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Held Down And Abused By A Demon Figure


I'm kind of embarrassed by my experiences. Well this has happened multiple times. I'm new to this but I've read stories and similar things have happened to me. I'll be sitting on my bed in the dark but not too dark and I'll feel something strange, hard to explain.

Next thing you know, there would be some kind of black creature on me. I can hear him breathing and he'll lick me on the face. I can't move, I feel like something is holding me down, some strange force.

One time I was able to talk and told him to get the (F word) off of me and he went away. Sometimes I'll be laying on my side ad it'll abuse me; I knew it was a male because it had a penis and it would rape me in the rear.

By the way, I am a male. So I guess this is a Homosexual demon or ghost. I did research on this. I don't know if this is a gay incubus or just a ghost but what ever it is, it reminds me the black thing (Dementors) on the movie Harry Potter... Google image: dementor Harry potter. You'll see what I am talking about.

Like I said I'm new to this so I need help finding out what this creature was? I live with my father now. I haven't had the problem here but I still would like to know what abused me. I'm so embarrassed...

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misty6549 (guest)
14 years ago (2010-08-09)
ok I think I got the answer they say there's a demon named incubus who rapes I don't know if he raped men but they say hes a demon and he rapes but I think people say that he has tentacles and has purple eyes and is black you just have to pray ok
Irishlasie (2 stories) (28 posts)
14 years ago (2010-04-30)
hiye I know it was ages ago since you posted your story, I'v looked at that image of dementor and all's I say is I hope to God nothing like that has happened since or will ever happen again! Could you let me know eather way please God bless
whitebuffalo (guest)
15 years ago (2009-09-18)
Uh, mrsmrteddybear?
There really is no reason to be so... I guess I want to say negative.
As you can see, the story was written over a year ago, and the number of posts is zilch. I would say that is a pretty strong indication that this was NOT a true story, nor does the author need assistance.
You can have your opinion, that is fine. But please watch what it is that you write. There is no need to be openly vindictive.
Thank you.
Somhairle (40 posts)
15 years ago (2009-08-24)
Damn that's unlucky, if it offends you then try and contact a medium to help you out.
scrapmetalkitten (306 posts)
15 years ago (2009-05-21)
My heart goes out to you. If you ever feel threatened like that again first calm yourself... Fear just strengthens something nasty like this. Mentally surround yourself with a protective white light, and call for help from God, the universe, or whatever makes you feel the most empowered. Now direct the warmest feelings of love and kindness directly at it, and at the same time mentally direct white light at it and surround and trap it. Then visualize the darkness and evil within it getting eaten up by the pure white light. Meditate on this until nothing is left of the entity except pure white light and loving energy. This has helped me combat and cleanse negative entities before. I hope this helps, or helps somebody else having problems with an evil entity.
Shaz101 (1 stories) (22 posts)
15 years ago (2009-03-07)
You should not feel embarrassed... There are others who have been through what you went through so take comfort in the fact that you are not alone.
ShamanSon (1 stories) (7 posts)
15 years ago (2009-03-05)
Its happened to me too. I'm a strait male and have been raped by a male demon once. I can feel it thrusting me. I remember everything that night. My anus was sore the next day. Read my story here
I now know that I'm not the only one that's been raped by a demon. I'm going to ask a master shaman how to kill a spirit and make it non-existent since its just a energy. I'll get back with you about that.
kuehnau (5 stories) (60 posts)
15 years ago (2009-02-26)
I don't know, that is all very odd and horribly frightening at the same time. But have you ever heard of sleep paralysis? It is a process in which you wake up while your mind is still detached from the rest of your body. During this time, your brain may still be precessing dreams and can actually project your dreams onto your waking environment. That would explain being held down, and that may even be able to explain the 'demon'.

On the other hand, it may be possible that this is a much more deeper problem and a physiological problem at that. Possibly being abused by a friend or family member could cause you to have nightmares, or even induce illusions of being raped by a mysterious entity to help you cope with the fact that someone close to you hurt you in such a horrible way.

