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Urgent Help Needed With A Curse!


First of all: Sorry for my not so good english. It isn't my first language. It also isn't my second language, but I will do my best to make it as clear as possible. I am really in need of help.

Please, bare with me.

Dear reader,

I am a woman from Turkey and I live in Switzerland. My family in Turkey is being targeted with black magic right now.

Usually, I do not believe in black magic stuff. But since two weeks, strange things are going on in that house.

Last week (Thursday), my cousin, who lives in that house, went with her boyfriend to her sister's house for her birthday. Her boyfriend even bought the birthday cake.

All was well, they were happy and wanted to get married.

The next morning, on Friday the 21st of June 2019, he broke up. He said that he didn't love her anymore. And that was it. Since then, my cousin has been crying, she has huge black rings under her eyes and lost 4 kilos in one week. First, everyone thought because of heartbreak. But usually, my cousin eats more when she is sad, not the other way around.

The same day, they found smearings around the entry of the house door. (We suspected it might be pig oil). My mother, who is there right now, cleaned the door and made a short prayer. But my cousin still doesn't eat and the rings under her eyes only worsened.

Beside that, everyone who is in the house, has a headache!

I, along with my sister who lives in Switzerland as well, had a headache, too! Even after taking countless pain killers, we both still had a terrible pain. That was really scary.

And yesterday, the 27th of June 2019, they found a wet paper folded, around pig hairs. Knotted in their center together. Someone made such a thing!

In Turkey, it is widely known that pig hair, or pig oil or meat or whatever from a pig, usually brings very bad luck, and combined with a curse, it can get really bad. Considering me and my sister got a headache at the same time while talking to my mother via FaceTime, scares me. The potence of the curse seems to be very strong if such a distance can't stop it from reaching us.

An uncle took my cousin to his mother who prayed for her the whole night. Then, my cousin told everyone that such things happen regularly, but she didn't take them serious for she doesn't believe in them. But seeing how everyone got affected by it, either with pain, sudden big sicknesses, bad luck and fortune, and seldom happiness, she is slowly changing her mind and is actively looking for help.

Witnessing such things, and generally being a careful person myself, I want to clean that house forever from such curses. I want my family to be happy, and not cursed.

Does anyone of you know how to clean a house from a "pig hair knot curse"?

Today, they invited a "Hoca" (a muslim priest) to make prayers into the house. I told my mother to open all windows and doors, so that any evil spirit housing there (due to the curse) gets kicked out. Also, I told my mother to let a lot of water get blessed, and clean the whole house with that water. (Can't hurt, right?)

I believe in the bad eye, because, whenever someone tells me that I am beautiful, I get a huge headache. But a target curse? Preparing all the disgusting sh*t, with pig hairs and whatnot... Well, I still am not sure, but I want my family to be safe.

I will go to Turkey in the middle of July, and we will do the Turkish "lead melting ritual". I believe, it might protect us for a while. But seeing the person did that cursing stuff since many years to my family, which is shrinking from year to year due to some strange illness, suffers a lot of pain, I won't allow ANY such possibilities to destroy them any more.

My sister died at the age of 33. My father died one year later, at the age of 56.

My uncle died at 60, another aunt died at the age of 40. And many more people who seldom reach the age of 60, even though they used to be very healthy.

They are scared, and it is my sincerest wish to protect them. Can I do something from here?

We suspect someone, who is skilled with black magic, and she is in our family, sadly. Although we can't prove that it was her, everyone seems to know that it was her.

1. How do I/we purify our house from such a curse?

2. Can I do something from here? My mother is there as well, and I fear for her safety, too.

3. I instructed my family there to install a video camera outside the entry door, so they may have the final proof needed. But then what? The suspect is living in the same apartment...

4. How can we protect ourselves from such curses in the future? Or the continued attacks of that person?

Thank you all for your help. I am really unsure on how to proceed.

P.S. There is a picture from the oily paper with pig hairs knot... I don't know how to upload it here?

2. P.s. I am a bit startled and scared, it is quite possible that my story here is a bit... Well mispelled or wrong sentence and all. I am really (negatively) excited about all of this...

Thank you.

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Cosmos (26 posts)
2 years ago (2022-01-07)
Hi Didos,

I just read your post. Sorry to hear about what you and your family members went through.

It seems like it's been some time since you shared this experience with us, so I was wondering if anything has changed? I hope things have improved and you guys have gotten rid of this curse.

I m curious to know if your family caught the person who orchestrated this evilness?

