I'm new to this site but feel that sharing my experiences will help me, even if they are milder than others.
I've always felt that I'm slightly psychic; I feel more than I see things. My nana and grandie died (4 months between each other) when I was 11 and I have always felt that there with me. I still talk to them if I'm ever feeling scared or alone. Had a slight accident a couple of months ago where we left a deep fat fryer on all night and me and my other half have lived to tell the tale. I believe my grandparents had something to do with us still being here today!
Any way, as I have got older, the odd other experiences has happened to me.
When I was 17 I came in about just gone midnight and got into bed. I can remember feeling really happy and in a good mood as Id had a really good night. I was facing the wall and as I rolled over in my bed my quilt was lifted as if someone was getting in the bed with me! I can remember screaming 'NO!' and jumping out of bed but getting out at the bottom! I ran to my mum's room and told her I needed her now! She came out and when I told her what happened she didn't believe me (she's very skeptical) but I forced her to get in bed with me for that night and for about a week slept with my light on! Whatever it was it scared me very much but I felt if I spoke to my grandparents it would leave me alone. For the time being it did!
Three years later I was sharing my bed and room with my boyfriend. I slept by the wall and he slept on the edge. We still lived with my parents then and one night after we went to bed I woke up to see a figure in a red hooded coat standing over us. I couldn't see the face but I could see it had blonde hair and could just make out a nose and mouth as it the hood was covering its eyes. I just lay my head back down, shut my eyes tight and cuddled into my boyfriend. Told him about it in the morning but he just laughed it off.
Again, I just asked my nana and grandie to look after me.
We recently this year in April moved into our own house. I did feel so happy and it felt like home, until the past few weeks...
It's a new house and only 5-6 years old so it can't be haunted. It started off with me having a dream late one morning. Id woken up early when my boyfriend got up for work and as I didn't have work myself, I drifted off back to sleep and I dreamt I was still in bed but I was definetly scared of something but couldn't see something. When I tried to call out my voice wouldn't work and when I tried to move, my body was a dead weight and I couldn't, I knew I had to wake up! I didn't feel alone but I couldn't see anything!
When I did wake up I felt ok and at peace but then I started to question myself if I was asleep or in a trance? I really didn't know. I told my boyfriend about it and at first he didn't believe me but due to recent events, he's told me not long after I had this dream that he had a similar experience and felt something was on his legs and he couldn't move them and he tried to fight it and he said he could remember thinking 'your not getting the better of me' and then it went away.
Nothing more has happened to him since then but to me it has. I constantly feel like I'm being watched and that I'm not alone. You can hear next door quite clearly but the thing is some bumps and bangs feel like they're coming from up our stairs. I feel like something is watching me do everything, even when I'm in the shower. I felt so strongly about this the other night that I took my picture of my nana and grandie to bed with me and its still on my bedside table.
I just want to know how to cope with this and if it means to cause me any harm. I feel so down and scared when I on my own in the house but once I leave for work or go out I'm fine and don't feel scared any more. Its got to point where I was having a bath the other night and my boyfriend was only down stairs (our stairs are in our living room and the bathroom is at the top of the stairs) but I felt like I needed to put a towel by the door to stop it from slamming shut by someone. It's really getting me down. Can anyone advise me how to get rid of this presence or at least learn how to cope with it and not feel scared!