If it was dark in your room, the chances are, you could have even have been molested by a person and not a demon. And as much it hurts to admit that someone you know or love may have done that to you, you need to consider that option as well. The fact that the 'demon' stopped as soon as you told it to, suggests to me, it may have not even been any sort of astral creature.

Unfortunately, especially in this case... You are going to be left with your own experiences and you are going to have to form your own conclusion from what has happened to you. But what I do suggest is that you see a counselor or therapist in the mean time to help deal with it, paranormal or not. I wish the best for you in the future.
StephanDragon (2 stories) (14 posts)
15 years ago (2009-02-26)
I know how you feel. I am working on a post about some of my past and present experiences and have an incubi who has followed me for most my life. I am a male and well so is He. You have absolutly nothing to be ashamed of. For them it is about their pleasure and they feed off your emotions and reactions. And I Must agree with whitebuffalo. You have to take back the power and control. You have to stand mentally and emotionally strong and not allow it to keep using you in ways YOU do not approve of. When it does come to you again start focusing on light and goodness and protection... See it in your mind and make it glow bright and push the light outward forming a spiked ball around you shoving this thing away. It is an extreamly simple and useful techinique to do and with some time of meditation you can set it up before you go to bed so will be safe when you go to bed. It is also good to use against psychic vampires or shadow people as well.
Nikki1990 (3 stories) (21 posts)
16 years ago (2008-10-15)
Don't be embarassed. But it sounds like whatever that demond thing was had to have some connection with the old house you were in if it stopped when you moved out. I have never heard a story like this sorry I really can't help.
succubiluv (1 stories) (365 posts)
16 years ago (2008-10-05)
Perhaps in the other home your negative experiences were in some way connected to occult items in the home, etc., maybe not. Good you're in a better situation now.
Your embarrassment is understandable.
And, yes, for those surprised, paranormal history shows that there are indeed "homosexual" and bi-sexual spirit entities.

Certain sources indicate that spirits are actually neither male or female gender beings; they are, instead, able to simulate the human form and characteristics that identify either gender among humans.
Viewed from this standpoint, sexual connection with a human being is purely a matter of preference per spirit.
Some spirits have no preference, so biology has nothing to do with it; a neuter gender being can swing either way freely.
The main issue is pleasure, gender aside.
Forbidden_Love (42 posts)
16 years ago (2008-09-29)
If there are gay people then there are gay demons/ghost...personally I don't believe in any religion or ghost demons...etc...
And I still don't even after what I experienced...
voulme16 (14 posts)
16 years ago (2008-09-18)
wow dude don't let it do that to you and be careful just because it listiend to you once dosnt meant itll lstin to you again you mite just make it mad so be carful (I can't spell god srry)
DemonSora (69 posts)
16 years ago (2008-09-03)
BLEEEEEH! That's weird, that incubus is guy?! I never heard of a gay incubus before! 😨 Holy S****! I know that will never happen to me and I'm Female.

God Bless ❤
troyarn (5 stories) (479 posts)
16 years ago (2008-08-16)
Sorry for an hurt feelings. This just looked very much like something I had read earlier from someone who most definetitely was adding a joke to a true story site (to get a stir from us who read such things).
I just assumed it was the same person (since this person was a guest) and didn't think. No way I would make fun of someone if I thought there story to be something that they actually went through (regardless what I personally thought of it).
Again, sorry if I was tasteless when I only meant to humour the guy.
FinanceMajor (1 stories) (64 posts)
16 years ago (2008-08-15)
Dario,Keep us up to date about the activities. I hope things are getting better for you. I remember studying for the Series 7, and Insurance Licenses to buy and sell Investments and it was stressful, I would experience noises in my room, restless nights when I coudn't sleep. It got so bad that when I pushed through the Negative, my girlfriend would experience seeing shadows at night while attending night classes. Best of Luck Bro. As for the funny comments, I just see it as kids who have not experienced these things, at least not to the extent of others. I'm telling you man, let the shiat hit the fan for them and they will be calling for help too. And we will do give the knowledge we have to help them out.Godbless.
Kirska (1 stories) (7 posts)
16 years ago (2008-08-12)
I think it's sad that there are so many sarcastic troll comments here on this story.