Any updates? I hope the conditions of your cousin improved and you and your family managed to get rid of this this evil stuff.
valkricry (49 stories) (3275 posts) mod
5 years ago (2019-08-15)
Didos, it takes awhile for pictures to show up on the site. Once it is added to your story, Martin will leave a comment stating it has been added so that everyone can see.
Unfortunately, if your cousin will not accept your help, there isn't much you can do. I do know with a strong entity (or in your case curse) it isn't unusual for things to be worse before getting better. That's because it is fighting back, and trying to scare you into stopping - you've 'hurt' it! Repeat the cleansing, as often as you need to.
Since your cousin rejects your help, but the rest of your family seems to at least willing to try, perhaps you can find someone to perform a binding spell on the person you believe to be the cause. It will not cause them any harm, but it does prevent them from causing further harm. Best thing is the suspected culprit doesn't even need to be present. A picture will do.
Do not forget, your cousin is in a sense of mourning for her lost love. She is older now, and feels it much deeper. She will react differently than in the past. All you can really do is stand by her as best you can, and let her know she is still loved. The curse is affecting her more than the others because she was already weakened.
Can you not arrange this "Lead Melting Ritual", yourself?
Didos89 (5 stories) (17 posts)
5 years ago (2019-08-15)
Dear Bibliothecarius, and everyone else

Thank you all for your help, for the nice comments and the A+.:)

The part with the personal things for a curse:
When I saw the picture, I first thought it was my cousins hair, because she is blonde. But I guess a photo would be enough for a curse. Maybe one of the hairs was hers, since the woman we suspect often comes to our apartment. (And had many opportunities to get some hairs from her brush.)

We cleaned the house with vinegar acids and opened all doors and windows. I asked every day for the "Lead Melting Ritual"... But my cousin said "will do tomorrow, I will arrange it" and then disappeared.
Obviously, we never got to make the ritual.
She, however, went to the hoca once a week for a prayer ritual and he made her a "muska" after she told him about the happenings in our home.
Now, she even goes to sleep with that talisman, still with all the lights on. I didn't see any "new" bruises on her. Only a few fading ones. Maybe it works? She didn't want to talk about it like I expected her to do.

What I find most disturbing is her character. She got those blue rings around her eyes. She looks paler and lost a lot of weight. Even though she is a very beautiful young woman and usually in good health, she is different. I am not sure if I can say that she is crazy or not. Considering she starts laughing while everyone is silent. Or starts shouting. She is usually a very energetic and positive person. Now she is gloomy and very negative. I first thought it was because she parted from her boyfriend. But comparing her this time with her last few times when she got separated, there are huge (!) differences.
Her aggressive behaviour is one of the many (and most prominent) differences.

I wasn't allowed to install the camera since it gets too much attention, especially with night vision and the red lights around the camera. We coulnd't do the Lead Melting Ritual. And I parted from my fiancee three days after I entered that house... Strange coincidence? Curse? I don't know.

Back to topic...
Now, I can't do anymore. Seeing as she doesn't listen to anyone, except those fake mediums who tell her stupid stories like some djinn is in love with her since she was in her mothers womb and whatnot crazy stuff. She changed so much, I don't recognize her.

Now I am not sure if I can help her at all. She doesn't want my help. Or anyone. She goes to her hoca, some crazy medium with probably romantic fantasies with different creatures and pays a fortune to feel a bit safe.

We shall see what happens.

[at] Eerie69
I can send you a picture...
I have already sent it with via Email to "yourghoststories". But the picture did not get uploaded... And I don't know how to put it here...:< But I will send you an Email.

I will make a second post should there be something new going on. And I will have to wait just like everyone else who is interested in this problem...:<

Again, thank you all so much for your help and sharing your knowledge with me. I will definitely check them here again, should she allow me to do something I know and feel safe of.

Have a nice day.
Elli (1 posts)
5 years ago (2019-07-28)
Burn sage in all the rooms in your home and perform a cleansing ritual
Triskaideka (2 stories) (388 posts)
5 years ago (2019-07-27)
The comments below are wonderful, and I'd heed their wisdom. Personally, while I may not know about such particular curses, I'd say that a great way to clear oil is acids. I'd sweep the whole home, especially the entryway where there are smear marks. Then I'd douse the most seemingly affected areas with vinegar or lemon. Acids are great for breaking down oils. They also have the added bonus of denaturing proteins, sometimes those which are toxic or allergenic. The downside of any detox process is that for the next day or two you may feel *worse* than you did before. Sometimes you feel worse before you get better. So I can only imagine why opening all the windows made things worse. I'd be attacking *all* openings of the home with a spritz-bottle of vinegar. I suggest contacting a friend with an excellent sense of smell who can determine which areas of the house were attacked. Get friends with good eyes too. I'd scour the whole place and scrub and air things out. Expect to feel crummy for a good week but that combined with the spiritual defenses, I bet you can overcome this. (I'm realizing of course you're not there, physically, but these can be suggestions for your family who are there.) Best of wishes for you all. I believe in you.
Eerie69 (5 stories) (19 posts)
5 years ago (2019-07-27)
Hi Didos89!

