For quite some time I had experienced some really unusual things, and these things that would happen... Would only happen to me. My boys didn't have anything happen to them.
I at first started hearing walking around out in my kitchen while I'd be out in the living room. It sounded like heavy boots or something like that. I then began hearing unusual noises, like that of things getting hit or pushed onto the floor. It was always late at night when these things would happen.
I'd start to hear things like something being thrown across the room hitting the wall behind my head, but nothing was there. I would hear a fist hitting my computer desk, hard! I didn't want to sleep in my bedroom. It didn't feel right. I would try to sleep in the living room out on the couch. Things still would happen.
I had my boyfriend come over for the weekend and I was happy to sleep in my room then. Nothing would happen when he was with me. I came to the conclusion that something wasn't right. The pictures I would take had these balls or "orbs" as I later found out in them.
My boyfriend made fun of me one night picking on me about these things that were happening and said that he wasn't scared of no ghost. I was upset and I went to my room. My son decided to joke around taking pictures and a red ball was in it.
Later that same night. I woke up at around one thirty in the morning hearing thumping. I thought my son was having a seizure and I ran out into the kitchen and he wasn't there. I went back to bed after realizing he was fast asleep. About a minute later, it started up again, after a minute or two it stopped. I realized it was one of my kitchen chairs rattling.
Then my T.V. Started to make a popping noise and the volume shot up on it. I sat up. I looked over at my boyfriend and watched his leg getting picked up and slammed over and over on the bed!
I found out through a medium that this spirit is my father. She described him perfectly. He was only trying to get my attention, letting me know it was him. The medium explained to me that he was getting after my boyfriend for being mean to me, not trying to scare me that night.
My dad was very protective of me and I know that he is still at my side. I get cold spots by my left side at times. Every now and then I hear the walking around in my kitchen, a dark shadow going into my kitchen. I know it's him. I love having him here... Watching over me.
I really got the feeling that it was your father particularly when you mentioned the sound of the fist slamming on the desk. I can just imagine your father's frustration as he tried to find a way to communicate to you what he wanted to say. Perhaps he has a message for you or needs you to know something? If you feel strong enough to do it, try opening your mind and heart a little more, and asking out loud if there's anything he wants to tell you.