Let's hope that it doesn't follow you to where you are now. I know it's not something I would like to go through.

I would suggest, if nothing else, to get a hold of some blessed holy water and keep it near you. It might be all you need to keep them away.
whitebuffalo (guest)
16 years ago (2008-08-10)
Say, troyarn. Good sense of humor there, however, according to the wikipedia page, "Ectoplasm is said to be produced by physical mediums when in a trance state. This material is excreted as a gauze-like substance from orifices on the medium's body and spiritual entities are said to drape this substance over their nonphysical body, enabling them to interact in our physical universe..."
As it takes the MEDIUM to produce the ectoplasm...
I truly DID have a good laugh though at the play on words.
Thank you. But shall we support each other, or at least add a smiley emoticon? It takes a bit of the edge off.
troyarn (5 stories) (479 posts)
16 years ago (2008-08-10)
Too bad he used a ghostly condom or you could have collected some ectoplasm.
Spartan070 (12 posts)
16 years ago (2008-08-09)
i don't mean to offend religious people especially dario, but threatening the rape ghost in the name of jesus christ won't do anything. But find a medium because they can tell you why they did what they did and how to get rid of them. I feel really bad for you dude and I hope this never happens again.
TwistedWispersNeko (3 stories) (90 posts)
16 years ago (2008-08-08)
Great_Zombie_Jesus, why are you even on here if all your going to do is be rude to the other posters? I agree that everyone has a right to their own opinion, but to be rude about it is childish and demeaning to, not only the people your being rude to, but demeaning yourself as well. I read that your a skeptic, but most the skeptics I know, that shrug off what myself, and others believe, atleast have enough respect to just say I disagree, without being rude about someone elses beliefs.
FinanceMajor (1 stories) (64 posts)
16 years ago (2008-08-08)
We all have come to this website because we have experienced things ourselves, or have had close family and friends whom had these experiences.

Make no mistake, this is Real. We poke fun at the idea, but then when something happens to us, or it is late at night and we feel uneasy, then our calm and cool manner takes the bus out of town.

Physical weopons are not going to hurt demons. When I had experienced such an attack, and could not move, I thought about a time when I was with my love and we enjoyed the peace and happiness of being with each other. That thought alone, destroyed the entities power, and it left.

I don't really know about crystals and the like, but if it retains strength for you then use it. These bad things dwell on our negative emotions and they want you to have fear.

Affirmations do work, like saying: "I command you in the name of Jesus Christ, Our Saviour to Leave, NOW".
They work because we call on our higher power with such conviction. Like music, you cannot touch it, or see it, but it is very much a part of you, Music moves the soul.
This is basically the same concept.

Godbless and Remain Strong. We are here to help you.
whitebuffalo (guest)
16 years ago (2008-08-08)
Welcome aboard, Great_Zombie_Jesus,
I am not saying that making a firm statement would work in ridding a human counter part to a ghost stuck in this realm. What I AM suggesting is if this is a succubus or an incubus, there are certain "laws" that are most generally adhered to. In SPEAKING with what this is, it will be forcing a hand, so to speak. Acknowledging the existence of something that MOST people would tend to try and ignore is one step closer to getting rid of the entity.
We really tend to not advocate violence. And to suggest leaving a butcher knife under a pillow would advocate it. Too many accidents have happened when someone was trying to protect themselves from a ghost in human protection means, and someone purely human walked it and was granted the surprise of both parties lives.
As ridiculous as it may sound to you, it has been shown to have a positive outcome when used against these types of entities. As he is CERTAIN it is not a human doing these things to him, that leaves out the traditional protection modes that would occur if it were.
Thank you for trying to help Dario, as the rest of us also only care about his well being.
Peace to you.
Great_Zombie_Jesus (3 posts)
16 years ago (2008-08-07)
whitebuffalo: I would suggest plainly stating, and with a firm resolve, "You are NOT welcome here, and I will no longer allow you to do such things to me..."