I am so sorry about what is happening to you and to your family. I am no expert. But I tell you what...

There's no more powerful than the love of god and the faith that you have for it. This may not be helping you but setting up a security camera around the house will be definitely a great idea to capture who could be doing it.

The more you seek god the harder the situation is going to be. DO NOT GIVE UP! Tell whoever is doing that that you ain't scared nor backing down. Like literally! Because the more you let them see you're givin' up is the more they get stronger. BE POSITIVE! Get in the house shout at those whoever is doing it. Make your family member feel light and positive through prayers.

Do not let them take over your family nor your house. Let them outta your place and your life and to your family.

I am from the Philippines. If only you could lemme know perhaps send me some pictures of what you have taken I would highly appreciate it

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Bastet (2 stories) (25 posts)
5 years ago (2019-07-22)
Hi there -
So sorry to hear about your situation! I would guess in this type of situation It would be better to avoid assumptions and to contact a highly professional reader/spiritual worker. I personally have some expierence with these people: (
I myself are quite sceptical myslef, but I originally come from culture where these things are quite acknowledged.
Pasindu (9 stories) (25 posts)
5 years ago (2019-07-22)
Hi Didos89, first of all I am so sorry to hear about the tragedy which is happening write now, I do hope you will find a good priest or a medium to get ride of the bad entity,

But I strongly suggest you to make your family move out of that place first, but do that silently and do the spiritual cleaning form the new place.
Anno_Domini (3 stories) (167 posts)
5 years ago (2019-07-22)
Hi Didos,

I am sorry to hear about your predicament, and I was going to reserve comment, but your update reminded me of something which happened to the mother of an ex-member of my cell (bible study) group, Aunty "SH". SH is a middle-aged lady with a daughter who's in her 20s. SH started having cancer (nasal if I remember correctly) a couple of years back, was treated and cancer went into remission. Unfortunately, the cancer came back about middle of last year (2018), and progressed until she had to be warded. She shared this story ith out cell group in Dec 2018 on my first visit there (we joined a new group).

While in the hospital, SH was in a shared ward (I can't remember 4 or 6 beds). Even with her deteriorating condition, she was upbeat as her faith in the Lord is strong, and even made friends with her ward-mates.

While the other beds in the ward had transient occupants, one bed next to hers had a lady who was warded for deteriorating health due to unexplained circumstances (doctors were not able to find a medical cause). Over the course of the next day or 2, Aunty SH found out that that woman was being terrorised by a demon (likely "sent" from a curse) and was absolutely terrified of falling asleep as the demon would terrorise her in her dreams. IIRC it also manifested in her home but would only disturb / appear to her and no-one else. She kept hearing voices (threats) and was also tormented physically when awake and felt its presence and literally was scared that she would die in her sleep, so she went for many days without sleeping.

Aunty SH shared the gospel with her and explained that Jesus will be able to help her, and prayed with her and for her over the course of the next few days. Gradually, the demon's attacks diminished and ceased altogether. Aunty SH also recommended a church near the victim's home which someone Aunty SH knew attended.

Amazingly, during Aunty SH's stay at the hospital, her own cancer started to go into remission too, and she was discharged soon after. When she related this to us, she was still wearing a headscarf as she was recovering from her chemo ordeal. Actually she didn't even plan to come to the cell group and share her story but it was the first time since she was warded that she was able to take a walk a couple of blocks (aided by her daughter) to my cell group leader's home as she recovered and we happened to meet at his house on that day (she didn't stay for the study). I believe that God put her there to minister to and pray for the victim of oppression and lead her to Him.

My advise to you is to find a pastor or a priest who will be able to help you, and I will be praying for you.
RCRuskin (9 stories) (826 posts)
5 years ago (2019-07-19)
Upvote for you, Biblio, though it won't let me. *cry* So glad there are knowledgeable people on this site.
Bibliothecarius (9 stories) (1091 posts)
5 years ago (2019-07-19)
Greetings, Didos.

As an English teacher, I shall state that you have good writing skills. Of course, as with any writing, there were a few tiny mistakes but *nothing* that was confusing. You explained your situation clearly and you described the events well. You would earn an "A+" in my class.

