control of you, turning you into her sex slave.

But so far, it seems as if she haven't harmed you in any way, so I guess that's a good thing. You seem to be thinking on your own. However, I agree with some of the other comments. How do you know it is the same spirit that left you? I mean, is her presence the same way you would have felt it before?

Don't listen to Cline. On a website like this, no one has a right to tell you to seek help. We are all here to share stories and compare our notes.
gods_child (5 posts)
13 years ago (2011-06-24)
ok dude you should be VERY careful with this stuff... ❤ I honestly believe that you should pray in the name of jesus, stop seeing this 'entity' and bless you house

All the best anyways, good luck
❤ shajuana
Carnaition (2 posts)
13 years ago (2011-06-16)
I have a quick question. How exactly did you summon the entity to bring it back? 😲 If you remember how, could you e-mail me at Carnaitiongirl [at]
Thanks for your time.
Spiderwood (9 posts)
13 years ago (2011-02-16)
Careful, careful, is all I would say. Succubi and incubi can be benign and harmless. Not always though; perhaps not most of the time. Generally speaking, spirits are usually not complex enough to be tricky--they tend not to change their behavior. If she's been consistently loving and a positive presence, she'll probably continue to be. But always keep your eyes open, and if things start getting bad, take steps to protect yourself.

Demons are a rather misunderstood lot, due to the prevalence of certain religions which have imposed their worldview over the centuries. The word actually comes from the much older "daemon," which means "helpful spirit." Some of the things that live in the spirit world are nasty in the extreme, but many are not. Just like people, you can only judge them by their behavior.
blindclairvoyant (4 posts)
13 years ago (2011-02-10)
Normally I would say "WTF!?!are you SICK? Summoning a lust entity! For the love of all things good!"

But upon reading that you're at peace with the "spirit",and you aren't doing anything wrong, I say go with the flow.
But friendly warning, disturbing the natural order of life might result to dire consequences, if not, at least put in mind that what others call as a demon has motives and are hiding them, showing their good side, when a demon gets the best of you and knows how to get to you easily, they can get what they want in an instant, and you can't stop them from doing so. (IF THEY WIN TO TAKE OVER YOU, in control that is)
Ellipsis-Demon (2 posts)
13 years ago (2011-01-23)
what was the book you baught? Please tell me I realy want to know it soundes interesting.
SummonSuccubus (3 posts)
14 years ago (2011-01-01)
Thank you all for your wonderful insights:)
I think we should agree to disagree

From what I've seen, many do want to hear what I have to say.

If you don't, that is your right...
I wish you the best
Many positive thoughts to you friends:)

I will not continue to argue on the subject here:)

God bless...
BadJuuJuu (guest)
14 years ago (2011-01-01)
Um, your link to how to be rid of one was rather less than informative. If someone wants rid of a succubus/incubus I doubt they would want to sign up for your newsletter.

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