I knew it was time to do the right thing, so I used a technique that was given to me on this site. I really wanted to complete it sooner but family problems kind of got in my way. I'm usually the one that takes care of situations that occur on my side of family and my husband's at times. I don't ask for the jobs but they are usually given to me.
Last week I went to bed. I was only in bed for about twenty minutes when I heard someone whisper my name and they continued to whisper for a few seconds. I was unable to make out what else was said. I was very frightened I jumped up and screamed "what" then I ran out of my room into my living room where my husband was asleep on couch. I have to admit it took me a while to go back to sleep.
This other incident took place a few weeks ago on a Saturday. My family and I were baking Christmas cookies with all the kids. Some of us were sitting down in my dining room and my oldest daughter who is not my biological daughter but I have known her for years and she calls me mom and have bonded as mother and daughter. She was leaning on my kitchen counter looking at us and my nephew was next to her with his back facing us. While we were all talking my daughter turned completely around looking towards the front door. I asked her what was wrong and she said that she heard the bells moving on my door. There was no one there to move them. My niece and nephew also heard the bells and they were very shocked. I looked at my nephew and he looked as white as a ghost. I told him that he looked like he had seen a ghost or something. He just wouldn't stop looking at my door. He told me when it was time for him to go home that something was wrong with my house that strange things happen a lot. I asked him if he saw something he didn't want to say but I do feel that he did and it scared him. The rest of my family was confused about what happened. I was the only one that didn't hear it I guess I was busy talking.
Another incident that keeps on happening is that the ornaments on our tree keep on falling off. Everyday not one or two but several will fall off. When we are out of room we hear them hit the floor. The amount that's falling has never happened before. My tree honestly looks horrible and beat up now.
The day finally came to burn the incense and light my candle. Before I started I said a few things out loud to my brother. I told him how much I love him and now I truly want him to be at peace and want him to find the light that some day we will be together again. I also reassured him that I will be ok. I lit the incense and candle and for some reason my candle seemed to flicker around in a circle very fast. My daughter noticed it first. It burned fine but every time I got near it, it would burn crazy. I also felt my hair being touched lightly, I felt a finger rub the back of my neck. It felt real yet I didn't get scared. I'm still lighting my candle everyday and burning the incense. I want my brother to find peace. My daughter, the one I spoke about earlier, is Laos and she does not feel he will move on until it's my time. I'm hoping she's wrong.
I feel that we may have other spirits in our home and I hope with me burning the incense they will leave and find peace.