Yes, because such tactics work so well with human rapists that it's bound to work on a supernatural one!
whitebuffalo (guest)
16 years ago (2008-08-07)
Before I begin, I would like to say that I have a tendency not to look at the other comments before I post, so please forgive me if I mention something that someone else has already suggested.
I personally could not tell you if there is such a thing as a gay incubus, or a succubus for that matter. What I do know is that both DO exist, and that there are a variety of persons who have experienced this type of abuse.
And it IS abuse.
I would suggest plainly stating, and with a firm resolve, "You are NOT welcome here, and I will no longer allow you to do such things to me..." That is just in the event that you should again visit in this home, and it should come back to you.
I would venture to guess, however, that as you moved out and it did not follow you, that you are out of the woods. Do not get over confident in that thought, though. But then, do not be frightened by the prospect that it may not have been your last experience. Not all ghosts set out to harm, just as not all people.
With that lead in, my understanding of ghosts is that they are just like live humans. There are a variety of personalities, emotions, desires etc. The only thing absent in their resemblance is NO LIFE FORCE. So I should THINK that it may be possible for there to be homosexual entities. But as I stated before, I personally could not tell you without a doubt that there are some in existence.
Dario (guest)
16 years ago (2008-08-07)
No, My father isn't doing. I lock my door at night plus, like I said "It has'nt happened recently". When I moved in with my father, that's when it stopped. I sleep with a gun. It was happening when I was living with my mother. I know for a fact that it was'nt a human.
Great_Zombie_Jesus (3 posts)
16 years ago (2008-08-07)

Don't listen to these kooks. Prayer won't do a thing but waste your time and as for the power crystals - well I guess you could throw them at you assailant. How's your eyesight? Are you sure your father isn't entering your room at night, cloaked in a magical assrape veil? I highly recommend you sleep with a nice sharp knife (preferably American or German steel) under your pillow and shank the hell out of whomever is disturbing your sleep/butt. Good luck. Let us know how the stabbings go.
ohmy (22 posts)
16 years ago (2008-08-07)
Dario--I do recommend that you check out a book from your local library "The Power of Positive Prophecy" by Laurie Beth Jones. I think you need it. At your young age, it can be devastating when your own mother says hurtful things to you. Also, I think you should check out books about mental abuse to help you learn to cope with negative people.

If your computer has a cd burner, I would recommend that you compile a list of soothing, positive, uplifting songs and listen to it when you feel bummed out or read funny, light stories to help get your mind off your troubles. Stay away from depressing music and stories because it will drag you down.

I'm not saying it applies to you because I don't know you well, but if you harbor a lot of rage, grudge, or any other strong negative emotions, it can be used as a foothold by bad or evil spirits to gain access into your life.

Since you no longer experience this anymore, I trust that all is well or you're in a better situation than when you were living with your mom.
dinosaur1993 (1 stories) (1 posts)
16 years ago (2008-08-07)
Dario. Wow...I'm so sorry about what has happened to you. Just pray that God makes it all better ❤...I'll put you in my prayers. 😁
Surya (39 stories) (867 posts)
16 years ago (2008-08-07)
Hi Dario,
What can I say?

I am sorry though to read you have family issues. Being a holistic therapist, I know negatives attract negatives, fear bring fear and so on. Why don't you before you go to bed, try some Yoga, meditation to relax your mind. I have recently put a mixed lot crystals and gemstones on my window sill, mainly rose quartz, amethyst, I also have a picture of The Lord I keep right next to me and ask for protection. Since my last experiance which was saturday last week, I have managed to sleep and do feel calm and protected. The power of the Crystals and the Protection of God.

I hope you do not have another experiance like this and hope things get better with your Mother.


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