Breaking knot-worked spells is *usually* as straightforward as untying the knots. When the knots were being tied, the spell-caster focused his or her anger/jealousy/hatred upon the intended victim/victims; untying the knots *should* release the negative emotions from the curse and reduce its power. [Note: I'm working form a familiarity with European traditions, mostly Anglo-Celtic. The pig is an unclean animal in Islam, so there may be more cleansing work or blessings to be performed after the knots have been untied.]

Was there anything written on the paper in which the knot was found (like your cousin's name or her boyfriend's name)? Sometimes the curse is written onto a piece of paper in invisible ink, such as lemon juice, which can only be seen when held close to a source of heat and light, such as a candle flame.

Provided that the knot-casting curse is done in a similar manner to the old European ones, the magic would involve tying other items into the knots, too. Debris from the dirt around the property, such as feathers or dead grass stalks, are common, as are items that are connected to the intended victims. These "connected" items may be thread from a garment, fingernail clippings, a lose hair, an earring, etc., that will focus the curse through belief in traditional "sympathetic magic."

If the knot has been destroyed (burned or thrown away), that's a normal reaction to finding one, but it is not the same as undoing the spell. If no-one wants to go through the nastiness of untying it, running water, such as a stream or a river, would be a good place to dispose of the item; running water is used to wash away physical dirt and unclean spiritual energy. If it has been destroyed already, then your family will have to work against the spell's effects as each one occurs.

To help remove the curse's effects from family members, there are blessed herbs and oils that can be added to a regular shower or bath; these include rue, salt, sage, and frankincense. Using them while praying, thinking positive thoughts, deliberately rejecting the curse, etc., is one traditional, non-confrontational way to reduce the strength of the magic. Given your additional information about the increasing strength of the experiences, I'd recommend that this be followed by another ritual cleansing of the entire house.

It is my experience that the evil intentions of human beings that need to be removed so your family can be strong together to eliminate the problem. While the person whom you suspect is responsible is a family member, this will cause a great deal of tension. Either she is responsible and will deny it, or she is not responsible and will deny it. Either way, having arguments between family members will increase the negative atmosphere in the house and provide fuel for the unpleasantness to continue. Your cousin's unhappiness will be the most difficult part of dealing with these horrible events.

Take care,
RCRuskin (9 stories) (826 posts)
5 years ago (2019-07-19)
Hi again, Didos.

I'm not surprised it made things worse. As I, think, I reported elsewhere, I'm also dealing with my own demons. They get angry when we seek God's protection.

Do not give up. Do not give in.
Didos89 (5 stories) (17 posts)
5 years ago (2019-07-19)
Hello RCRuskin,

Thank you so much for your message. I sent this "story" two weeks ago. Since then there happened more things. And my mother is scared out of her mind. She watches my cousin at night how she wakes up crying. The girl is nearly flying from sleep and starts praying like she was mad and looks around, scared as hell. Since one week, she keeps all lights on when she goes to sleep. Now my mother found many blue bruises all over her body and asked her about them. Yesterday, she confessed to my mother that she feels someone at night, very close to her, touching her everywhere and hurting her. At first she can't fight back, can't move. Then she gets up, and still feels the presence very close to her. That she can't sleep anymore and that she is scared from the house. Even though she is scared, she doesn't want to leave the house.
The case with pig hair/oil is usually some sort of a "sacrifice" to those demonic "djinns". If they accept the sacrifice, they do their job.

The day the hoca came, I told my mother that she should opem ALL doors and windows. She did that. Later I asked her how the blessed house felt like. Has it become lighter? Free? She told me, that she feels like everyone is more aggressive than before. That alone told me that the hoca's prayers were useless. I told my mother that she should take someone to the house who does the Turkish "lead melting" ritual. At least once a week for a month or two. But they are waiting on us to arrive there to do that. The ritual usually help expelling evil spirits and curses. Since I too am experiencing "strange things", I think my cousin is waiting for me to talk and look for help. And I want to be prepared for everything. I want to protect my family. *sigh*
Rooks ritual has been made, somewhat similarly. But it got worse... As you can see above.
If there are djinns involved and priests (usually useless) prayers make it worse, I feel like this is a bad omen...
I don't know...
RCRuskin (9 stories) (826 posts)
5 years ago (2019-07-19)

I've never heard of the pig's hair knot curse before, so my ability to assist will be limited.

My first advice would be to contact an Imam or Hoca, which you report you have already done. As my parish priest once said: there are no long distance priests, so I would encourage you, and anyone facing such situations, to seek help from someone who knows you, knows your area, and who knows what you're dealing with. Allah istekli ise you will get the help you need. (Yeah, Google Translate, and I hope that's correct. I have no way of knowing:)

Https://, one of our users Rookdygin, has a procedure on his profile that may help. Discuss it with the Hoca first, of course, to make any corrections that are appropriate.

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